I love to have my ass played with. How do I find out, or ask, a provider if she will lick my ass and fuck my ass with fingers and toys?

Any providers in the LA area willing to help?

Yes, I am serious, and yes, I am straight.

definitely be nice to be able to find some FS lady who is willing to do that as well!!

Many ladies who would loooove to play with your ass will not initiate the game.  Why?  This is such a sensitive are for many gentlemen...  It is also physically a sensitive area.  If you desire this (hint: and guys who like anal in general!!!) be aware that good communication is necessary to avoid any harm.

My advice: ASK!
Just the same no matter what type of play you are specifically seeking: read reviews to find out who is likely to indulge you, wait until you are in the heat of fun to make special requests, and if the lady delcines - enjoy your time anyways then keep looking!

xoxo,
Sola

“Many ladies who would loooove to play with your ass will not initiate the game.  Why?  This is such a sensitive are for many gentlemen...  It is also physically a sensitive area.  If you desire this (hint: and guys who like anal in general!!!) be aware that good communication is necessary to avoid any harm.”

The reverse is also true

Hell yes there's something I wanna ask ya........ Ummmmmmmmmm..
no, that's okay..... nevermind.  

Well, possibly, now that you mention it...... Naw, it's ok.....

Shit, somehow I don't think this is the type of communcation you had in mind?

LOL.

The point is that for many (although some may not admit it) the anus is an very erogenous zone for BOTH sexes.  This is as an apparent sensitive subject for ladies as well as gents. Many ladies would loooove us to play with their ass but will not initiate or request the game either.  Catch-22, Yes, Sadly. Now is their something ya’ wanna ask me . Who will give in first??  Not Me…maybe.

I love this too and also love to give the same. I never ask. First I do it to them. Rarely turned down there. Then I say I love it also. Either they take the direct hint or not. My batting average is high. But you must be totally clean and shaved. You'd be surprised how many will accomodate.

Ya' know, you can just whisper it in my ear...
Open the fifth chakra just a bit...
remember to breathe.
Tell me hon', what's your pleasure?
; )

...with Sola. BUT... it makes me curious as well. I usually just ask the person what all they are into early on, so I know straight away what to go for and what to avoid. Perhaps, that is simply somthing I do cuz I enjoy most things and usually have less limits than the person I'm with. But I do think providers should take more initiative with this as well. Many men who have an interest in trying this are fighting a stigma about the whole subject and may feel uncomfortable discussing the subject, but want to explore with someone they may perceive to be more openminded or experienced. So basically, I'm cheering for open communication, it can possibly open new doors for both parties involved!!!

.....taking two lubed fingers up your ass and telling your provider to fuck you senseless all the way to her knuckles while she takes CIMNQNS.

If you can get this done, you'll be hooked for life. Before long you'll be requesting this "treatment" from all your ladies. You'll CRAVE IT!!!!