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Butterscotch13 2 Reviews 333 reads
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I have no belief that I am "special" or get any unique services, but I strongly agree with Chloe.  Not everyone is the same and not all "relationships" are the same.  Different people interact differently, and it would not surprise me if different providers treat different people differently.  Many of these ladies are great actresses, but they are not robots (or not all of them anyway.)

My question is why this contention seems to bother so many people.  Before you start on about suckers, illusions or cons, please reread my first sentence.

I do think that my favorite ladies treat me like a person and not only like an ATM. That's one reason they are my favorites.  And I treat providers like people, not "commodities", because that is what they are, at least to me.  Others have different approaches, but is mine so delusional as to cause people to act like I believe in Santa Claus?  Nah.

Posted By: chloeboulez
1. not every client is here for variety, don't assume
2. every provider is different, don't assume

You say you're not assuming, but when you blatantly state something as fact when you are not a fly on the wall, you ARE assuming :D

I know you're not trying to be an asshole, but your inflammatory way of stating the high possibility of certain truths as widespread fact when you obviously have no way of knowing for certain, you're simply creating drama.

You make all the good providers look bad when you say things like that, and you make clients look rude, assuming, and generally like someone we would never want to see.  There's no reason for that, unless that's your goal, in which case please let me know so I can ignore you in the future :P

FIDCUOF2137 reads

Gals do you perfer regular clients or to see different guys all the time.  Now don't be confused with the money....if you were going to get paid the same and have the same appt schedule would you rather see a guy that you have seen before (a reg) or a new guy?  DO you develop a connection the more you see a reg?  I ask because when I find a women that I like I tend to see them about 10 times in a row.  I develop a connection with them and each time the session gets better and better.  THoughts?  Is this the norm in the industry or not the norm?  I know...very interesting....hummmm

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kendradc2011723 reads

Me personally I like having my regulars. It does get better and better over time as you get to know each others likes and dislikes and form a comfort level for new experiences.

Related Link: http://kendradc.escort-site.com

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JillG641 reads

I would much rather see people I know, preferably gents that have been meeting with me longer than one year whom I have built a relationship with. In fact, that would be my ideal...to only see those gents.

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Naomi_Sweets503 reads

I like making new friends and meeting new people but ideally I would like to see mostly regulars with an occasional new guy thrown in the mix.

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carl01508 reads

It has been too long.

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maturebridgette461 reads

I enjoy the excitement level I get with my regulars and always trying to see what else we can cum up with. But I love seeing new faces..The excitement of meeting someone new and engaging in something  unknown is always engaging. BUT I hate the fear of LE..With regulars you don't have that.

I think for me it goes both ways..

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KSM46320 reads

I am relatively new to the hobby, a little more than 2 years, and only hobby when I travel away from home on business trips, 2 or 3 times each year. In each city Where i have hobbied, my intention is to return to visit a provider with whom I have really clicked, even if it is infrequently, and not seek "new talent". In each instance, where first time was wonderful, subsequent dates have been even better. I am appreciative that my "friends" understand my situation, probaly not unique. Not quite a "regular" but the best I can do in the circumstances.

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HaleyOrlando389 reads

and prefer seeing them over a new person. I like the idea of getting to know someones likes and dislikes and likewise feel the same about the men I see. When a man remembers things we have talked about it shows interest in me as a person more than just an activity person you share sex with. The personal relationship you gain by seeing someone over again becomes much more intimate and of course makes the time you spend more fulfilling.

Klsses Haley

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TiffanyDelight381 reads

In my 20's, all I wanted were new guys, one-time encounters, and I never remembered their names.
Back in the biz and in my mid 30's, I appreciate a man I can look forward to seeing and get hot about before our date.  We are both much more relaxed, then the first meet, and of course enjoy each others company.  The level of eroticism expands as we tease our way to the anticipated encounter and linger in its aftermath.
I naturally prefer giving myself fully to a select amount of men, rather than a trillion.  Though "new" again to the hobby, I find myself too busy to say I'm low volume.  But given the choice, I'd rather see just a handful of really great gentlemen (regulars) anyday...Xoxo's

Related Link: http://www.tiffanydelight.com

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magic4u365 reads

It takes the whole stress level away of not knowing what you're going to be walking into when you go to visit a new provider.

