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paigesavage See my TER Reviews 5901 reads
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well, this morning while completing my heauxmwork (admin), I stumbled upon this tweet (picture below):  

 
"I’m at an HIV conference, and basically in about 2/3 years you won’t be able to suck dick in peace because if you get pharyngeal (throat) gonorrhea we won’t be able to treat it 🥴"  

 
We've all seen the debates over "cbj vs bbbj" and we know that offering "bbbj" gives a provider the opportunity to for a higher score on "services/experience". However, pharyngeal (throat) gonorrhea has been on the rise for years and the bacteria's ability to mutate to be resistant to antibiotics is due to people not being tested because pharyngeal (throat) gonorrhea rarely shows symptoms. When it does show symptoms it's often confused with the common cold. In addition, when getting your semi-annual (or quarterly)  STI testing done, most Primary Care Physicians and clinics rarely offer the throat test let alone anal paps.  

 
So, I'm just curious what are y'alls thoughts? Clients, will you consider providers who only offer CBJ? Providers will this change what you offer if it hasn't already? Do you think TER will take this into account in the future and evolve the scoring system?

John_Laroche 151 reads
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is that providers should insist on throat swabs during their routine std screening.  

 
Honestly,  a bbbj is nice,  but not a deal breaker if unavailable.  

 
So MANY things wrong with the scoring system. Just add this to the list.

davincib1 96 Reviews 156 reads
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I'll always "consider" a provider who offers CBJ rather than BBBJ.  But scheduling is a different story.  I have seen plenty that offer covered vs bare BJ, but the difference lies in the price point.  And no amount of kissing, or other GFE activities is going to make up for that IMHO.  

cool46 33 Reviews 135 reads
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I don’t mind cbj, but I won’t pay more then 500.00, and I just start paying that, and that was because of my atf she charged 500.00 and she not GFE, it’s crazy because, I use to see you awhile back for 300.00 and she was totally GFE, then I lost track of her, a couple of years later I hooked up with her and she went up on her donations, I assumed she was still GFE especially for 500.00, so I was surprised to find out everything was covered now and no DATY, but her skills was amazing, and that’s when I found out that even the non GFE could be great, so thanks to her I don’t mind cbj, as long as it not more then 500. 00

MrLightning 16 Reviews 151 reads
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I love BBBJ, however I will do CBJ for sure. When it's done right, it's done right

RespectfulRobert 174 reads
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Just getting into my car this morning placed me in jeopardy of getting killed or maimed in a car accident. I have learned to live with certain risks. I don't always eat a perfectly nutritious meal. There are trade offs, right?
Oral sex, both giving and receiving, is one of my great pleasures in life and a CBJ is too much akin to kissing your sister. So the obvious answer to your question is no, hell no, I won't consider a CBJ from a provider. There is a certain intimacy that would be lost, and with the ever increasing rising costs of sex workers, the CBJ would be the ultimate deal breaker.  
And while I dont really care about Ter's future decision on scoring re: BJs, I do tend to not get too concerned about predictions from dubious sources about the next horrific sex act that will come down the pike and hurt us all. Maybe its because I was told a bunch of nonsense about HIV back in the day. Remember when Oprah told us in 1987 that 1 in 5 heterosexuals could be dead from AIDS by 1990?  
I am just going to keep living my life the same way. Taking precautions with some things, like getting vaccinated for COVID
for example, but enjoying things too; like BBBJs and good, fatty, cholesterol inducing cheeseburgers. lol

TheVoiceOfReason 152 reads
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I generally only see ladies that are TER 9's and above in appearance.  I would consider it, but the price point would have to be different.  Probably around $200/hr less than what I would pay with BBBJ included.  That $600 lady would now be $400 and that $700 or $800 lady (I associate those price points/expect BBBJ and CIM) would now be $450 and $500.

iHeartMouthHugs 169 reads
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I would most definitely retire from the hobby. In the civvie world these days, sex is fairly easy to find but takes effort and isn’t so convenient. Getting head the way I like it, however, is not so easy to find in my experience. If I dodge this mutant STI bullet and have to resign myself to never paying for BBBJs again, so be it. I’d rather search for my civvie unicorn than to pay for covered BJs.

