I've been in this game for a while now and I've seen some places that were just out right dives and other places that were quite nice. Most services run at a reasonable rate. I recently got a quote for a 1/2 hour session that was rather expensive... It was sent via text along with the addresse of the establishment which is a real dive.  I simply stated via text that I would pass this evening because for that kind of money I can go to a much nicer place..
 I stated that I mean no offense but received a rather rude text in return..."F" you... And don't call again.
Did I blow it for myself am I now on some kind of list where I won't be responding to or should I not have said anything I just feel at this stage of the game I don't feel like throwing my money away any thoughts?

half-hour appointments.  Although there are legitimate reasons for some guys to schedule a half-hour session (getting it into a lunch-hour break, or sandwiched between business meetings, on the way home to their SO, etc.), for the most part, the providers I have talked to will just roll their eyes when you talk about half-hour sessions.  They assume the guy is cheap and doesn't want to pay for a full hour, but will expect the girl to cram everything into the half hour that she would normally do in a one-hour session.  If she doesn't, then he retaliates by writing a hit-review.  Its kind of a no-win for the ladies and that's why many won't even consider offering it.  I have a friend that will always schedule one-or two hours for the first session, then will follow with some half-hour appointments during his lunch hour (he's luckily only a few blocks from a big complex with about a dozen incalls).  That way, he shakes off the "cheap-look" and the girl will know its a work-time issue for him to do the half-hour sessions and not because he's cheap.  

Let me be clear I did not ask for the half-hour appointment. I called the number that I saw on Backpage and immediately received the text with half hour price and one hour price.. I never spoke to the provider directly I responded to the text that she sent. I will gladly spend an hour when I know it's worth my time but when the address came through with that initial text and the prices for the two choices, I immediately decided to pass because I know the establishment was a real hole in the wall. I personally don't like the book half-hour appointments I don't think it's fair to either party.

the one-hour or whether it was expensive, too.  I might have responded a bit differently if I had ALL the information at once.  

.... “been in this game for awhile now” and are complaining about a half hour session advertised on BP. Plus you want advice. Sounds like you are clueless.

No offense intended of course. lol

even if you did not intend it to be.

First of all, I'm very sorry you had an unsatisfactory experience. You could ask for the address and then look up on google maps to see what the place looks like before driving out there. I understand you don't want to waste your hard earned cash so I would advise you to research for quality company. Yes, these ladies are more on the high end but I feel like it would be worth while knowing you have the guarantee that you will be in the comfort of a provider with manners. Also, you will be most likely to be in a nice location. Or I would suggest you picking out the place and hosting. Best of luck.

I respectfully pass.

You've been in this game for a while? Whats a while? You said it was expensive? Whats expensive to you? Most sessions run at a reasonable rate? Whats a reasonable rate to you? These are all vague and relative terms. You didnt need to text them back that you could go to a nicer place. You could have just said ok, I will get back to you. Whether they're upscale or not(which we dont know cuz you dont provide any details), you basically said that their establoshmemt is a shithole for the price. Im sure alll establishments love to hear that. Show more couth...and a bit more common sense. To me, a reasonable rate is 260 to 300 an hour. See? I made it easier to determine my point of view and why I should or shouldnt be complaining.

that I shouldn't have jumped in with a substantive response on the scant information he provided initially.  It was a waste of my time in retrospect once he decided to provide a little more info that was NOT in the OP.  

only say what you need to say. "Sorry, I think I'll pass today".

Let me clarify about that last statement about complaining...i dont complain. I get a service...i understand it is a service and sometimes, for some reason or another for some people, it isnt always great. Thats not always a fault of one party or the other. Fortunately, I havent had to endure that. Sometimes things just happen or u dont click. Maybe the provider had a shitty customer before you (that whined n was an asshole)...it happens. Im sure we have all had bad days. But insulting their biz, as you did, will get u nowhere. I never assume things...u make ann ASS outta U n ME. In this case it sounds if you're just cheap and want the earth n the moon for as little as possible. Just what it sounds like. If you want cheap that's cool.  If you can't afford higher end ladies...cool too. We all have our limitations. However, we are all technically 'throwing our money away'.  Unless u expect a rate of return on this investment, remember that this is not. I love when people think that their car is an 'investment'.  You usually get what you pay for...unless you're whiny n demanding n you think you own the lady for an hour just because you paid. Curious, do you ever tip the ladies? Also interesting that you have 2 reviews...back in 2010. What places are you going to that you dont write reviews for 7 years then post what you did?