The sex starts to get better, because you both start to learn each of other bodies better. Which also goes along with being comfortable around each other. It's starts to not feel so much so, like a session, but a friend with benefits.

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angieluv07486 reads

I always enjoy meeting new friends, and men from all "walks of life," however the nerves are a little high upon meeting for the first time (but hopefully it doesn't show). I definitely enjoy seeing familiar friends, learning more about what he likes and catering each session to him as time goes on.  I am more relaxed with my regulars, definitely!  However one cannot become a regular until we have met for the first time, lol!  I love to spoil my regulars and reward them for their loyalty in numerous, and creative ways. ;)

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FIDCUOF422 reads

That's exactly why I like to see the same women over and over again.  If I like them and I'm attracted to them...I never get sick of them or loose interest.  If I ever get married, it will be with some that I'm very attracted to and I will never cheat because I don't loose interest as long as she like sex as much as I do  :  ;)   I think that is the key!  I love my reg girls....they always treat me great and do things that they don't do with other guys like (CIM) or DFK....All the reviews say they don't.....but she does with me  :  ;)

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Dr Who revived506 reads

but the reason you're here is because you are seeking that "variety" that you won't find with just ONE woman.  But...hopefully if you ever do indeed find a gal to settle down with she will prove to be that exception and keep you mesmerized with her skills.

And the reviews that "say they don't"...yea...that's written by guys who only saw your gal one time (probably).  The reality (and I really hate to burst your fantasy) is if she does it with you...she does it with plenty of others.

But that is why this is such a "fantasy" world.  She will make you believe it is just "for you".

Enjoy :)

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FIDCUOF431 reads

You just burst my bubble, ruined my fantasy!!!!!   UGH!!  I know what you said was true....I just want to believe it anyway......She looks at me and says....YOU have the nicest cock I have ever seen.  Of course I do....and 400 other guys you saw today.  You are killing me over here.   When she says....I only let you Cum in my mouth....of course she allows 400 other guys CUM in her mouth....I just want to keep living that fantasty and thanks to you.....ITS OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!   :  ;)     UGH   :  ;)8

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Dr Who revived380 reads

It's only a dream....click your heels three times together...and you're back in

the OLD TER where flames were abundant...and men were men!

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HeathersLuv4u518 reads

There's a lot more on the menu for my regular as opposed to someone that isn't a regular...most girls are this way.
of you like we can test this theory and send ChgoCPA over for a visit and see how far he gets...hehe...bet its not as far as you get with her...yay

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Dr Who revived436 reads

they back channel and talk about who, what and why is happening.

And telling my pal FIDCUOF that he is special....that just solidifies the reason for my posts.  

Now...if you are seeing him with NO compensation just because he is such a great guy...then PM him and offer him that session.

I'm sure he'll thank me later on :)

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msamy440 reads

You are not entirely correct with this.  I guess when a lady is very low volume by choice, she has the pleasure and luxury of having something unique with each gentleman.
Why fib? Why BS a guy?! That sounds like a lot of extra hard work to me!  Unless you're in the bedrooms of all the ladies, it's probably best to not assume that you know what's going on. :)

Posted By: ChgoCPA
but the reason you're here is because you are seeking that "variety" that you won't find with just ONE woman.  But...hopefully if you ever do indeed find a gal to settle down with she will prove to be that exception and keep you mesmerized with her skills.

And the reviews that "say they don't"...yea...that's written by guys who only saw your gal one time (probably).  The reality (and I really hate to burst your fantasy) is if she does it with you...she does it with plenty of others.

But that is why this is such a "fantasy" world.  She will make you believe it is just "for you".

Enjoy :)

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Dr Who revived442 reads

I'm not assuming here....

There's quite a few of us that have a really...I mean really good idea how this is played.

But feel free to keep on telling your clients "that it's really for them...and only them".

And how it's "extra hard work" telling Johnny what he wants to hear...really!

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msamy359 reads

But you ARE assuming. Clearly there are things that will take place with each meeting but personally, I don't give false compliments or pretend. Each person is unique which therefore makes each experience unique. Why is that so hard for you to believe? Why be such a pessimist and assume that every lady is the same with every guy?!  No cookie cutter meetings here for me..I feel sorry for anyone who has to endure that!

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Dr Who revived466 reads

are so naive to buy the "it's only for you" story.