NewbieOne 162 reads
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Posted By: iHeartMouthHugs
Re: If I had to stop getting BBBJs as a result of this strain…
I would most definitely retire from the hobby. In the civvie world these days, sex is fairly easy to find but takes effort and isn’t so convenient. Getting head the way I like it, however, is not so easy to find in my experience. If I dodge this mutant STI bullet and have to resign myself to never paying for BBBJs again, so be it. I’d rather search for my civvie unicorn than to pay for covered BJs.
Same, Not into CBJ and would go to a full time Civii if it comes to that..  

helixir 54 Reviews 141 reads
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I'm that extremely rare man who has never considered a BJ--covered or otherwise--to be a sine qua non for a great session. Seriously. So, having said that, I would be happy to skip a BJ altogether if the only alternative is CBJ. In roughly 50% of my sessions, I don't ask for or receive a BJ anyway.

On the other hand, the day DATY disappears from the menu, my P4P days are done!

luvmtiter 111 Reviews 147 reads
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"CBJ is too much akin to kissing your sister."

Well said!

badger48 153 Reviews 148 reads
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Licking, sucking and DTing a covered cock can't be enjoyable for the provider, IMO, I mean she's feeling and tasting rubber.
And if it's not enjoyable, it could be a "let's get it over with situation" or mess with her enthusiasm, which could put a damper on the session!  

 
What about BLS, can the throat gonorrhea be passed that way too?

UnitedColorsofAss 149 reads
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I wouldn't want my dick sucked with a condom on for free. I'm sure as hell not looking to pay for it.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 52 reads
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helixir 54 Reviews 60 reads
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Have to say I've wondered that it can't be fun sucking on rubber film. You confirmed my suspicion. I haven't accepted a CBJ in years, partly because I believe it's a turn-off for the lady.

anony3274931 152 reads
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Fuck no. I understand risk. What she wants to do that’s on her. Not paying for covered oral.

Wallabanjo 176 reads
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Posted By: NewbieOne
Same, Not into CBJ and would go to a full time Civii if it comes to that..  
Because random girl in bar / from tinder / bible study will *never* have the STD's that an escort that regularly test has no chance of catching?

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 53 reads
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and then apply favored lube. At least that's what I've heard. The ones who do it on the regular do it well and probably aren't turned off.

Steph...

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 65 reads
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They reek before you can even get them out of the wrapper! Yuck.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 72 reads
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I've read some reviews of Skyn condoms that they don't have a strong taste.  I use them and they don't have a strong odor either like some other condoms.

WICardinalfan 37 Reviews 144 reads
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I had no issues with a CBJ.  My dick would get hard looking at the naked lady and it took effort not the finish too soon.l

Today i is the opposite.  I need the BBBJ to get going, and after all the fun, to finish most of the time.

So no bbbj, no appointment.

Not a fan of growing older these days.

Focused_practice 176 reads
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krampovbj 19 Reviews 144 reads
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Forthegoodbye 142 reads
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Never… and less likely, are two very different things.

JawKnee36 95 Reviews 248 reads
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I never said that a civvie wouldn’t be risky, but she would most likely be less risky than a provider. But, getting regularly tested doesn’t prevent anything other than maybe not maintaining the STD longer. It definitely doesn’t prevent catching an STD as your surmised. How exactly does getting regularly tested prevent an STD? What, prevent HIV from turning into AIDS?  If you’re going to try to one-up someone by digging deep for a point to present, think your response all the way through first.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 178 reads
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At this point in my life, I will die of old age before any STD can kill me.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 126 reads
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a civvie girl, you should  also have the skills to coach her on what techniques to use to deliver the perfect BBBJ.  I've mentored many civvie girls over the years to a skill level equal to most providers.   Most women appreciate learning how to be among the best. It's like planting a tree in the park where many others will sit in the shade after you've moved on.  

