TER General Board

Overnight
bviboy 7 Reviews 3119 reads
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1 / 57

Ladies, how do you decide what to charge for an overnight and does it vary for someone you really like, and gentlemen, for those of you who have partaken, have you thought it was worth it?

Panthera12 1309 reads
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2 / 57

I am not saying that I have never spent a night with a hooker, but the notion of being on the clock while in an unconscious state is a total waste.

mrfisher 111 Reviews 1327 reads
posted
3 / 57

They are sometimes a great bargain too, but each can decide that issue for themselves.

I would also council people not to do an overnight on the first date, because chemistry is very important; however I'll admit that I have done a few on the first date (Though there was extensive communication prior to the engagement.) and they all went well.

The biggest asset to the overnight is the lack of having to keep an eye on the clock as you engage each other into the night.  Things can take their course, and, when the physical phase has past, the ability to curl up and drop off to the land of nod rather than have to get dressed and on the road is such a nice feeling.  If she's a good cuddler, then so much the better.

There are downsides of course, even beyond the large donation normally associated with the long time span.  The worst is probably snoring, and I'll admit to being an offender but also most gals tend to saw wood as well.  It's just something you have to learn to get used to.  Then some gals have the "jimmy legs", by which I mean restless leg syndrome.  Be ready to engage in some nighttime kick boxing with that one.

But all in all, I enjoy them and indulge when I am able to.

It's nice to have a morning wake up call too, and have breakfast together before hitting the dusty trail again.



DGL17 9 Reviews 1030 reads
posted
4 / 57

I totally agree!!!!!!

Posted By: mrfisher
They are sometimes a great bargain too, but each can decide that issue for themselves.

I would also council people not to do an overnight on the first date, because chemistry is very important; however I'll admit that I have done a few on the first date (Though there was extensive communication prior to the engagement.) and they all went well.

The biggest asset to the overnight is the lack of having to keep an eye on the clock as you engage each other into the night.  Things can take their course, and, when the physical phase has past, the ability to curl up and drop off to the land of nod rather than have to get dressed and on the road is such a nice feeling.  If she's a good cuddler, then so much the better.

There are downsides of course, even beyond the large donation normally associated with the long time span.  The worst is probably snoring, and I'll admit to being an offender but also most gals tend to saw wood as well.  It's just something you have to learn to get used to.  Then some gals have the "jimmy legs", by which I mean restless leg syndrome.  Be ready to engage in some nighttime kick boxing with that one.

But all in all, I enjoy them and indulge when I am able to.

It's nice to have a morning wake up call too, and have breakfast together before hitting the dusty trail again.

 

Panthera12 1259 reads
posted
5 / 57

I have little doubt that your incessant rambling necessitated extreme measures on her part to get some sleep and to make you become inert as well.

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 970 reads
posted
6 / 57

I need my beauty sleep..... a tad extra for me would be fine, I d do an over night for a grand . I am good for like max 2 hours of non stop fucking and sucking kissing, after that I am done, I know most charge for companionship too. If some one is willin to pay 100 for an overnight to me that be awsome, I tried the big 2grand or more menu options for overnight never had any one want one, I find it hard to believe guys get overnights for 5 grand from some the ladies, .. I just cant see it happening but apparently it may!
   I do generous multiple hour discounts because it not really hard work to socialize that part, The pse gfe part and spa services and massages is more what i am concerned with being paid for, If some ones is dropping money I am easy to please. I am one who will always be poor because I just dont feel like i need alot, .....I could care less. i do like having a nice apt, and stuff,

sophiaLA See my TER Reviews 1383 reads
posted
7 / 57

Paying a hooker to sleep…
How many pops…  

I would never overnight with anyone who thought this way. Some folks I can't even see for more than an hour without pondering where mankind went wrong. DYMM is right, it isn't for everyone.  
But if a "how many pops" books a "long as I'm drunk/high" I could see it working out.
Someone for everyone they say. I had an overnight last night and here are some reasons why it was awesome.

