that is the question.

...I have repeated with most of those I have reviewed. A few left the business before I was able to repeat. I check things out before I choose to see a lady so I have a high success rate in regard to her meeting and exceeding my expectations. I enjoy the company of the ladies I've seen so I go back.

All the excitement to meeting a new woman, viewing all the secret places of her body for the first time, and doing all kinds of incredible erotic exercises to complete exhaustion is hard to replicate.  Since most providers view this hobby as more of a business, it is hard to have a good connection after all the physical stuff is over.  Therefore, I personally find that the providers that seem to have excellent enthusiasm for being with me are usually the only ones I will repeat with.  I understand that it is all fantasy, so my standards for a fantasy girl are enthusiasm.

and found that 28% of gals I have reviewed were one time only.

There are some extenuating circumstances however:

Some are gals in cities I was visiting and will most likely not get to again.

Some gals retired before I had a chance to see them.

In one case a gal flaked out on me before our second date.

There are a number of local gals I have seen recently and I would like to see them again, but it's not that likely as I have to cut down on the amount of gals I see and frequency owing to circumstances well within my control, but which I have  been a bit profligate, lately.  (In other words:  piggy bank isn't as jingly as it used to be.)

So I went back and checked, to find I've repeated with 21 of the 55 gals I've reviewed.  That's not definitive because I've seen more gals than I've reviewed, but it's close.  If a gal is really great, of course I want to see her again, and it's usually even better the second time because she's more comfortable and more YMMV things open up.  The result is I've got more than ten gals I'll see once every few months.  But because I like the thrill of the new, I'm still more likely to do that.

I count the first two as one unless I was chill during the first one...  

I'd say I repeat with about 50% of the providers I've seen. The primary reason is that I know, within reason, how she will perform. Secondarily, is that the more times I spend with the same lady the more comfortable I get. What ladies do I repeat with? I appreciate a lady that can turn it on during "game on" and then come up and lay with me and talk and be intimate during the "Down time". I think it's an incredible skill to be able to do that, so those are the ladies I repeat with. I do like some variety, but I find the first date is always a little awkward and tentative. I also will say that typically in repeat dates when she's more comfortable you can get her to open up with what turns her on and what gets her off. I don't feel that it's a priority to get her off, but if she can enjoy it and get off I've found it's better for both of us.

I would remember factors from ‘budget vs. variety’ too the common second or third visit ‘let down’ concerns that are both natural and learned factors.
   
I think those trite-isms are more an overall projection saying that you’d eagerly repeat her charms and donation if circumstances and budget allow.  
 

Once I find something I like I'm definitely going back.  I'm not comfortable with new things.  Well...that's not always true....

and yes I use the expression "I will/would repeat". That doesn't mean that I do, just means that the provdiers qualifies as a possible repeat candidate.  How often do I repeat, I'm to lazy to go thru my reviews, but I'd say maybe 10%.  

When finances are good, if I really connect with someone I tend to repeat often but in the last year things have been tight so I'd have to say, if I hobby two or three times a month, I'll tend to repeat every other month and I'll rotate between my three ATF's

I went back and it seems I've repeated with ~35% of ladies I've been with.  Accounting for the types of ladies I see (touring K-girls), that's a high number.  When I find someone I really like, I'll see them more or less exclusively while they are available.

I totally get it. I seem to repeat with about 10% as well, and I'm totally turned on by the thrill and anticipation of that initial meeting with a new lady.  

Monogamy is not natural and may not work for some, the "deep" feeling is why monogamy is cultural and may work for some.

I'm still relatively new to this and have reviewed 5 providers although I've seen a few more than my reviews.  

...for most of the reasons already stated (comfort, ease of scheduling, easy rapport). It's similar to traveling: you meet people who are constantly on the move trying to make it through their "list," but they're really just getting the same shallow tourist experience that's available for everyone. If you want a unique experience you got to settle in for a bit.

with 10 ladies I've reviewed plus repeats with a lady that is from another site. I have plans on repeating with 2 more of my recent reviews as well.  Wish i had the funds to repeat with several of the ladies a lot more.

75% of my my clients are repeats.  

There was a lady I met during my early days of hobbying that I eventually saw somewhere between 30 and 40 times.  Currently there's one lady I've seen about 15 times.  And there have been a couple of others i saw no fewer than 10 times each but who i lost touch with because they moved or retired. Now during all that I still ventured out to new shores to find new adventures.  But for all the allure of novelty it sure is nice to know there is someone you can always turn to who you know will rock your world.

