1. Do you constantly talk about sex with your wife/SO?
2. Does it bother you if an escort refuses to partake in sexual discussions? 3. Is there any point in the day when you stop thinking with your penis? 😂1. No, I'm single...
2. Not really...I'd much rather be having sex than talking about it...but there is some sexual discussion necessary to ensure a good session so if there's no willingness to discuss it there's going to be some issues...
3. For me, yes...my job can get a little intense at times...my hobbies include woodworking and it's not a good idea to be thinking about sex when you're pushing a board through the spinning blade of a table saw...and I do occasionally sleep...
but I am sure we disagree about just how overrated being a "grown up" actually is.
As for her original questions, I am much the same as you.
I too have no wife/SO
I also would much rather be having sex than talking about it.
but I do believe my dick is almost always doing the thinking for me. I guess it's because I still have the sex drive of a teen ager, but I am trapped in a body that is well over fifty years old. I would still love to have sex four or five times a day, but that desire only lasts until I come, I still think about a second, third or even fourth round, but thoughts of a beer and a pizza first do come sneaking in. lol
No I talk about basketball as I use to play it competitively and the NCAA tournament is still in action. All other sports, casino mainly black jack and poker, rock climbing, hang gliding cars and other activities that I like to participate in. I was talking to someone about dinosaurs and animals as well. Ill talk to anyone about anything.
I don't care if a escort refuses to partake in sexual discussions before we meet but what does bother me is when I hear I don't want to see you based off something you typed on a board. That drives me crazy.
Yea when I am spending time with my family or when I am doing something important and need to be focused.
2. Does it bother you if an escort refuses to partake in sexual discussions?
3. Is there any point in the day when you stop thinking with your penis? 😂
1. No, I don't talk about sex with my ex; it will only start a fight.
2. It depends on the situation.
3. I don't think about sex when
a. I'm walking my dog
b. I'm at work
c. I'm with my daughter
I could go on, but I think you get the idea
1. No. Almost never. The subject is distasteful to her.
2. No, but I greatly enjoy such discussions.
3. Lots of the time, even when I'm awake. 
I have a friend of mine who seemingly can't talk about anything without relating it to sex. I can't tell you how annoying this is. Lol He sent me a text early this morning. "Happy Easter sexy" I responded with a generic happy Easter. 0600 you'd think that would be the end? Nooooooo his next response "mmmmmmmm it would be much happier if you were riding my big fat cock". My response "really jay"?
... a lack of maturity and even a lack of respect, i.e.treating women as only objects of sexual satisfaction. Even when I'm with a provider we talk about a lot more than sex. Had a discussion recently with a provider about recent discoveries in physics... now THAT was stimulating!
Don't they realize that is ANNOYING??? LOL.
I always reply that I'm "with family" or "doing work"
Also, I've had clients text "I'm bored"
As I get older, I text less and less, even with good friends. I use texts mostly to set up times to meet, logistics, etc. Example: "Hey, I'm going to dinner at This Bar tonight. Want to join? I'm planning to get there around 7", then "Hey, I'm here. I'm sitting by the big plant"
I don't want to spend my day texting back and forth, or always be looking for/waiting for my phone to beep.
I rarely ever text (or email, or anything else) just to chat. When I want to chat with someone, I will do it in person..
1) Wife - no, lover - yes
2) Typically only as much as necessary to insure we are both satisfied
3) Not often and not for lon
Here are my answers....
Even when I was married we really wouldn't have discussions about sex or sexual interests. There wasn't much "chatter" going on during intimate moments either.
Does this include dirty talk? Either way I don't mind if we talk about sex and sexual things. Especially eachother's sexual interests...it can certainly spice up a session.
I can't really think with junior at the helm while I'm at work. Won't look good with that hard on presence going on because I'm usually in or around the general public (our veterans). I'm with Jelloman...I have a hobby that could also be a bit dangerous. I play with hot glass and if a glob of molten glass ever dropped off and landed down there it would quite painful not to mention putting junior out of action for a while lol
D.
Cool hobby! Dirty talk in the moment and a pre date discussion are different and that stuff is alright with me.
Even when I was married we really wouldn't have discussions about sex or sexual interests. There wasn't much "chatter" going on during intimate moments either.
