SMH... If you know it takes you a while to climax, then you should plan accordingly. Besides, as long as you enjoyed the journey, does it really matter where you end up?

Hey it is what it is.  Honestly if you can't get off in an hour or two what exactly do you expect me to do? I understand every once in a while we just can't cum. I have those days myself once or twice every year.  

I can usually tell within 30 minutes if I'm going to cum. If I'm struggling, I'll start pushing hard then. I always like a little time to trade hobby lies, so if I haven't cum at the 45 minute mark of an hour session, I'm done. Time to go home. What's funny is that because I have her hot pussy fresh on my mind, I always go right home and cum for days on end. Unless of course, I have a date the next day.

I guarantee you there would be loads of guys loading up on the little blue pill who have no need for it, just so they could fuck away to their hearts content, turning hour long appointments into three hour fuck fests.

We can't control your bod anymore than you can...no matter how good anyone is

Of course if some of the reason is "poor time management" on her part.  (So waiting for the last 5 minutes in a HE massage to start the happy part.) I still would expect to leave or pay more, but I'm not likely to repeat.

Mind over matter. So have a convo with your mind first...the rest will come lol

Also known as Hole Life. Another fine financial service product from Rasha Fidelity Limite of the Cayman Islands.

Cumming isn't always the end all be all and nothing will fuck up a session faster than trying to cum in five minutes when it's clearly not going to happen. Besides a nice steak (or cheeseburger) awaits post session so don't view it as a failure and stop jerking off so much LOL

When that time expires the party is over. The lady has no obligation to extend the session due to your inadequacies.
What do you do ?
Thank the lady for honoring the time you've purchased and leave.  
What does she do......well that is entirely up to her. Some might give you a few more minutes. But none are any obligation to do so.  

If we're professional we'll have done our utmost to get you to the money shot in the time you've booked but with the best will in the world sometimes it just ain't happening that day.

Agreed it's on the client, but that doesn't mean the provider can't try to help it happen. And as noted above, the mind is truly the most powerful sexual organ. With that in mind, ladies you can make it more likely with some "spermy" talk. Examples:

If we're totally going at it  when your time is up (meaning you're actually hard & straining, NOT that we're still trying to wake Mr. Happy up to play!) then I'm not going to suddenly tap out and present you with your options i.e. "leave or pay up". Not unless you've already been an asshole, that is.  

e o f m, mf!

If you booked an hour and you couldn't get it going she had to work extra hard  

to determine if he has a noticeable "limp" and take appropriate action early on.

You can either pay for extra time, if she is amenable, or reschedule.  Don't know what else to say...

..and when it does it makes me feel horrible, no matter the reason for it occurring.  

..not cum during a session because of something the provider legitimately did or didn't do?  
Meaning...you usually have no problem at all finishing but for some reason (apart from bad time management) she either turned you off or couldn't arouse you enough?  

Of course

First thought is how much time did you book?  Knowing yourself did you book the correct time or did you "discount" your experience?  If you did the latter, did you really plan to see where you could push the limit to get extra time that you really did not contract for?  

And call me crazy, but I'm not the least bit turned on by mentions of sperm.  

1)  I seriously doubt Mr. Chz. is advocating BBFS, just talking sexily about it.
2) I also doubt he (or anyone) thinks it matters whether or not you personally find such talk sexy.  It's about what buzzwords will make the client get a nut.

Fair enough, but you can't have a cream pie without BBFS.  Just ask Tobi!

The times that come to mind are the women who act like they can never get "comfortable" and make sure they keep their body's angled as to prevent any real penetration and the moment you actually do get more than a couple of inches "in" they change again.

I probably only have a happy ending MAYBE 10% of the time. I don't hold back, its just something in my brain that stops it from happening.
Once my time is up I politely tell them its not going to happen and end the date. Its no big deal as I still enjoy my time !
I had one lady ( smoking' HOT ) kinda get mad and kept going after the hour was up . After another 10 minutes she asked what she could do to get me to cum . I'm relatively shy, but I then guided her for another 10 minutes and still nothing . We are now 20 minutes over and I'm ready to go .
NOPE !
She got back down on her knees and kept going for ANOTHER 10 minutes .
Finally she said if I was not going to orgasm then she was and said she enjoys greek A LOT !
That did it ! I think I lasted about 5 minutes and BAM ! Needless to say I became a regular because of her actions to make sure I left satisfied !
It still was hit or miss with her but we ALWAYS had fun and she ALWAYS got her O !

just ram her finger up his ass....if that doesn't do it...it ain't gonna happen.

I'll go over time (to a point) trying my best to get him to cum.  

every fucking day.  Give your nerved endings time to rebuild, and you'll be more sensitive.  You, not the provider, are responsible for your own orgasm.

Many guys as they get older have a harder and harder time cumming inside a condom. I too was a "two pump chump" in my youth, I could go a month without sex and still last a half hour before cumming as long as I was using a condom, well that would be if I could actually go a month without sex, perish the thought.lol

You know I was talking to the Tobster, right? Just replied it off your post b/c agreeing with you.

Bwwaaahaaahaaahaaa...I may be arrogant sometimes, but I'm no youth.  I'm 41, which, last time I checked, means I've been middle aged for about 6 years now.  I don't get as hard as I used to, but I can still bust a nut in no time.  It'll be interesting to see how things work when I'm in my late 50's.

35 is most definitely a kid on TER, unless of course you are provider in which case half of us will consider her "over the hill" and the other half will still consider her a kid.