"I would repeat"
"I will definitely repeat"
"Definitely worth seeing"
"I will repeat over and over again" (I.e. I will repeat seeing escorts)
"I normally don't repeat, but I will repeat for sure" - those come back months later...
"I don't normally hobby, (yeah,) but if I did, I'd repeat" (they are frequent flyers for the girl

not as often as I'd like. I don't have a local lady, so I have to wait for traveling ladies to come back, or for my next vegas trip. And vegas being so awesome, I do a mix of repeats and new ladies. Even if I only repeated in vegas I still couldn't see everyone I want to see each trip.

Thanks for that funny view of the "repeat" phrase.  I did not even realize how lame it sounds till now.  If I write another review, I will be sure not to repeat that mistake again.

started  out in this hobby to experience as much different pussy as I could.  tried all sizes, shapes, colors and ethnicity.  have found very few that I would repeat simply because there is so much variety out there.  that said, there have been a few that were so extraordinary that I have gone back for seconds and even thirds

Since getting started in the hobby earlier this year, I've seen about 10 different ladies and have repeated with 3 at this point.  Of the others there are 2 that I will definitely repeat with when the logistics permit but it will require me to "Head Out West, Young Man".. Or old fart, whichever you prefer.  I'm new so I'm still learning as I go and I'm sure my experiences/preference may change over time.  I've certainly got my list of local ladies that I want to see that I haven't yet and it does enter into my thinking being the newbie.  A new experience and the unknown, though informed thanks to folks here, or a retry knowing that a second experience could be even better than the first.  

whether I am able to play and also where I am able to play.  I take my time and do my homework so the odds of seeing a lady I really enjoy might be higher than those guys who look at pics and when Mr. Happy rises, they email/call the lady they are viewing.

I guess I'm monogomous

My budget only allows me a few hours a month with a provider. I'll soon be seeing a provider for the sixth time in a row. It gets better each time, and I like that. I have other ladies in mind, but I'd like to exhaust the possibilities with this one before moving on.

I repeated with 9 out of 32 providers (so 28%). I have a tendency to see touring providers, so I think my number would be much higher if they were local. Certain market conditions prevent that for me. If I lived in ATL... different story. But I also agree with earlier posts.... Some are sharks & keep swimming.... some find what they like and make it more frequent... Either way is good as long as everyone is happy. Carry On

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but I find myself shopping as my 3 repeating Favorites are retired in the last year...

One ex hooker, also ex Gf is still "Facebook Family" with my mother, who is completely aware of her past as a hooker, but unlike many here, doesn't judge.

I hobby for variety, but I often times repeat, in this one instance several hundred times, and in many other instances several dozen times. What's wrong with seeing someone you like over and over again?

I am not necessarily in this for variety or to fuck as many women as possible like some guys. If I like someone or something and had a good time I repeat. If I go to a new restaurant and like a certain dish, I will probably go back to the same restaurant and order the same dish.

I wouldn't mind repeating, but the temptation to try someone new anytime I think about booking is really high... so providers if a client doesn't repeat, don't feel like we wouldn't want to see you again!  

such an odd thing to grasp. I'm surprised they let it get that far.

contact me when they're back in town.  

I love repeating.. the new getting to know you is out of the way.. I can joke around.. and yet.. My big issue is that everyday I look at ads.. in BP and Eros, etc.. and I have to tell myself I can't meet all of the girls... I just started in this hobby and in the 1st month I had 9 dates with 4 different providers... Now I have decidedthat I have try to go for quality not quanity.. so limiting it to a favorite (repeat) and hopefully a VIP type (a special treat & to set a standard moving forward)..Bills have to be paid and financial ruin is way too easy..

Just my personal hobby style, and it works well for me.  A few have even become friends, to the extent that this can occur in this game.

if i had more money there are many women i've seen once that i would see again.  there's one i'm thinking about seeing again now that i wouldn't hesitate to see twice if money wasn't tight these days.

..and some aren't (to recast a phrase from Julia Louis-Dreyfus on "Seinfeld").

There are several providers whom I've been repeating with since I first started out in the hobby.  (and Yes, some of those really are "friends" of mine, in every conceivable way.  One in particular, I see OTC as well as on, and OTC time is just like any two friends, getting together for drinks, just gabbing and whining about things in our life that get us "down", etc).

