the point of this site is to know SHE is real by her reviews.
its not a verification site and your handle alone means nothing.

most of the women I know in his biz screen for your real name real info, as stated if you are unhappy with her expectations move on.

A big difference between the two.TER is not P411 or Date-check which are screening sites.
Anyone can get on TER it is not like ter does any screening that is up to the providers.
I do not accept appt requests from guys who say they are whitelisted and just provide me a handle and that is it.Whitelist does not mean anything to me.
The only exception to a whitelist is if it is by a provider that I personally know and even then I still need contact info and name.

I have read and been told by gents myself that some providers have given them whitelists and they have never even seen the provider.After hearing this and reading it over the years a whitelist and handle is not sufficient for me.
If you are not comfortable with providing your real name and contact info to a provider and she will not bend on her requirements why make a post about it?
Move on to a lady who will take your ter handle and whitelist at face value

I barely look at them. If something's is sketchy I will resort to taking a stool sample before I allow them to enter the GFE spa.if the poop floats they can come in.
I find things go a lot better if you just carry a huge knife and keep your fingers crossed
the funny thing is
if somebody wants to wait outside your front door with a pillowcase to throw over your head and some rope and a gun.
it's going to happen regardless of if a booking appointments or get screened there are nuts everywhere.
plenty of innocent people get abducted hacked up and mutilated everyday and they're not even escorting it just happens when they walk outside their door
I haven't been using my reservation forms personally lately but I've been having all great appointments and mostly outcalls to super super high and hotels so I can't really be too concerned about stuff like that
I actually tried to screen last month and nobody even made the cut I ended up not even getting any appointments because I was being such a bug.
I can tell a lot about how I feel about a person by hearing the sound of your voice on the phone.
but the whitelisting saying the only thing about that is is that some guy could say that he's a certain alias.
like say I go to contact one of the women that you reviewed and I say hey do you know this guy and his alias name sympathy for the devil he reviewed you he wants to see me.
I think a lot of the times the ladies are going to know who you are by the name of your alias or at least that's what I have found when I was actually trying to go through all that long annoying process of messaging all these different people just to get a goddamn appointment.
I only started screaming about a year ago and it is the most annoying process in the world.
I always use to just post the ad and have the people in.
now I feel like I am asking for everything but a DNA sample from these poor people.
I have had guys come to see me that use a fake real in first last name
I didn't know he was doing us but I found it out when I was in his car and he has a car that actually like talks to him and it used his name.
it had some kind of a machine voice that was like hey so in so start car or something to that effect
anyways I found out what is real name was by accident because we were hanging out and I hurt over her t***
but the fact that he had the fake name was helpful
because that way I could go and ask these two separate providers hey do you know so and so
speaking of safety I watched this show something about the museum
and they were talking about The Legend of Jack the Ripper
when they found the victim she had her stomach cut open and all her organs removed
she was a well-known prostitute in New York at the time I forget what her name was
the story is actually interesting they found her body and they know it was somebody that has to know professional surgery that had done it
by the way they had cut her open it was only a surgeon could have done a killing like that
they finally put a man in jail for the crime after finding some of her blood from the crime scene on the doorknob to his rum at the same hotel.
this man serves 6 years in prison
he was then released when they realized they had messed some things up and falsely accused him
they then discovered a second victim killed almost the same way I believe the second victim was found in England
my other favorite show I like to watch to get myself good in paranoid about doing a play with a new client,
if you watch the Investigation Discovery Channel you'll probably never see a new client ever again SCREENED
Or not.
then there's a show called happily married never after.
then there's some good shows on the Oprah channel like the one that's called snapped.
a lot of the really violent violent malicious crimes are crimes of passion and done by people you know not strangers.
but people get stabbed 50 or more someone times everyday all over the world for all different things and a lot of them innocent.
I have a reservation form but I only use it when somebody sketches me out or seems like they're up to no good.
my way of screening before when I had my other beach house was to meet the people up the street I would take a look at them and see how I felt about them and decide whether I wanted them back at the house or not!
unfortunately the risk was and always will be part of the fun for m

And exactly what does Alzheimer's have to do with any of this? I'm confused, if you are concerned about it being a LE setup, they'll get your real name and info when the bust you. I can completely understand how and why a lady wants to know who you are, I mean c'mon man you could be an axe murderer (ok, sorry had to throw some off color humor into this) but seriously every encounter for them could be a dangerous one. I would rather she be totally comfortable with me from the first moment we meet until we part ways, it makes the appointment that much more enjoyable. As the ladies said above, if you don't like a ladies requirements, move on.

