Ok first of all I'm gonna say I get why some girls charge more or less it's their choice I'm just curious. Do yall prefer seeing less women at higher rates or more at lower rates? And what makes you choose the higher rate girls? Personally I used to see girls less often at higher rates but after seeing some girls who charge the minimum I switched cause I never really cared for the designer lingerie or luxury stuff and prefer much older women and had more down to earth and chill natural encounters with girls at lower rates and I can afford it daily or almost daily and that saves me the stress of the dating world. Do yall really like the luxury feel and upscale stuff and model looks over natural looks? Personality wins 100% for me and at rates that are the same as taking a girl out for dinner it just feels too perfect. Another big plus is a lot of girls at lower rates I see do not do appointments so I can just text whenever and pull up in 20 minutes and are less strict and the whole thing just feels the same as when it's natural and I have been treated so much better like some girls have cooked me food or let me spend the night or watch a movie no extra charge feels less like business.

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Just like you I am in the same way of thinking. Personality and performance are secondary to costs. We had a survey recently on this page and 80 to 90 % rated performance and personality as the most important. Find the thread its an interesting read

I get regular sex with my partner which is fantastic. But when I go play I want model looks with outstanding service. Absolutely, no exceptions. My partner feels the same way when we add a third.

I prefer them on the younger side. And I prefer they are hot. I can get an average lady my age without paying so that’s not much of a benefit. That said, I wouldn’t say the ladies I see are high end. I see ladies more in the median. I don’t feel I need to go to the higher end. I’m generally happy with the options at the price point I am at. I do occasionally make an exception if I truly feel the price of admission is special and worth it.

I feel that. For me the goal is to just replace dating completely with escorts cause I'm tired of the drama, arguing and breakups, I value my peace more than a relationship and I have a big thing for women around 40s to 60s with a little extra meat on the bones lol, lucky me it's easy to find my type at a lower rate.

I hear it’s tough out there from my single friends.

Glad you mentioned this kind of date. I started well before CV. Everyone was more chill etc.  I have slowly drifted into once in a while and high dollar.  What do I get for that….usually good looks and a lot of fake stuff.  I put up with fake and enjoy the good looks.  Usually good performance.(probably fake also)
A few weeks back scheduled an appointment w a girl I had seen maybe 4 or 5 times before.  She had the wrong day in her mind.  Arrived a hotel communicating by email so some pause.  “When I get there where might the elevator key be?” “There’s a book by a painting it will be there!”
“Ok great!”.  No key there. I’m trying not to look obvious rummaging through the lobby decor.  When o voice says “ “OMG is it today?”  I turn around to a girl with a bag of snacks, a soft drink in her hand, jeans, tennis’s, a tank top, and no makeup!  I don’t recognize her!!!!!  There were similarities as I know this girl from somewhere???  I think maybe it’s another girl I had seen before stating her also. Unsure I “said uhhhh yes”. Once we figures it out she said she was sorry but come on up today worked fine too.  
We got in the elevator laughing about it. Went to the room shared her snacks and had the best date I’ve ever had with her.  No makeup! Pulled off jeans and guess what…..she was wearing cotton bikini underwear. No jewels, no straps or buckles, didn’t run up her ass.  No full body harnesses.  It was great.  Best most organic time in along time.

that I make it a point to contact a gal a week before, the day before, and the morning of our date.

It sounds like you got a true GFE!