I'm thrilled for you that YOUR clients like how you deliver your "performances".  And that is why most of the guys are indeed playing..myself included.

But as I said...some fellas have been playing a while...seen many ladies...and clearly understand the nature of the transactions.

And if you think that most (not all) sessions are indeed not a cookie cutter session...you need to talk with some of the ladies to understand how sessions go on out here.  If you are indeed "unique"..great.  But based on your reviews...you're NOT :(

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msamy362 reads

Hmm..why are you getting so upset? I simply clarified something for you. Not everyone is the same and not everyone does things the same way. As for my reviews, there are 5! Most clients prefer to stay away from this site and don't feel the need to share our intimate details so again, you're assuming a lot about someone based on 5 reviews.  Oh well, so much for having an intelligent conversation based of facts rather than opinions and assumptions..without people getting nasty because "they've been doing this for a while". I guess that makes you a know-it-all.  Yes, we'll go with that.

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kendradc2011348 reads

ROFLMAO!!!! Exactly!!

Every regular I have is a distinct individual and none of my sessions with them even remotely resembles a session with anyone else...and you believe not...well, lets explain the human condition to you...lets say, Client 1 is all about taking his time, stopping and relaxing, having a drink, massaging my feet then enjoying other aspects of me. Client 2 wants to watch me take off each piece of clothing slowly and take my time where he can enjoy the view, he likes to receive a nuru body slide after that...Client 3 loves to climb in the shower the minute he gets here and us spend about 20 minutes washing each other and getting all sudsy then he puts baby oil on me from head to toe.... I could go on and on how no individual has the same exact wants and needs but maybe you get the sampling of why each and everyone of our regulars knows that they are receiving what is distinctly for them only.

But its ok, these are just facts....not assumptions....those of us who have been doing this awhile know what our clients need and its not a robot.

Related Link: http://kendradc.escort-site.com

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Dr Who revived345 reads

Thanks for clarifying all that up.  BTW...tell your future reviewers to get a tad more innovative when reviewing you.  The stories are all fairly predictable and routine!

Your facts are documented where?

Seems like more rhetoric from another "companion"....thanks for the chuckle.

BTW...do you offer your regulars more than others as well?  I'm sure you do...and they are all indeed special.  Please make sure that you tell them just how "special" they are...or perhaps they may not return??  PS...the guys LOVE to hear that "it is all for you...just you".  That works really well...but it seems most of you already know that!

That's what makes this whole board what it used to be.  I honestly wish it could go back, but it does seem that when folks want to debate, discuss or entertain with embellishments some "puritanical goody two shoes" will file a "problem report".  

Hopefully others will jump in and "chat"...as the gals POV is so predictable that it is boring.

And that is indeed a FACT!  (Or maybe an assumption?)

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hotplants361 reads

You said:  most (if not all) providers have a routine, and anything one of them might say, or do with a regular client is just so much BS. A couple of ladies called you on that and said: not every session, or every interaction with a provider is “cookie-cutter”.

And, somehow, you manage to extrapolate that into more commentary about  what this board “used to be”, and that “when folks want to debate, discuss or entertain with embellishments some "puritanical goody two shoes" will file a "problem report"?

Did someone actually file a “problem report”...lol…

And then….hopefully, others will jump in and "chat"...as the gals POV is so predictable that it is boring? Ummm...and you think the  ‘guys’ POV around here is not predictable ?

Well how about this? I’m a “gal”. And, I don’t need years and years of experience, and hundreds of provider notches on my belt. This ‘ain’t rocket science.

Some providers run a cookie cutter session, and BS  guys into thinking "they" are getting something no one else does. I doubt anyone is so naive as to believe this never happens.  OTOH, some providers are adept at adjusting their interaction based on individual likes/dislikes/preferences, and are exceptionally good at this with regular clients; especially as they learn more about them. This happens too.

not hard to understand.


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Dr Who revived333 reads

And you just summed up the posts that I have made in this thread.

This is supposed to be FUN...not something that anyone should take all that seriously.  I certainly don't :)

But it is, and has been, entertaining to see gals throw out the "usual hooker babble" and then not be able to substantiate any of it (nor have I ever expected anyone to verify any of this babble).  Fortunately you and msamy saw what I was provoking...replied to the issues concisely and without the babble that has consistently permeated the boards.

