During a LATE session recently, at a VERY Intimate moment, MY HOUSE phone in my hotel room rings.
It rings to COMPLETION!

My date and I pause during the INTERRUPTION.

Later....after my date leaves..I see my phone msg light flashing. I call the msg to hear another provider telling my "Date" to HURRY up ..she is hungry, etc., etc., etc!

What am I missing here?

Should we find this acceptable behavior?

XOXO

SexyC

Dont ever see him again, and change hotels when you are in that city *  I am sure you do * Why would he even tell her what room you were in ?
This isnt the providers problem, Its the hobbyist

-- Modified on 4/30/2006 10:21:41 AM

that she didn't knock on the door.

My wife did once.

She saw my car parked outside the hotel and mosyed to the front desk and asked for the room number and showed ID that she was my wife.   They gave it to her and came up to say hi.

That was a real fun session.

I don't go there anymore.

-- Modified on 4/30/2006 7:21:31 AM

What are you missing - details. How did you know it was another provider - someone you know and can share here? If you know who this provider is, did you give her your room number, or the date? Have you contacted your date since to ask him if he gave up the room number? Actually, when the provider left the message, did she specifically call out your dates name?

Hell, the least your date could have done was offer to take you out to eat.

What are the chances this hotel has a 90% provider occupancy rate - LOL... Opps, sorry, wrong number..


If in fact your date did give up the room number to another provider, no, it's not acceptable on both parts, the other providers, and your dates. Guess you won't be seeing him again, or doinng doubles with the other provider - but I could be wrong...

That was totally unacceptable behaviour from both the client and the provider.  

Nobody should ever have your location details unless you choose to give them out.  Passing on such information to a third party is completely out of order and a sign of lack of respect on a monumental scale.  

-- Modified on 4/30/2006 7:41:35 AM

Follow up question:  Did you fantasize about your wife while you were trying to finish?
Just wondering...

One time I had a provider come my hotel room and hotel management called when were hot in heavy in the missionary position. I just ignored the phone call. They called and wanted to see how things were going lol. The provider was moaning like crazy.

When I go to hotels now I always unplug the phone after the provider gets in the room.

....she knew it was your room, not his.  From the description the guy probably gave her your room and said it was his.

Apparently she may not have known he was in session, perhaps he gave her the room # because he got off on the drama, or something. No provider would make a call like that  if she was armed with the whole story it would be too humiliating to her. You should cut her some slack and look to the guy,he apparently has issues

My escort friend (whom I have known for many years) broke down in tears and left.

I had a wonderful fantasy of divorce court, which, as it turned out, came to pass.

Think Ciara is correct, ALWAYS be safe, change the venue in that City, seriously consider not seeing him again, unless there is a really good explaination.

BTW, did he hurry-up?  {I know you didn't hear the message until later}

You COULD HAVE had a problem, I'd say it's a good chance he has a real problem!  Why are people so thoughtless?

-- Modified on 4/30/2006 12:36:34 PM

How did you wife find out that you were at the hotel   ? Was she always driving around looking for you ?

Well, if you didn't give her the name of the hotel you were staying in, the room number, who your client was, when his appoint was, for how long and when it was excpected to be finished...I would say he had to have.

If he did give her all that information, then I would think she either had to assume it was his room, or at the very least that you knew he gave her that info, and had been told she would call.

That she specifically left the message for him, would indicate she probably thought it was his room, and her telling him to hurry up, was because he may have overlapped his booking so that he had a luch scheduled with her (either as friends or as an appointment...I would guess most likely as friends since I doubt she would chastise him to "hurry" if it was a paid appointment).

Now, all that said, if she was under the impression it was his room, and he led her to believe he would be meeting her around the time of the call, she may have done nothing wrong (I say may have because even if she thought it was his room, if she knew another lady might be there it would be a failing of manners).  If she knew it was your room then she definitely shouldn't have called...but either way if you didn't give her the hotel and room information, then he did, and that is damn far from discreet, and a lack of respect for you or your time together on his part in the first place.