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Thanks CDL. You were just trying to be helpful to him and see a different perspective.

its a shit-hole, then just turn her over.  

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That was excellent. I was chuckling for quite a while.

...yet you immediately assumed it was an agency.  Is that because you only see K-girls?

Cue sinister music while the Shar Pei tries to hump my leg.  

Didn't somebody teach you along the way that if you can't say something nice about somebody don't say anything at all?  

I'll never be able to read Get Fuzzy again without that mental image.

When someone says or writes "no disrespect, but...," you know the next thing they'll say/write is disrespectful.

They are loosing their tenacity .You may want to start looking beyond backpage. Much better choices out there.

I have been at 5 star hotels on Michigan Ave in Chicago.....I did not think they were super clean. I have been at small mom and pop motels in the WI Northwoods that were $60 a night and I would feel comfortable  eating off the floor.  

How much would you charge for some one to put their dick in your ass and then make you swallow their cum? What would you charge?  

Is that you scan through Backpage, but expect some divine place?  
That alone doesn't make sense to me. I stopped posting on BP ages ago, and only did when I was still newer and got established here. BP is scum, in most cases. You can't go to a junk yard and expect to find a brand new BMW in tip-top shape, yanno? If you're looking for an incall, you can expect a 50/50 chance that it'll be a decent place - those chances go up or down depending on where you look, down in this case. Now, this isn't saying that 100% you're going to strike out on BP. I'm sure there's still a lot of classy ladies that post on there from time to time, especially in your area. But, if I'm trying to look at it from a hobbyists view, it doesn't seem worth the risk. 9/10 times you gents work hard for your money, why waste it somewhere like BP? If you're going to spend 100 for someone cheap on BP for a Half Hour, whats the extra 50/75 for someone higher end that will be more worth while? Otherwise it seems like a waste of the money. You can't have your cake and eat it, too.  

Then ask her if she'll go to your place to play. Or go get a room at a motel / hotel you're comfortable going to. I've seen some awesome providers at not so fancy motels. I had a great time even though the place she's working from wasn't a 5 star hotel.  

In my opinion guys do half hour appointments when they are meeting a girl for the first time. They don't want to commit to the full hour rate just in case its not the girl in the pic or they just don't click.
As far as location I believe you should receive what you pay for, your definitely right as long as you didn't cancel 10min prior to your appointment. Providers with higher rates should give you a better overall experience and that includes location. Would you see a girl with a rate of $700 an hour and staying at motel 6? it just doesn't make sense.
The F text you received just confirmed you dodged a bullet with her, its always good to follow your intuition.

Harley Rose  
I can’t believe you would talk this much trash being a fellow provider who started on BP. Does one advertising site make a girl trash from a junkyard and a different site make another high end? You’ve got to be kidding me. We all do the same thing. Is the girl on the street corner selling something different? I would never go on a public forum and bash others. Words like trash and scum. Have some loyalty to your fellow providers by not discouraging others from using advertising sites you no longer need or want to.  

If you read my entire post, you would see that I still said that YES there's still girls there that are legit. It wasnt my intention to bash anyone. But like I also said, it depends on your area. I'm in Orlando, for example. Where a good majority of the girls on BP are drug users, rob Gents, are pimped out, etc. A lot if people here, from what I've noticed, refrain from BP because its a hit or miss, or still look on BP because its cheap. I didn't mean any offense and i have all the love and loyalty for fellow girls, but yes there are providers out there who need to get their shit together and give others a bad rep - again, why i left BP. My point was that you can't go somewhere that is known for being a hit and miss and just expect a 5 star experience. Thats why forums like this exist. Just like there's scummy hobbyists, there's scummy providers. Scummy people in general. It has absolutely nothing to do with what you do, because yes we all do the same thing. But there's no reason to not present yourself better as a person in general. Be a streetwalker. I dont care. but dont walk the streets strung out doing this to get your next fix.  i discourage people from using back page simply because i don't see it as a safe place, again, in my area and from personal experience.