And no question the fellas are from from innocent on posting their drivel.  Consider since TER has revoked the formats that many had come to love, that all the boards are now left with seems to be the topics that were, time and again, run off the boards.

So assuming this is the "new order" going forward this type of thread has become a dinosaur.  And indeed, as you might be aware, some "righteous" hooker or John will be offended by the banter here...what an oxymoron!

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hotplants373 reads

The “hooker babble” to be wrong. To be fair, you didn’t exactly prove much either.

I saw nothing here other than people expressing an opinion. One really cannot wrap facts around the personal details of what might happen BCD’s in any session.

And, really? You think it’s only NOW....since TER has ‘revoked formats’ and implemented a “new order” (yes…I_have_heard!…over and over and over and over…TER has put a stop to unprovoked personal alias attacks. Those bastards!….lol….) that there is an increase in unsubstantiated drivel?

Scratching head…..

And *if* some "righteous hooker or John” gets offended by this banter? Who cares? There is nothing in this thread to be offended by. But I guess the true test will be to see if that actually happens.

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mauddib2400 reads

How exciting!

Hmmm, yes - I can feel your anger, it gives you focus.... It makes you stronger!

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pj1964306 reads

So THAT'S your story! You just like to provoke! Now I get it/you. Whatever.

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AggieFan01317 reads

Posted By: hotplants

Some providers run a cookie cutter session, and BS  guys into thinking "they" are getting something no one else does. I doubt anyone is so naive as to believe this never happens.  OTOH, some providers are adept at adjusting their interaction based on individual likes/dislikes/preferences, and are exceptionally good at this with regular clients; especially as they learn more about them. This happens too.

not hard to understand.

Not hard at all.......what you are making very clear is that they all BS guys into believing they're "special'," some are better at it than others.

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msamy278 reads

Eh, we're wasting out energy getting through his thick skull. He knows everything! Quite honestly, he seems like a very bitter man. He seems to love the pussy but hates the woman! I've seen several posts here referring to his pessimistic tone so I take his diluted opinions with a grain of salt.  Perhaps he's used to robots. Perhaps they are robotic because they're just not into him so they say and do what they need to say and do and this is all he has to base his attitude on. Whatever! He's miserable..we can simply wish him well and move on!

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pj1964393 reads

Wow. Seems some people's facts or assumptions don't agree with your facts or assumptions, and that seems to bother you. I wonder. If a provider, courtesan, companion senses something, anything while with a client a figures he wants something in particular done a certain way, and it might actually be different than the majority of her clients and she does it, or does it "that way" for him, then I guess telling him that it was for him and just for hm isn't completely a lie or a line on HER part, but more like flexibility on her part. Do you think that is possible?
Now I'm thinking about something else. I wonder if a guy whom she has seen before comes back for more but performs differently. I wonder if she performs differently too? I bet the answer is yes. Of course, that's just based on human nature. Oh! I'm sorry. You probably are a man of habit. You do everything the exact same way every time, therefore you get the same results every time. Or maybe you cant imagine that these ladies have individual personalities. Or that they actually know what theyre doing. Or that hey try to give what they think their clients want. Of course, if you did believe that about these women, then you wouldn't Brecht so much to what they're saying.
Many people here have something to prove to somebody for some reason. That said, what's your story?

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AggieFan01486 reads

Posted By: kendradc2011
ROFLMAO!!!! Exactly!!

Every regular I have is a distinct individual and none of my sessions with them even remotely resembles a session with anyone else...and you believe not...well, lets explain the human condition to you...lets say, Client 1 is all about taking his time, stopping and relaxing, having a drink, massaging my feet then enjoying other aspects of me. Client 2 wants to watch me take off each piece of clothing slowly and take my time where he can enjoy the view, he likes to receive a nuru body slide after that...Client 3 loves to climb in the shower the minute he gets here and us spend about 20 minutes washing each other and getting all sudsy then he puts baby oil on me from head to toe.... I could go on and on how no individual has the same exact wants and needs but maybe you get the sampling of why each and everyone of our regulars knows that they are receiving what is distinctly for them only.

But its ok, these are just facts....not assumptions....those of us who have been doing this awhile know what our clients need and its not a robot.
What a joke. By giving every cient "what is distinctly for them only" you're giving them all the same thing and NOBODY is "special."

