I have read some reviews where the guy saw the provider for the first time and sent her on her way because she was either not the woman in the ad/photos, or she was, but was completely different in person.

As a provider the vast majority of the time you only see your client the first time you meet.
Have you ever though, No I cant go through with it because he is so gross, and so you left?

I admit I am no Brad Pitt, so I have a few photos of myself on a website so a new provider can take a look, and if she accepts my booking, at least there is no big shock when she first sees me, not until I undress at least...lol.

Are you into baseball or football?

we just get numb.  We're used to it.  Lol!

abosolutely!!!
i will leave in an instant the odor is bad or he calls me a whore or bitch upon meeting. To each is own but not my thing. Before it can go bad, Id much rather just leave...

Guys walk out and I don't see why the ladies can't refuse on sight or at least on smell too. Airlines kick off passengers for poor hygiene and they are never anywhere near as close as we have to be.

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His body odor was so overwhelming I knew within seconds there was no way I could go through with this and I kid you not, this was not something a quick shower would have fixed. That was immediate.

I have asked a guy to leave because of his foul attitude, that was after about 10 minutes of chatting with him. Other than that, smooth sailing.

The dude knows the answers - it seems that way.

who posts a hobby related question. He is looking for other  people's opinions. Or trying to weed out which ladies who say yes...lol

... along these lines she said there were only two guys she told the agency she would never see again under any circumstances and both were because of, to put it nicely, poor hygiene, but in her words more like "I wanted to fucking puke when this load was on top of me". I would say how fucked up do you have to be to smell that bad and live with yourself but I knew one guy like that. Didn't brush his teeth either. Claimed it was unnecesarry. So I know the answer and it is - REAL FUCKED UP!

John, just reading through your last two threads (this one & the 'Provider Leaving Early' thread), you seem to lack confidence in yourself.  You're worried that a provider will walk out on you when she sees you for the first time.  You're also worried that she may leave early.

My brother, take care of yourself first.  Work out.  Buy some nice clothes.  Join a screening service.  Be clean, polite, and a gentleman.  Your provider will appreciate those things.   Your competition is not Brad Pitt or George Clooney.   Your competition is run-of-the-mill guys.  Do all the things I mentioned above and providers will want to see you. Some of them will contact you for a another session.  Let them worry about you walking out--you're the gentleman that's paying.  Good luck.  --z

and the lady saying to herself "No fucking way am I fucking Jabba The Hut today" and simply doesn't answer the door and quits answering the phone for a few hours.

I too am no Brad Pitt, and I rarely get looks of pure lust when the door opens, but I have noticed several times getting a "look of relief" when the lady first casts eyes on me. Considering I am well over fifty, that's good enough for me.

Thank you for all your answers everyone.

And yes I love Football. Thats real footbal played with a round ball, invented before Gridiron was a twinkle in your daddys eye.

Come on the Blues.

are you board moderator?

if not, stop acting like one.

nothing wrong with the question move along if you don't like it. otherwise, your response is useless.

talk about awkward, what did he say?

Awesome response Z. The ladies must love you!

John UK....Z has solved your concern. I would also suggest you buy a great book....You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay. It will guide you to feel better about yourself from the inside out.

Cheers, my friends!

Unless the guy has a legit problem I will still see him. For example, body odor, huge scraggly beard(it tiggles and hurts), etc.
I always find the average or below average guys are the most fun to be with! It's the nice looking guys who think they are doing YOU a favor by being here and can't fuck you for shit! TRUE STORY!