You get to spend time with the real me and she's way cooler than Samia/SophiaLA.  
Acquiring inside jokes that we will undoubtedly email/text/laugh about for ages to come.
Getting tipsy and me tipsy enough to salsa dance in the kitchen wearing VERY little.
Letting your guard down enough to attempt a few moves of your own resulting in side pain laughter.
Having sexy time in that very same kitchen and other rooms for hours before ending up in the shower together.  
Yummy yummy yummy shower sex.
Cuddling and munching on snacks while dozing off to Good Fellas.
My satisfied head in your armpit nook and your satisfied arms around me all night.
Waking up to sunshine baring down on my body and me smiling at you because you know how I love it in the morning.  

 
There are so many reasons why WONDERFUL, CHARMING, SEXY, WITTY men hobby.
Others often unknowingly hobby because they have personalities in need of a root canal.
Both are great for an hour, but only the former is overnight material for me.

Overnights are not for trolls or the bitter, the kind of man who only wants to be charged for when he's literally inside you, but wouldn't mind sharing a meal or an outing OTC. The kind of turd who would watch you sleep after a great date with resentfulness that he's paying for "unconscious" time.  

If you don't overnight-great!!! Don't, because with that bitter view it's a disservice to the entire concept.

Though anyone can, it's best when done with chemistry and respect and laughter between a bad ass provider and a champion

Panthera12 1305 reads
posted
8 / 57

However, you are confused as to my position or opposition to overnights.  

I don't have the "need" to do overnights with hookers because I can get them for free in the real world whenever I want them. It also has nothing to do with being bitter, it just doesn't make sense from my POV. I am not a lonely, socially inept, desperate old man and far from bitter. I simply will not pay a hooker to sleep, ever.    

It is also not about how many pops with me. If I book for an hour it is because I want 1 pop. If I book for 1.5 or 2 hours it is because I want 2. I am not in a contest with myself or anyone else. Am I in it for the variety and the easy sex. You bet!

Besides, I don't want your head in my armpit and I want you to go home when the hour or two is up.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 813 reads
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9 / 57
masonseth69 3 Reviews 1445 reads
posted
10 / 57

I am to the point now, where the minimum amount of time I'll spend with someone is an overnight, sometimes weekends or trips.  I enjoy the companionship a lot and just can't bring myself to see someone for just an hour or two as I'm not getting everything I want from a short encounter like that.

I love waking up next to someone in an embrace and talking about whatever.  I also love morning sex, and lots of it.

hbyist+truth=;( 753 reads
posted
11 / 57

Now you can see why some hookers don't want to spend  off the clock with tricks because they possibly feel the same way about watching a trick eat  for free.  

While on the clock I sure most hookers will listen to all the bullshit a trick wants to talk about while being paid.

hbyist+truth=;( 1011 reads
posted
12 / 57

I am the exact same but the hooker version. I don't want some strange trick mouth breathing on me all freaking night. Do your business and leave till the next time you want to use my body for a fee.

And to the others who like that, awesome, my comments are here NOT to change any ones mind. I just agree with P from my perspective as a hooker and how I lok at things in this biz.

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 1348 reads
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13 / 57

But seriously,most ladies I know have overnight rates that are far less than their hourly rates times 8 or 12 hrs.

And you know I'm messing with you! ;-)

Steph xoxo

89Springer 1078 reads
posted
14 / 57

Some folks I can't even see for more than an hour without pondering where mankind went wrong.
 

Others often unknowingly hobby because they have personalities in need of a root canal.
Good stuff

hbyist+truth=;( 1000 reads
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15 / 57
Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 1402 reads
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16 / 57

I've had couple & they are way too long.... I've come to limit to at least 8hrs.... Lol .... Money is great but it's exhausting... Lol...

Panthera12 910 reads
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17 / 57
Panthera12 894 reads
posted
18 / 57

I haven't taken them for a few years, but when I did I seemed to exist on another plane of reality before hitting the REM sleep.

Panthera12 1143 reads
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19 / 57

You are correct that most providers have some form of discount for multi hours. If I would offer you 4 hours pay plus dinner and the overnight would you agree? It's a hypothetical of course ;)

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 1353 reads
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20 / 57

that's a non hypothetical of course! You would swear off old broads forever!!!

I'm a great multi-hour kinda lady though and I've been contemplating a clock free date kinda thing.

And if anyone wants to blast me, calling my post a self promoting one, I'd have to say I resembled that remark, lol!

