Saw a new client last week. Very handsome, intelligent worldly married businessman. We clicked well.

Towards the end of session, he asked to finish off anal with no condom. I thought he was joking. He wasn't.

So time up and me in shock, he just said forget it and left. I was willing to help him have fun but that's not my idea of fun. I offered many times to do other things but he didn't want to. He wasn't angry, just disappointed.

I am afraid he will bad review me because I wouldn't do this.


N

I'm troubled to think a provider may consider doing something so risky for the sake of one good review.  Good for you for standing your ground.  

As for me I look at the overall reviews before deciding who to see.  One bad review would not dissuade me from calling if the vast majority are positive.

If the guy does post a bad review because you wouldn't perform a health risking act you can do what other providers have done on these boards.  Post a rebuttal on the boards.

If I ever read that a provider performed BBFS, let alone BBanal, I would never see her.

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One bad review will not dampen your image if the others are consistently favorable including newer and prior ones to this meeting. People will see it as a YMMV, you both did not clicked or simply it was a bad performance in the hobbyist point of view.

Take a chill pill and sleep well; you did the right thing IMHO.

The Good Doctor

I totally agree with the above comments, it sounds to me that he was not as intelligent, worldly etc as he may have presented himself intially. At least one of you had some balls (you btw!) and said no.

Don't worry about one bad review, most people realise that reviews are purely subjective and that a whole range of factors play on the score, comments and so forth.

So, don't feel bad, cos you did good!

that he didn't enjoy the session because you weren't willing to do a BBanal, I think people would flame him instead.  Unless he lie outright about the session and write inconsistent review with others, you should be fine....

worry so much about one bad review?  If you have basically good reviews, any legit guy will overlook one bad review. We know what jerks guys can be, hell, most of us are guys (lol),and read reviews with this in mind.

I guess it is because some of genuinely like to please and are proffessional inthe sense that we do our best and try to maintain high standards. We know that one bad review isn't going to put many guys off but it is the thought that somehow we were not 'as good' as they hoped. Luckily I have never had a baddie (so far...lol) but I can understand perhaps why this is important to any girl who wants to a good escort IMHO.

I'd set his silly butt straight in a hurry! Girl DO NOT let any clients intimidate you, for this or any other reason. The fact of the matter is that if you provide quality service, your reputation will easily and quickly rise above any negative comments this guy might happen to make about you. And if he DID post a bad review???? Simply state in return, "I'm sorry, but I couldn't risk my life by providing unprotected greek for ANY reason." Believe me it will earn you the respect of the other viewers of any given board, instead of their dismay.... most clients DO have a brain and do not want to see anyone who would take such alarming risks. Take care of *yourself* first and above all else, becuase if you don't... no one else will, and you won't be in this biz for long... the risks are so great that you could wind up dead instead.  Definitely not worth that trade off!
Hugs to you and stay safe!
Nicole