My thought was that he might have setup a second date and gave her that number to call as a "wake up" call so he wouldn't be late for her.
There just doesn't seem to be any other reason for her to have that number.
It was wrong, unacceptable, rude, and violated your privacy.
What would happen if she decided to "drop by" and visit him? She might be assuming that it was his room and surprise, surprise there you were.

A very inconsiderate, rude, potentially dangerous, jerk.
Don't ever see him again.

Just my opinion...
B

She had caught me red-handed once before when another stupid hotel mailed the receipt (including phone numbers of calls the escort had made to her home from the room phone) to my house.  So it may be safe to assume that she was not watching over me.

The hotel is located right on the main street of the city we lived in.  In hindsight, I was foolish to park the car on the street rather than spend the $5 for the garage.  (Woo-hoo I found a meter!)

Live and learn.

I doubt that a provider would breech another lady's operation like that (she apparently figured he would answer and he would be the only one to hear the message).  I think he might have given her the number but didn't tell her who would be in the room besides himself. Why the hell would he do that?  

Why the hell would he do that?

So true !!
this provider was no Miss Cleo and didnt look into her cards or crystal ball to know what room he was in

Once I was in CA and she was back in philly, and she called at the exact moment....  Talk about look under the bed.  wa hoo.   it is like that at times....

that are unexplainable....like.... where does the other sock go in the dryer?!  Why do dogs chase cars?  what would they do if they caught one....   Why do we always find things in the last place we look?  Why can't we capture all the methane from farts (cow and human) and use that to power stuff?  If you fill a diskette with information, does it weigh more?  When I type my message here, and push enter, is it the same electrons that go all the way to your monitor, or do they tell someother electrons and they go?

When I was going to the incall about the go into the hotel the SO calls my cell phone. I did not answer. Later on she asks how come you did not answer, I tell her that I was in the middle of something.

Others time it could be in the middle of the appointment.

My cell phone is faulity and it shuts off without me knowing. Good excuse.

~I will add them here just to be sure the provider involved knows they were genuine (*gheez leave town for two days and the inmates take control of the asylum!! Sorry to just be posting but I returned to Atlanta late yesterday*)

My sincere and deepest apologies to the provider that you are referring to in this post. I was not in the Atlanta area or I would have made myself available.

For a hobbyist to bring a provider into his town and not allow time and effort for her comfort is unacceptable!

When I am flown into a City to spend the evening with a hobbyist I, like she did, do not make any other arrangements. Thus she was at his mercy in regards to dining times, etc. (*I have had a hobbyist unexpectedly have family demands arise and I was "on my own" to fend for dinner plans and other entertainment for the evening but at least I received a voicemail prior to my landing. I understand emergencies do arise*)

The hobbyist had no respect for the providers needs or comforts. Additionally, he obviously needed some female drama in his life to provide this woman with a room number to another provider & intentionaly forget to inform her it was a providers room!

Providers... forewarned is for armed!!  In regards to the post questioning what was wrong with the picture, I believe I would have spoken directly to the provider. (*or at least explained to the client how inappropriate it was to give out the room number that you were staying in*) I would have (no doubt)changed rooms... after all if he gave your room number to another provider who else did he give it to????    

There is no way I would have been upset with the provider, she probably had no way of knowing it wasn't the guys room.

All of it just has wayyyy tooo much drama written all over it to me.

Trust me when I state that there are wonderful hobbyists in the Atlanta area. We have a great adult community here and visiting ladies can always call to established providers for assistance if they are ever in our town and weird events happen. We are a supportive and co-operating community and enjoy visitors. My apologies again to the visiting Northern provider, this is not typical behavior of the adult community in Atlanta and I am so sorry I was not in town to aide you...  much love... ~Tori of Atlanta

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