Are you more likely to hit up a regulars friend or go completely off the the radar when you want to try someone new?
I feel if you go with a friend with someone you have a history with she is going to want to knock your socks off. Where if you venture out the experience could be just as good or it could be worse.
The only downside I see is the new girl being afraid that she has to live up to the standard of the friend which I don't think is true. If the session isn't good it shouldn't go back to the regular. After all this is all a gamble.
a regular of mine recommended a friend of hers, and i gotta say i was totally turned on by the idea that my good friend wanted me to get laid! lol! and her friend was outta sight, and i saw her a few times! (she is now out of the biz).
so I'd go see that gal figuring it makes more sense that way. Occasionally I'll bring a subject up with a regular and if she seems interested, we'll go there and try it out
Never asked a lady for suggestions, but most have said to feel free to use them as a reference. One even said that she knew most providers in the area, and to call her if I needed to know anything...
Isn't it kind of crass to ask an escort for recommendations? Different story if she has a list of friends on her website, or if you know she does doubles with another provider, or if it's offered up over the course of natural conversation. If I wanted to try something new, I think I'd just do the search function cause I can pretty much customize the type of woman I want
and everyone is connected in some way. Don't count on secrets lasting.
Even though this is p4p and everyone understands the NSA nature of it, sometimes feathers can get ruffled when a favored regular "steps out" on his favorite and very regular gal.
I don't think there is much you can do about that. Maybe you meet with a gal your fave doesn't like for some reason. Maybe you meet someone who turns out to be her best friend. Both can be awkward in their own way, either for you or for her.
IMHO, it is better to make your best choice for you, and at the same time let your fave know she is still your fave. We don't technically owe one another any explanations, but kindness, truthfulness and respect go a long way (for all parties).
Above all, keep confidences and never disrespect another in conversation. This world is too small, and all said will come around eventually.
My favorite lady told me early last year that I should see other ladies because she was concerned that I was getting too attached. Great advice. A year later, I learned to be vague about telling her who I have seen. She does get a little jealous, a change in voice tone happens. Even if she is trying not to show it. Hahaha
But, I also realized that it's ridiculous to worry about her or others knowing who I'm seeing because when I see someone new they are usually checking references from other providers. Some of them do the full email or phone call. So they are all going to know anyway.
Thinking that I can pretend that I see nobody else is foolishness. Even to my ex wife.
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