;-)

Steph

Critter137 7 Reviews 1270 reads
posted
21 / 57

we have yet to partake in one, but that is on the list for our next vegas vacation, going to bed with two hot ladies and then waking up with them for even more fun, what can be bad about that!!!!!   the hubs and i cant wait.   ( he says im hogging his account now,) LOL   my POV is if you can afford it and make a nice night of it, late dinner,drinks and maybe a club,then some fun some rest and some more fun, by all means go for it.

Panthera12 1667 reads
posted
22 / 57

Hate you? Surely you don't snore that bad, lol. If you are one of those women who gets toothpaste all over my faucet and hair in my sink, then maybe :)

ROGM 1519 reads
posted
23 / 57

I might be going on a week long trip with my Provider. Seems that she needs someone to drive her to an Event on the West Coast. She asked me if I could go with her. Most likely I'll be going with her.

USGrantlover 221 Reviews 1203 reads
posted
24 / 57

Quite true. And I love overnights with the right gal with the right menu.  

Posted By: MatureGFE
But seriously,most ladies I know have overnight rates that are far less than their hourly rates times 8 or 12 hrs.

And you know I'm messing with you! ;-)

Steph xoxo

USGrantlover 221 Reviews 1445 reads
posted
25 / 57

What he said.  

Posted By: mrfisher
They are sometimes a great bargain too, but each can decide that issue for themselves.

I would also council people not to do an overnight on the first date, because chemistry is very important; however I'll admit that I have done a few on the first date (Though there was extensive communication prior to the engagement.) and they all went well.

The biggest asset to the overnight is the lack of having to keep an eye on the clock as you engage each other into the night.  Things can take their course, and, when the physical phase has past, the ability to curl up and drop off to the land of nod rather than have to get dressed and on the road is such a nice feeling.  If she's a good cuddler, then so much the better.

There are downsides of course, even beyond the large donation normally associated with the long time span.  The worst is probably snoring, and I'll admit to being an offender but also most gals tend to saw wood as well.  It's just something you have to learn to get used to.  Then some gals have the "jimmy legs", by which I mean restless leg syndrome.  Be ready to engage in some nighttime kick boxing with that one.

But all in all, I enjoy them and indulge when I am able to.

It's nice to have a morning wake up call too, and have breakfast together before hitting the dusty trail again.

 

USGrantlover 221 Reviews 1064 reads
posted
26 / 57

Lol

Posted By: Panthera12
I have little doubt that your incessant rambling necessitated extreme measures on her part to get some sleep and to make you become inert as well.    

Dr Who revived 1358 reads
posted
27 / 57

And her husband doesn't want to take her?

You're such a good guy!
Posted By: ROGM
I might be going on a week long trip with my Provider. Seems that she needs someone to drive her to an Event on the West Coast. She asked me if I could go with her. Most likely I'll be going with her.  

mrfisher 111 Reviews 1165 reads
posted
28 / 57

That make the need to drive five days unnecessary.

So why the road trip unless you truly love the idea of the open road and eating at places where you get called "dearie".

I thought your post was going to be about times when a date became an unintended overnight on account of getting snowed in (Has happened to me twice, and I just loved it to death.)

Anyone else have my kind of unintended overnight occur ever?

JackDunphy 1396 reads
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29 / 57
USGrantlover 221 Reviews 870 reads
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30 / 57

First I call BS on the 'first date' assertion. I've probably done 3 dozen ON's with gals on a first date. Do they check me out? Sure.  

Two, I've yet to do an ON with a lady who didn't have a very clear and defined ON rate. Maybe you're just looking at a different type of lady. Nothing wrong with that. BUT, I can't imagine a lady is asking you to set HER rate.  

You may want to move past your hurdle of 8 reviews. Then things will go a tad easier for you. Being the 'know it all' of the GD board here doesn't count for much when asking to do an ON with a lady. In fact it may be a hinderance. But you're such a great guy they'll do ON's with you for a grand. I guess that explains why you only have done 8 reviews?

Have a great Fathers Day. Lets see how long it takes for you to get this thread pulled down.  
Posted By: RodTidweLL
Have been amazing! Most ladies won't let you do them on a first appointment, so you almost always know them already there's comfort in that. Some guys will complain they are not paying ssomeone to sleep, eat, etc on their dime?  
   
 I have had a few scenarios play out.  
   