Does this include dirty talk? Either way I don't mind if we talk about sex and sexual things. Especially eachother's sexual interests...it can certainly spice up a session.
I can't really think with junior at the helm while I'm at work. Won't look good with that hard on presence going on because I'm usually in or around the general public (our veterans). I'm with Jelloman...I have a hobby that could also be a bit dangerous. I play with hot glass and if a glob of molten glass ever dropped off and landed down there it would quite painful not to mention putting junior out of action for a while lol
D.
1. No. She is "old school" meaning only when necessary.
2. TBD, hasn't happened one way or the other.
3. If I see an attractive woman (includes any female 18-50 or so, my mind and imagination go to work. This could be at the gym, grocery store, a restaurant, or almost anywhere.
My question is--I wonder if she is a provider and what would she be like?
1. Unfortunately my wife and I do not talk about activities in which we do not share interests. (I love to Kayak, she has no interest, we don't discuss it.) I used to talk about sex frequently with my girl friend
2. Most providers talk about sex just enough to get it right between us but some are more generous with their thoughts.
3. This is a very interesting question. Of course in the middle of a medical emergency, talking to the family of a dying person, dealing with someone in pain, counseling one of my employee who needs guidance and is upset I don't think about sex ....at least not much. I believe there is very fleeting sexual thoughts that invade my mind throughout the day. Take the medical emergency: I am concentrating on the problem, a nurses' aid with a magnificent ass walks by, for 1.76 seconds my mind registers this then goes back to the emergency. I am talking to one of my doctors who is one of the sexiest women I know and divorced and horny and makes loaded comments all the time. I am always attentive, supportive and professional and never allow any of my prurient thoughts to escape, she is sitting there upset about something in the practice and I am totally involved in her problem but the are brief flashes of you know what which I keep locked in my brain.
Frankly I have had these thoughts literally since I can remember, but they exploded after the first time I ever had real live sex with a real live "older woman" I was 13 she was 16. and from that moment on intrusive sexual thoughts (some long some just lightening like flashes) made a permanent home in my brain where they live to this very day in my mid 70s. Since I don't let these thoughts escape of intrude on important thoughts (just that 1.76 seconds at a time) I think I am OK.
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...why is that asked to only "the fellas"?
Number 3 could easily be substituted with "vajayjay", to which the answer would be " no*.
Lopaw I asked the gentleman because in my 44 years on the planet I have never said Happy Easter to a woman and had the conversation take a hard left into sex.
Number 3 could easily be substituted with "vajayjay", to which the answer would be " no*.
1. No. We talk about it occasionally but not all the time.
2. No. What type of discussions are you referring to? Do you mean what they will do or talking about sex during the session? Or do you mean discussions before or after the session like texting and emails?
3. Yes. Sometimes when I sleep and when I'm concentrating at work. I'm a horndog though and think about women and sex a lot though.
1. I never talk about sex with my wife/SO. That's why I'm here.
2. An escort has never refused a sexual discussion with me. That's why she's here.
3. I never think with my penis. All sessions need to be well thought out, and planned days and weeks ahead of time. There are times when I'm really turned on looking at your ad, but could never just call you right then. Besides, the chances that you're available exactly at that moment are pretty slim, so I'll be patient.
I hear what you're saying. But, this person that I speak of is not one of my special "friends". This is a civvie friend who is married in an open relationship. Thus, I think because I do what I do and do it oh so well...dummy thinks he is going to score. Truthfully, he is not even in my age range. For the record if you're trying to get into an escorts private life let the sex come naturally. Constantly doing the mmmmmmmm thing is retarded.
sically every action that I partake in is done with some goal in mind. And if you keep going through each scenario, eventually you can boil it down to sex.
Let's try this for fun:
When I go to work, the purpose of this is to make money.
... I wish to make money so that I can be viewed by society as "dateable."
... I wish to be perceived as "dateable" so that I can have sex with women.
When I go out with friends or have fun, the purpose is to blow off steam.
... The reason I wish to blow off steam is so I can be a relaxed person.
... The reason I wish to be a relaxed person is so ladies will find me fun to be around.
... The reason I want to be fun to be around is so I can have more sex with more women
That makes sense and yet I feel bad for you