Has anyone on TER VIP list dated a provider after seeing her as an escort?   It will be interesting to hear from you guys.   I got a request from a provider I had seen recently about her interest in dating me.   I don't know if it is good or bad but would welcome any feedback.   One thing for sure, it will limit my hobbying which I love.   My goal is to see 1000 blonde providers before I get settled.   I am now at 81 and a long way to go.

a provider wants a civie relationship with you!?  Is/was her name Anna Nicole? Thinking here that she is looking to position herself in your will! Not that there is anything wrong with that as long as you both go into it with eyes wide open!

That's what I plan to do at that age, good Lord willing.

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There's certainly a chance it could work out, but the wind changes direction and when it does, you'll be pissing all over yourself.  Women are impossible to live with as it is, much less one that's off boning strange guys every day.  But you can offer to support her so she's all yours.  Sorry you probably couldn't see me stop typing but I fell down from laughing so hard.

If that is your quest, you do have a long way. Statistically and genetically, it's not impossible but improbable to find 1000 true blondes in the provider ranks (carpet and drapes). If it's an all takers thing, then yes, there's all manner of blondes out there. If you had unlimited funds, could travel, and had unlimited time, I would bet on you.

This topic has been discussed ad nauseum.  Check the Erotic Highway board. The LG has a saying " I've fallen for a provider and can't get up "  Good luck if you decide to date this lady, you'll need it.

True dating or being married to a provider of sexual services is not wise and in fact is quite foolish, but it can be a rush as I am sure you know. There is an upside that you know she knows what she is doing and is open minded. Now there is a huge downside but I am in a good mood today and am not going into it. If the guy who wrote the OP is up for a wild ride with MANY deep dark valleys as well as a few high spots, he should go for it as long as he goes in with his eyes open. Odds favor he will crash and burn but it does work out from time to time. Note the this is the first time I posted about my wife's job without an alias. I am doing so because I have been out on this board by an alias so there is no point in hiding it any more. Not that I was really hiding it before, but it was nice to pretend.

If you can keep the relationship as a sort of FWB, then you'll avoid the difficulties but you;ll also avoid the opportunities to learn a lot about yourself and the dynamics of relationships.

My advice to people who are grown-ups is to jump in with both feet! It might feel like you;re drowning sometimes, though.

out of this beyond fucking 919 more blondes?

What are the term of the deal?  What does she get?  What do you get?

Sounds corny, but I think you need to get a legal pad and blue ink pen and just evaluate the pros and cons in a T-table.

If the chemistry is there then go for it. I find it an incredible turn on that providers see as many men as they do. The good ones love sex and being sexual. What a great quality in a lover. If I was dating a special provider I would be in heaven. I'd also love it that she continued to work or at minimum we were very active in the swing scene.

I've been participating in the hobby for about three years now and in that time, I've dated two providers.  Both initiated the relationship.  Both ended very badly for me.  I can't tell you what to do, but my past experience says run away as fast as you can.