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inicky46481 reads

is she asks you not to, so that new guys seeing her will not expect things she won't do with just anybody.  Because I always read reviews extensively before seeing a gal for the first time, so when she goes "above and beyond" I'll usually tell her I write reviews but assume I shouldn't say we did whatever seems not to be on her menu.  YMMV!

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kendradc2011307 reads

Related Link: http://kendradc.escort-site.com

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inicky46402 reads

there is something to be said for all you hott foxes coming out to play.  Keep it up.

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AggieFan01365 reads

Posted By: inicky46
is she asks you not to, so that new guys seeing her will not expect things she won't do with just anybody.  Because I always read reviews extensively before seeing a gal for the first time, so when she goes "above and beyond" I'll usually tell her I write reviews but assume I shouldn't say we did whatever seems not to be on her menu.  YMMV!
In other words, you perpetuate her con.

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inicky46287 reads

OK, you're new, so I'll attempt to edify you because perhaps you just misunderstood.  There is no "con."  The gals I see all have ads or web sites.  They also are all reviewed, so anyone booking them has plenty of opportunities to see what their standard menu is.  If I get extras because she likes me and she asks me not to write about them, that's between her and me.  She gets to offer them to anyone else she chooses.  But others who book her will get only her standard, public, menu.  No disappointment.  No con.  So what's your problem, aggie?

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AggieFan01355 reads

Posted By: inicky46
OK, you're new, so I'll attempt to edify you because perhaps you just misunderstood.  There is no "con."  The gals I see all have ads or web sites.  They also are all reviewed, so anyone booking them has plenty of opportunities to see what their standard menu is.  If I get extras because she likes me and she asks me not to write about them, that's between her and me.  She gets to offer them to anyone else she chooses.  But others who book her will get only her standard, public, menu.  No disappointment.  No con.  So what's your problem, aggie?
I see you're an easy mark. That's her con, she makes pigeons like you believe you two share a secret and asks you to not reveal it. By doing so she is creating false intimacy which hopefuy bonds you to her so you repeat. Just like she hopes the "secret" she shares with everyone else will keep them coming back too. Eventually she has a stable of regulars, al with a "secret" and each one believing he is "special." My problem is the fact that there are such gullible saps out there.

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inicky46373 reads

First of all I don't have "regulars." I've seen only a few providers more than once. Also, most of them don't know I review until the session is over, so they never spontaneously ask me not to share certain off-menu acts.  Only if I mention at the end of a session that I'll write a review and not mention certain things does the situation get discussed.
In fact, sometimes it works the other way.  In my recent review of Brenda Boobies I at first omitted she permitted FIA and asked for Greek.  She later contact me and said she didn't care if I mentioned it because she'd did not feel she needed to be totally consistent in her offerings depending on the individual.
I really don't know why I bother trying to educate you, aggie.  You're a noob with no reviews but a major know-it-all attitude, who mainly posts snarky criticisms that aren't useful to anyone.  I suggest you pipe down for a while and start posting again when you know what you're talking about.

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LoveLaneysRedLightShow345 reads

I have friends that I've seen for years and I'm so grateful to have them in my life as they've become much more to me than just a "client". At the same time, those people were strangers to me once so there's something to be said for first dates and the magic that can happen when the meeting is still anonymous.

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sexyangelique69406 reads

Or which one dresses nicer. Or smells better. Or is funnier. Or funner to be with. Or kisses the best. Or makes me forget it's a session.

I went to an outcall a week or so ago and the guy had to meet me outside his gate so he could escort me in. Very tight security there. He rolled down his window to his SUV... oh my god... so handsome! He looked like Ryan Reynolds... but 6'6'! I thought this was going to be such a hot time! NOT! He was an uptight germ-a-phobe and nothing about the session was fun at all. I would not be excited about seeing him again even though he booked me for two hours.

Meanwhile, I have an appointment in a week with a very attractive regular I wish I could stop time in the middle of the session so it never ends!

There is the thrill of the "new guy" - you just don't know what you will get or who you will meet. Then there are the regulars that you click with, that like you a lot, that pay you compliments, that you've gotten to know really well, that you enjoy seeing again, or that you laugh a lot with. They both have their own appeal... like meat and potatoes. I want both.

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