Please calm down 😘

She’s highly reviewed? I promise she’s not working with the vice squad.

I like to know where the person is staying so I can plan my transit and any other arrangements for the evening. If he’s staying somewhere with a nice gym, I might want to use the gym after the date. Also, some providers we will only go to a certain caliber of hotel, so she might be wanting to make sure you’re not at Motel 6.

Last – certain hotels in certain cities have reputations for being places where stings happen, so she might be concerned about the exact same thing you are.

If vice is already working with your companion, what makes the difference two weeks out or the next day?  

If you think there's a chance this provider is actually LE, then you should not be seeing them in the first place, IMHO.

Why not?

I like to know what hotel I am going to, so I know the layout. Parking. I don't think it's a big deal. Many providers have 4 or 5 star requirements. If it's in a bad area, or polluted with unsavory individuals she may pass.

But it does happen on occasion. Since this sounds like it’s your first time with her, she doesn’t have any baseline to assess your judgement in this regard. Some women just have different lived experiences than others and it’s quite possible this provider in question got burned in the past and the hotel info she got the day before in that case didn’t come close to her minimum standard.
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When I am contacting a provider for a first date for outcall, I always stipulate in my opening date request that the hotel will be an upscale one in such and such area and that almost always allays her fears.
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As for LE, I wouldn’t sweat that at all with what you are telling us. If she is highly and often reviewed, you will be fine. Doing outcall lowers your already very small risk as LE doesn’t work that way.

It sounds like you’re not confident in your vetting of the provider, or you may be a newbie? Clarify what research you did (always trust your gut though. It’s better to be safe than sorry)

We cant say what’s “normal” bc every provider’s process varies.. however it’s not uncommon for us to request some sort of proof you’ll be there. Lots of fantasy bookers get off on wasting our time. In most cases outcall does require additional steps, especially to block our schedule way in advance. Provider may also request: send uber or deposit, a pic of your hotel keycard showing name or room #, pic of the house/apt number outside the door, calling hotel and transferring to your room line, or a screenshot of your reserv. None of which indicate a catfish, scam, sketchy situation, or LE.  

Good luck and have fun if you decide to continue with the date!

I’ll sometimes ask for the general area just so I know approx travel time. I generally don’t ask for the exact address but honestly why would it even matter? You aren’t giving her the room number. I certainly wouldn’t give the room number out until a few hours beforehand, but what exactly do you think is gonna happen if you give hotel information?  You do know if it’s a sting they can also arrest you if you give them the information a few hours beforehand also right? Anyway… as long as the girl is well reviewed and legit you are fine either way.

Honestly, if she’s highly reviewed, I wouldn’t worry. If someone like QB or Claire asked, I wouldn’t bat an eye. And to be clear, highly reviewed to me suggests this provider is not newish, is currently active and has 15+ reviews over at least a year’s time. And recent reviews matter. You tell me she’s highly reviewed but has no reviews for 2+ years, I might not feel as comfortable.

Extremely unlikely Law Enforcement would be operating 2 weeks out.....usually they do a "Wham-Bam'Thank You Mam" hit and move on----News crews and hopefully our boys and girls in Blue have better stuff to do than trail an escort for two weeks.....

I don’t do outcall much, only when I’m traveling, probably less than a dozen appointments all added up. But it’s been pretty much like that almost every time, if not every time.  

 
No matter how far in advance I’m scheduling, as soon as the appointment is confirmed, “okay you’re seeing me on X day, what day are you arriving in my city?” Then “okay what hotel?” When the time draws closer “let me know when you get to town” then “let me know when you’re checked in.”

 
It can be a bit off-putting or unnerving when not expecting it, as you’re seeing. But it’s all worked out fine for me every time. If she is well reviewed and has recent reviews, I agree with the folks saying you don’t need to worry. Robert made a good point, I don’t think LE sends people into an outcall room where they can’t control the situation.  

 
Besides all the reasons others have listed above as to why she’d want to know ahead of time to be prepared, which are all perfectly valid points and would be for ANYONE; I think a lot of providers get a bit anxious about outcalls to hotels because they have been NCNS’d several times.

Unless you have some kind of outstanding warrant, it's highly doubtful anybody is setting up a sting to bust one guy on an outcall.