The "always does such and such and such" often sets off a downer. We've never met IRL, let alone had a session (maybe my loss, maybe yours, who can say), but in general I react poorly, perhaps disgracefully, when presented with the approach of a pat routine. I know that tailoring each encounter to the whims of each customer can be a mind-boggling drag in any form of entertainment, and that's not really the best alternative anyway. Too much forethought.

But once two people meet, the interaction (for the client) is a neve-been-never-will-be-again moment in what is probably an otherwise drab existence. So...wouldn't it be nice if the lady he chose from the hundreds that made themselves available to him in his geographical area would simply put aside the well rehearsed sequence of erotic numbers she "usually" offers up and-- I don't know-- just wing it?

Why THINK about what you're going to do? Why not just do what the moment suggests? Granted, the moment might suggest that you kick the bum out on his ass, but Beauty Demands Risk, so the poor fool ought to be ready to accept that possibility. OTOH, something outlandishly magical might ensue, something far more erotic and unique than anything either of you could have planned.

The problem with TALKING about it here on the board is that this TALKING already robs the encounter of its spontaneity. Talking about it as an prologue to the session is even worse.

There is already too much planning involved: set time, set place, set monetary exchange, set menu boundaries... At least the interaction itself might skate along the edge of the unknown.

Some women get this right off. Some could complete a six-year advanced degree in Sexual Improv and still not master it.

Okay, a first rendezvous poses a risk of another kind to a provider, so she might be reluctant to abandon control to the trust and commitment of just reacting to a stranger's dynamics, but still...

Asking you to look at the word ALWAYS a second time. That's all.