Fridays117 27 Reviews 130 reads
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At this point in my life, the risk is worth it for BBBJ if the gal is willing.  If not I generally will not book her.  As for regular covered intercourse? Yes that I cover up for with providers.

If BBBJ goes away, thats probably when I quit doing this.
As for guys quoting price points above, geez get a life, nobody cares how much you can or can't afford.  Yeah, prices for some gals are ridiculous.  Don't want to pay it, don't book em.  If enough people don't book em, they lower their price point or they stop hooking, no great loss.  On the flip side of that is the ladies.  When you tour you spend money on hotels, airfare, cabs/uber/lyft/etc. And need to cover that overhead, especially in expensive places like NYC, Boston or LA.  Hence the higher price.  "Podunk Mary" from Shitsville, Redneckland is gonna charge MUCH less for you to meet her at the local motel or her trailer and is probably just as warm and wet as those slick glossy touring ladies.  Quality local service beats touring IMHO, but I've been know to dabble in both high and low brow providers.  Save up, pay more or spend less and screw/get blown more, whatever, nobody cares what you do.

Mstrchf117 6 Reviews 141 reads
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You're more likely to get something from a "civie" than a provider. At least one that takes precautions. "Civie" girls are more likely to have unprotected sex, go longer without testing, and dip into more undesirable men. Now if you're looking for a ltr, that's different. But the random hookup is more likely to end somewhere bad than a date with a provider.

Mstrchf117 6 Reviews 129 reads
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While I prefer bbbj, it's not a deal breaker if she only does cbj.

plainfun4u2 3 Reviews 135 reads
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Like many on this page I look at various ads and wonder why anyone would meet a provider that advertises that they will have uncovered or “nasty” sex?  I’m clean and want to remain so. I also don’t want to bring anything home to the Mrs for the 2-3 times a year the wife offers. Just my thought on why take a chance.

SPEK 40 Reviews 147 reads
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The problem is, I am much less disappointed when I spend $200 on a local girl and it's a bad experience than when I spend $1200 on a touring pro who claims to be the ultimate and is decidedly average.

paigesavage See my TER Reviews 136 reads
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*in my playfully cheeky tone* I’m not quite sure why what I will or won’t offer would be of any concern to those who have no intention of meeting me darlin’. 😉😜

badger48 153 Reviews 53 reads
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Finally! See, you can do a good post when you want to!

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 148 reads
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That must make your wife the most expensive pussy you've ever had.  How much money would you save if you were single?  Lol

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 124 reads
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I provide condoms for blow jobs & Etc. But I don't insist on the usage of a condom (Just cause I don't want to loose customers).

riohondoeop 3 Reviews 132 reads
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Do you mine performing a bj with a condom?

lopaw 29 Reviews 147 reads
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...and completely irrelevant to me, of course. But between all of the risks of putting your mouth on any type of naked genitalia it will be interesting to see if there will be any impact in this industry.

lopaw 29 Reviews 135 reads
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inicky46 61 Reviews 141 reads
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ImaniAmor See my TER Reviews 141 reads
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I am in the medical field and am fully aware of the risks. Unfortunately not everyone gets tested regularly or practice safe when it comes to this.

For this reason if you are not taking care of yourself, especially your health and proper hygiene YMMV when seeing providers.

It's astonishing how many do not wash properly or simply won't bathe and use mouthwash prior to the date.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 121 reads
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I wouldn't want dental dam on my vag for DATY, so I assume the same for CBJ its a risk I am willing to take. We all take risks, and some symptoms are easy to spot if your aware. Being selective helps. To each their own. I gargle with hydrogen peroxide.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 119 reads
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BBBJ all the way.  I've always wanted BBBJ, always will.  

If I get AIDS no problem at this point, I will die of old age before AIDS can kill me.    

And I would rather die with a smile on my face than live on CBJ

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