 One Lady had no listed overnight rate I asked and she said, what did I think was fair er kind of came to an agreement based on her longest "date" option.  
   
  One lady who had been really awesome to me said she liked me, not like that, but only charged me a k. I felt bad because normally her rate is much higher and a k wouldn't cover her 3hr option. I came here asked about it, got laughed at by the dudes, ladies said go for it. Best overnight ever BTW.  
   
  One lady said if I was agreed to be the afternoon guy I could stay for free.  
   
 Etc, etc, I never ask for a discount or anything so I think overnights happen more then people think. I think chemistry effects how things workout. I would never attempt one with the lady's I have no chemistry with .

ROGM 1553 reads
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31 / 57

Posted By: JackDunphy
Ask her very, very nicely.
 
Actually she asked me if I could drive her to this West Coast Event. Of course I said Yes. I mean how can I say No to her?

ROGM 1791 reads
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32 / 57

Posted By: ChgoCPA
And her husband doesn't want to take her?  
   
 You're such a good guy!  
   
Posted By: ROGM
I might be going on a week long trip with my Provider. Seems that she needs someone to drive her to an Event on the West Coast. She asked me if I could go with her. Most likely I'll be going with her.  
He doesn't have a Car. Besides he has to watch the kids while she's Gone. And no he doesn't know I might be going with her on this West Coast Trip.

USGrantlover 221 Reviews 1483 reads
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33 / 57

I had to 'like' this one. I don't think I've ever seen a bigger BS post in my life. Well done.

Posted By: ROGM
I might be going on a week long trip with my Provider. Seems that she needs someone to drive her to an Event on the West Coast. She asked me if I could go with her. Most likely I'll be going with her.  

USGrantlover 221 Reviews 1307 reads
posted
34 / 57

This just keeps on getting better and better. Are you going to clean up after each and every john she sees? Just wondering.

Posted By: ROGM
 
   
Posted By: ChgoCPA
And her husband doesn't want to take her?  
     
  You're such a good guy!  
     
Posted By: ROGM
I might be going on a week long trip with my Provider. Seems that she needs someone to drive her to an Event on the West Coast. She asked me if I could go with her. Most likely I'll be going with her.  
   
 He doesn't have a Car. Besides he has to watch the kids while she's Gone. And no he doesn't know I might be going with her on this West Coast Trip.

USGrantlover 221 Reviews 1249 reads
posted
35 / 57

Uh maybe like um "no I need to go to work and I'm not going to burn a weeks vacation for you." That could work?

Posted By: ROGM
 
   
Posted By: JackDunphy
Ask her very, very nicely.
   
   
 Actually she asked me if I could drive her to this West Coast Event. Of course I said Yes. I mean how can I say No to her?

ROGM 1417 reads
posted
36 / 57

It has nothing to do with Sex.

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 1280 reads
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37 / 57

Complicated for me to arrange these days, but I adore them. I charge what I feel makes it worth the time and extra effort I put into them. But mine are always about 14 hours long because there's no way I'm going to get up and go at 7am if I don't have to! And when they do end earlier in the morning it is because the gentleman has an early meeting. But with most I do we either share a breakfast mostly in bed or we go to a nice little cafe together for breakfast

Dr Who revived 1199 reads
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38 / 57

What percentage do you take?

I'm sure her kids are thankful that their mother has such a nice pimp.

You don't beat her... Do you?  Remember she's so adorable and sweet.  
Posted By: ROGM
It has nothing to do with Sex.

Sheermagnetism 9 Reviews 1171 reads
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39 / 57
harborview 10 Reviews 1510 reads
posted
40 / 57

just because I sleep in the same (king) bed...  does not mean that kissing, cuddling, touching, or sex are permitted in any way shape or form.  
So why would one want to share a bed with a woman who would do these things?

earthshined 1313 reads
posted
41 / 57

couldn't agree more.

Posted By: Panthera12
I am not saying that I have never spent a night with a hooker, but the notion of being on the clock while in an unconscious state is a total waste.  

earthshined 1424 reads
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42 / 57

so in short, we have to agree with you or were bitter trolls with terrible personalities.  

I got it. Thanks

Dr Who revived 1090 reads
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43 / 57

Going on that road trip with ROGM and helping out his provider as the muscle?

