Being diabetic and somewhat inexperienced (afraid), sometimes I can't perform. I am getting better about explaining my difficulty up front.  
Is there a non-creepy way to ask for a providers panties to finish at home? I can't be the only one with this issue.  

why not book a longer date?

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Asks for panties says they don't want to wear them, unless they're still in college, then they really don't. It's inly about the trophy.  

When you book the appointment, tell your playmate you'd like to keep her panties as a remembrance.  Who the heck is going to object to that?

If you buy a pair yourself as I suggested make sure you don't get the crotchless ones by mistake or you're just going to smell air.  

for someone who has never done this.  Either that or you have a very fertile imagination.

fertile imagination, because I've been told on multiple occasions that I'm full of shit.  

Why don't you get her size and buy her a pair. Forever 21, Victoria Secrets or wherever they sell trashy intimate wear should have something you like. She can model it for you.Can something like this work??

I would agree to this 100%. The client gets the panties, I wear them and then send them home with you.

Some panties are inexpensive and some are not inexpensive. You're also not just paying for the cloth itself when you buy them from her, you're asking for an extra service pretty much.  

... like she told me.  
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I said, "That's why I want them! To fly my kite!"

For the last few years, I stopped wearing panties for my dates. I thought that they just got in the way. I am actually surprised at guy that are surprised to see just me when I lift up my lingerie dress! One actually remarked that he loves rubbing his face on a nice thong. I was like wow! So I will resume wearing them again.....one day.

I would want you and not your panties.  

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I have it on my website & have always sold my soiled undies.  Ladies, do not always wear panties & we can always buy cheap ones just to fulfill your special request.  I used to have a panty boy who loved my scent after sexercise. lol Smile 4 me!

there's a market for soiled underwear.  You could sell them too.  Just call them "Smartie pants."  (The marketing guy usually gets 10%, but I'll leave it up to your discretion.  I know you'll do the right thing.)  

Have her sit on your face and finish yourself it that's your choice.. they won't mind..

I only wear matching sets. There is no way I'd give you my panties. Not only that, but I shower immediately before our session and wear fresh panties. There would be little scent on them. If you ask in advance, a lady can select a pair that either don't belong to a matched set or buy an inexpensive pair and wear them for a few hours for best results.

Just ask can't hurt. Or buy them and ask for them at end of session?

Please come back to Stamford, you hot bitch!

Yum!!  Hit me up if you ever tour in my neck of the woods

I agree with a lot of the advice you were given, just ask in advance if you can either buy hers or purchase some to have her wear during your session, knowing you're taking them with you her. I think most of us have had offers from people wanting to purchase our panties. Whether it's after our session or even simply just to schedule time to come see me in them, watch me take take them off and go...As long as I'm prepared, I'm totally cool with it! Communication is key...I always appreciate it when a guy levels with me about what's up (or not up?!)  It's the best way for you to have a truly relaxed and enjoyable session!

Tip her an extra $40 and she can buy a 3 pack from Victoria's Secret !   A "Win/Win" !!

I have often thought about asking for her panties just to remember our wonderful playtime together, and hey I'm a guy and I looove a womens scent, I find it very intoxicating and erotic. If they made a car air freshner that smelled like pussy I would buy it..

Suggestions:  
Harlow and Fox (for us D and up girls)
La Perla
Trashy Diva
Journelle
Fig Leaves  
Agent Provocateur

Judging from what others have posted, I've got a totally different experience.