Complaining...  These girls have to protect themselves and I don't blame them for not using TER as a screening method.  Since i started using p411, I have only been asked for my real info once.  It is well worth it, and really speeds the screening process as well...

Good luck,
Spartan

Originally? For guys to review women so that other guys would know if they were legitimate escorts or would rip them off. That's what the founder wanted.  

Now it's turned into a database of erotic reviews as well as a community for men and women who participate in this.  

I don't believe its intention is to make it safe for women to do this, so a screening site it is not.

And even if it was, no one is seeing me without a real full name. Period.  

In the end though. It's her biz.
That's kinda like bitching about a dress code in a resturant you know.

I always give my name.
Like Gambler. I'm pretty blackmail proof.
I don't have anything to blackmail Lol!
Unless she wants me to fix the bathroom.

For me. It's a comfort thing.
It's important to me think she has peice of mind.
If she is comfortable.. I am comfortable.

I see why some guys with a lot to loose won't give out info.
But you can't complain about a woman not accepting you without it.
It's whining..

If her requirements are too much, go to the next one. You will find plenty of women who meet your comfort threshold.

Providers have every right to demand who is coming over to do the most intimate thing possible between two humans.

TER is not a screening site.  P411 and DC are.    Join up or shut up.  Reviews and whitelists are technically fantasies, nothing more nothing less.  

If males don't want to go through screening, it's your choice.  Go away and find someone else then.  

There are clown-costumed, axe wielding psycho killers that would love to have you with a good Chianti out there, just as well as BSC, bunny-boiling nut jobz.   Fucked up in the head is not limited to XX or XY chromosome pairings.  

THEY are out there to get you, or not.  Depends on the fold of your tin-foil hat and if you like shiny side our or not.    

Everybody has little hairs on the back of their neck and feelings in the gut that are there to keep you from becoming saber-tooth tiger lunch meat.   Use them.

Bottom line:  The person with the pussy makes their rules to live, and the person with a dick either pays and plays by their rules or not.     It don't get any simpler than that

with the provider you're referencing. Her non-stop posting of 'specials' and 'new rates' is a little off-putting to me. I was considering seeing her before I saw all of that stuff, but have more than enough options without putting myself in what might be an uncomfortable position, so to speak.

If you don't want to give out your personal info, that's totally fine. That's your prerogative. But most of us who require that information make that clear on our ads/websites, so if you take the time to read what we write, you'll know that ahead of time. So if a lady outlines her screening requirements and you aren't comfortable divulging the information that she's requesting, just move on. Plenty of fish in the sea. But don't contact her anyway and expect her to make an exception just because you aren't comfortable giving her the info she asks for, then get all incredulous when she tells you that she won't see you without it. You'll only be wasting her time and nobody likes a whiner.

Which leads me to ask, do providers provide their real names? Should they not also have to be screened to ensure they won't misuse the information we provide them?

Moe Levish email Missy Mississippi after reading her sight. Missy wants to know if that's his real name, and he says yes. He gives his cell and she calls him. He refers her to his WhiteList, and she calls two or three of the women vouching for him, then she asks Moe where he works. He says he's self-employed. Doing What? He sells metals. Where? Down on 3rd Street.

So okay, she'll see him.

Missy's boyfriend, who works as security guard in Missy's building wants a lot of cash, so he gets Missy to fork over Moe's info. With that as a start, he figures out that other people name Levish are probably related to Moe. He calls them up and asks, "If you're next of kin to Moe Levish, please call me back." He notes which numbers call back.

Moe has a good time with Missy. He's a real sweetheart. As he's leaving, Missy's boyfriend meets him in the lot and they just talk about what Moe's Uncle Emile or Aunt Rose would say if they knew what their nephew was doing tonight. They also talk about how the boyfriend would really like to have some gold and platinum, and asks if maybe Moe could get him some of that stuff because, hell, Moe's been playing with his girlfriend.

Write your own ending, make it as violent or non-violent as you want. Doesn't matter if Moe gives up a few ounces or a few bricks. It's not going to be a happy-ending rub down. Missy is safe. Her safety has priority because she's conducting business and Moe just walked into her shop. She has a right to make a profit, and so does her boyfriend. And they promise to protect Moe from having his family from finding out. Sounds like a good deal, right?

Is this supposed to be the normal way things go?

and perhaps have a false sense of confidence because nothing bad has ever happened to them after providing this info.
Seems a little crazy to me, as it only takes one time for your info to be misused for you to be screwed.
Providing once to P411 was my entry ticket to the hobby, and if that, my okays, and references aren't enough, then its just not meant to be...