Just a thought.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 1065 reads
posted
45 / 57

Because she is Sweet and So darn Adorable! : D

ROGM 1277 reads
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46 / 57

Posted By: ChgoCPA
What percentage do you take?  
   
 I'm sure her kids are thankful that their mother has such a nice pimp.  
   
 You don't beat her... Do you?  Remember she's so adorable and sweet.    
   
Posted By: ROGM
It has nothing to do with Sex.
 
No No. I'm not her Pimp. I met this girl as a client. But somehow we became friendly. If I do go on this Trip I'm not getting any Money out of this. She just asked me if I could drive her to the West Coast for this Event if she needs me to. If I do go I'm probably going to pay for this Trip. And I'll repeat, this Trip has NOTHING to do with Sex.

ROGM 1083 reads
posted
47 / 57

I didn't know being friendly with these girls was a Mongering Felony. Sheesh!!!!!

mrfisher 111 Reviews 1487 reads
posted
48 / 57

Have you ever done a multi-day road trip with a gal?

I did, ONCE, and never again.

It's a prescription for life long enmity.

You've no idea how tiresome a person can be when you are sitting next to them, bored out of your mind day after day, with nothing to contemplate except another day of the same thing.

And, if you think the scenic beauty of this great land can create enough diversion to avoid ennui, I've two words for you:  corn fields.

Please, for the sake of both of your sanities:  Abort mission.

sophiaLA See my TER Reviews 1425 reads
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49 / 57

well formulated? Thanks.
self serving? Well who else would I be serving.
Rasta, if the cap fit…let them wear it.

If it don't then it don't. But that little bit of pissed off you're displaying… the one that made you agree with P and then circle back (maybe more than twice, not through reading thread) and post the response…your fucking thong is showing son.

Have your opinion by all means but why does mine anger thy so?
If the cap fit..

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 1100 reads
posted
51 / 57

Bring a good book.

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
I've had couple & they are way too long.... I've come to limit to at least 8hrs.... Lol .... Money is great but it's exhausting... Lol...

USGrantlover 221 Reviews 1023 reads
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52 / 57

Huh. Interesting thought.  

Posted By: ChgoCPA
Going on that road trip with ROGM and helping out his provider as the muscle?  
   
 Just a thought.

USGrantlover 221 Reviews 1296 reads
posted
53 / 57

You're right. Silly me. My bad.  

Posted By: perfectstorm
Because she is Sweet and So darn Adorable! : D

USGrantlover 221 Reviews 1271 reads
posted
54 / 57

HAHAHAHAHA  

Posted By: ROGM
 
   
Posted By: ChgoCPA
What percentage do you take?  
     
  I'm sure her kids are thankful that their mother has such a nice pimp.  
     
  You don't beat her... Do you?  Remember she's so adorable and sweet.    
     
Posted By: ROGM
It has nothing to do with Sex.
   
   
 No No. I'm not her Pimp. I met this girl as a client. But somehow we became friendly. If I do go on this Trip I'm not getting any Money out of this. She just asked me if I could drive her to the West Coast for this Event if she needs me to. If I do go I'm probably going to pay for this Trip. And I'll repeat, this Trip has NOTHING to do with Sex.  

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 1210 reads
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55 / 57

It's called blurring the lines. This is when you become vulnerable to becoming her ATM. First she asks you for a ride, then she asks for a loan, then slowly but surely her requests become more complex and expensive. And of course the BCD time dwindles with each successful request. Best of luck to you, ROGM. You seem like a sweet guy, if not the brightest candle on the cake. This trip could be the beginning of the end of your naïveté. I hope you come out the other side as sweet as you seem now, and don't become bitter like a lot of these guys are. But I also hope you can learn from it...

The benefit guys see with this path is that they score OTC time. OTC time, I'll say again, is mostly given by ladies who are pretty young: i.e., not a lot going on in their lives. This means they could someday follow you home. Which is what she's doing with you.

TheSilverFaux 1259 reads
posted
56 / 57

Seems like more bang for the buck to me!

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 920 reads
posted
57 / 57

If overnights consisted of the NFL Channel, football talk & constant fucking... I would have overnights all the time..  Usually when I'm on your the tv in my hotel is on the nfl channel during the session...

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