There's also a bunch with whom I haven't repeated, for all the usual reasons:  Didn't feel the "connection", not as attractive as her photos, don't usually spend time in her city, she moves to a new city, or retires, yada yada…

And then there are the ones where the whole thing gets stale after some number of dates, and you just kind of move on.  Doesn't make 'em a bad person, or even a bad provider, it just sort of works out that way.

My repeat ratio:  Probably around 30%.  Of those, a few are just plain keepers, and I'll keep seeing them until they retire, or until my dick falls off...

And who says "they" let it get that far? Maybe "I" let it get that far. Is it so unbelievable that maybe I'm a likable guy and they WANT to be my friend? Anyway, not sure why friendship is such an odd thing for you to grasp. Some people are friends with their doctors, accountants, contractors, or mechanics. I am in a service industry myself and many of my clients are friends that I actually hang out with, totally aside from work.

were 22, 23 yrs old?  

Just because someone is not LOOKING for something doesn't mean they are completely closed minded to it. Very few hookers are looking for a "Pretty Woman" type of scenario, but that doesn't mean that "real" relationships don't sometimes start with P4P.

I have a lot of provider "friends" some of them I've never even had sex with, but most I have. I have also had both active and retired providers as real life GF's, shit happens, and no "SHE" doesn't control it, both parties control it. I have had providers seek a relation with me that I just was not interested in, so in those cases it was me in control, not her. Not every whore monger is a needy, clingy mangina, ruled by his dick. but I can see after reading these boards how a person might get that idea. lol

That's pretty much what I was saying. You don't have to be "looking" for something to find something. Also both sides have control if the situation (at least in healthy, non mangina clingy relationships lol) I don't know why earthdude was twisting my words, or what was so confusing about them. Also, WTF did age have to do with it? Yes some of them are 22 or 23. :

Not sure what the age has to do with anything.

Great original post.  I must admit that I am guilty of using the phrase "I would repeat", when I rarely do in reality.  I have probably only repeated with about 10% of the ladies I have seen and no one has been more than a hat trick (3peat).  Sadly the one I did see 3x went from great to epic to mediocre and disappointing.  For me, variety is the spice of life and in my hobby area there are just so many beautiful women to meet.  There are a couple of providers who were fantastic that i would love to see again but they are in other cities, retired now, or I just haven't gotten around to seeing them again yet.   Who knows, maybe the next provider I see will blow me away and I will become monogamous for a while.  In a city with so many wonderful ladies to meet, however, i think that may be a ways off..

twisting anything. I didnt say YOU said those things.you're reading something from nothing.

Wow, great thread.  I must admit that I am guilty of often using the phrase "I would repeat", though I rarely do in reality.  Looking back, I have probably repeated with only 10% of the women I have seen, and I never got past the 'hat trick' or 3peat with any one provider.  That experience was actually disappointing as my times with her went from great, to epic to downright mediocre.  Ok, I admit there was a big hiatus between the second and third times.  Personally, I view variety as the spice of life, and my area is a Monger Mecca.  There are just so many wonderful providers to see in my area, it's hard to go back.  There are a few ladies I would love to see again, but they are either in different cities, retired or UTR and I lost touch.  Others I just have not gotten back around to yet as our schedules rarely synch up.  Who knows, maybe the next lovely lady I see will totally blow me away and I will become a monogamous  hobbyist (haha, auto-correct substituted monogamous with monotonous)...  If I truly felt like there was a lasting connection (real or perceived), I probably would keep repeating for as long as it lasted.  Until then, I don't expect my repeat ratio to change much.  Sometimes I often wondered why providers did not offer more incentives for good clients to keep coming back again and again, beyond the pure performance side of things.  One provider recently  asked me to come back soon and then let on that seeing totally new men was nerve racking as they never know who will come in the door, and that she really prefers to have regulars.  I am not the type to ever ask for a discount as I think it is insulting to the woman, but offering one up in that instance probably would have kept me coming back.  All the best to my fellow hobbyists whether you are the adventurous or the familiar type

I've only repeated once. For me it's something I don't do often and I usually have reasons to select a certain provider (I don't think checklist is the right word - that sounds clinical and just...eh). But I would use the phrase purely because if I had the inclination and money to maybe do this more frequently, I would. And with that, I would repeat with almost every one I've met so far. So for me the phrase is in theory but maybe not in action. I've been very lucky in that I'd say every provider I've met without exception has had something great to offer beyond sex.