as the main profile and services are generally established by the first reviewer. If said reviewer doesn't engage in the activity, it often won't be listed in services. There are enough "Don't know's" or inaccurate entries in profiles. I don't need another.
Sure profiles do change, but it's a process.
Also, unlike BBBJ or DFK, toy play is less likely to be a YMMV activity, and therefore included in the provider's personal ad. Come to think of it, I don't know too many women, providers or civvies, that aren't into it.
and finally, there's a Seinfeld for everything
I don't think the list of options needs to be very long. I think that simply 4 choices in a drop down menu would be needed.
1) No
2) Yes for her
3) Yes for client
4) Yes for both
If the answer is any of the three 'Yes' answers, then subject can be discussed more when making an appointment.
I’m indifferent — fine with it being added or not as it makes no real difference to me. Also, as another said, most of a provider’s profile is established by the first reviewer. Unless profiles start getting updated say if 3 people in a row says she does something when her profile didn’t originally show that she does, I don’t think it will help much. That being said, I would be more for profiles being updated every so often to account for changes (eg. she didn’t use to do uncovered BJs but does now, or she stopped doing BBBJ, her profile says she was 35 years old 10 years ago when the profile was created, she was a natural B and is now an enhanced D, etc.).
I agree that the profiles should be updated as time goes by.
As someone mentioned, this is a YMMV type of thing. A simple butt plug can send a date into the crapper. Or if someone brings a 12" dildo, she might use that to hit him over the head. It's hard to define what toys as there so many gadgets out there.
I personally like toys and I'll bring some out. I don't do the intro of toys on our first round, but as time is passing and we're relaxing I'll say something to the affect of, "Oh by the way, you like this?". So I think the girl might want to get to know you alittle before you start thinking about sticking all sort of shit in her.
That's my, and that's just the way I roll....
very few providers who will bring up the subject of toys on the first date with a new customer. However, it will often come up during repeat visits. The introduction of toys can keep some customers interested longer, but I think most ladies want to keep it on a YMMV basis, because few put it in their ads and on their websites unless they are aiming for the kink market. Ladies who have their entire body tattooed and say they will shove a telephone pole up your ass if you beg a little are the ones who are openly seeking that segment of the market. Consequently, I think putting it in the profile is going to result in more problems than solutions.
The only toys I've seen providers display are vibrators, which are definitely for their amusement. Since they'd do nothing for me I ignored their use and I don't recall a provider initiating actually using any of them while I was there.
