Maybe I am jaded after all these years, but a session is "just sex" it's not like I am meeting my future soul mate. Just relax and enjoy yourself. and yes, do make sure your hygiene is taken care of. She might not be your future wife, but she deserves fresh breath and clean junk.

Internal cleansing.....

Cleanse the Vag, backdoor & rinse the mouth with peppermint wash.

dress in my suit, gather my refreshment for the session (and any other fun things for our time together) and head out.

nothing special.

...and even though I'm always freshly showered upon arrival I will take another quick shower at her incall to be super fresh & ready to go.  

One ritual I have is to keep her donation in an envelope in my back left pocket.I don't remember why I started doing that, but its now part of my routine.

I hope 7 is still way off.

Other than cleaning up and dressing, not much.

I do clean up the house however as a rule Saturday AM, then go hobbying in the PM.

So, I guess that's my ritual

Suburban Hotel a little early... drive around.. Make sure I don't see any vans that may look like a police communications vehicle..  park.. take a blue pill.. mouthwash  then go in..

My "go to" ritual is a good 15-30 minutes of meditation. It lets me be more spiritually clear and commit more to the moment!!

Thats a lie

I don

You are not seeking an audience with the Pope – you are indulging in an activity that has been practiced for at least the past 5,000 years of recorded history.  Just do your homework, take a shower and exercise a common sense level of discretion. It’s no more complicated than that.

Take a shower, get dressed, make sure I have all of the necessities, and go...

I think relaxing your mind can really do the trick, The mind is a powerful thing.

I think relaxing your mind can really do the trick. Me personally I think having a conversation before the meeting would be helpful, it is a way to break the ice between the both of you but I understand that may not always be the case for a new hobbyist, sometimes having a conversation just isn't enough so you must tell yourself it is just a date, make sure you have done all your research and once you know you have done all your homework on the provider when the day comes just let it flow.  This is your first time and you will gather your thoughts a lot better the more often you choose to hobby

I too google map the location so I can plan ahead and not be late. Clip my nails. Do a thorough mouth cleanse (multiple brushes and mouth wash treatment).

 Like another poster said, I too have a strict no spicy food policy. You don't want to end up having bubble guts while you are there.  This rule came about because once I bad heart burn that ruined the session. I fought through the discomfort like a champ but it's still sucked it was happening.

Also I shave my face and man-trim.  Lastly, I throw on the lotion (full body) for smooth skin. Oh and some nice clothes. I know it's all going to come off in 10 mins and providers may not care but I don't want to look homely. Make an effort.

Now to the OP,  

is your real question "what can I do to not be a nervous wreck in the future?" Nothing really other than repetition. You get use to it and become more comfortable.  It took me 4 - 5 session to no longer be nervous at all. I've never been nervous around women in real life (as an adult), but when I first started it was the concept of having sex with a total stranger 10 mins after we meet that took getting use to. Never did that until I found this world.

Posted By: thediscman001

So I finally met my first provider, needless to say I was a nervous wreck! Knocked on the wrong room number and all, the meeting went well but I could've done better. Any advice to providers or hobbyist what you do prior to meeting someone (i.e) rituals.  
   
 Do you...  
 (1) Take a jog  
 (2) Take a shot of (insert your favorite alcohol drink)  
 (3) Take a shot of (insert your favorite sports drink (monster, redbull, etc)  
 (4) Mastubarate  
 (5) Exercise (I normally do a few push-ups to get the blood flowing)  
 (6) Hear your favorite tunes  
 (7) Take...ahem...my favorite male pills.  
 (8) Smoke the green stuff (then shower to smell fresh but have the high,  
 (9) None of the above, I just wing it!  
   
 Any advice will be much appreciated. The provider was awesome IMO.  
   
 UPDATE: Just added to the list number (8)

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10) S/S and S as close to the appt as possible

to ensure I am daisy fresh and clean.  A happy escort makes for a happier client.