I have never hit a woman before, but if anyone tries to put an object up my ass by surprise, I cannot be held responsible for my actions.

if an atf did that, without my consent, she'd no longer be an atf. gotta be careful where ladies stick it cuz some guys find it a big turn off.

the only object I allow in there is my shit and I know for a fact that its on its merry way out the door every morning  lmfao

I recall my first finger up the ass.  It was with a massage provider and she just stuck it up there.  Fortunately I liked it.  She was a bit kooky, but in a nice way.

If you were with your ATF and she wanted to use a strap on with you or finger your ass what would you do?  Be honest!!!   Girls have you ever requested this?  If so, what happened?

...asked and I said yes. I'm pretty vanilla so this was outside my comfort zone.  She had a lot of experience and took it very slowly.  I have to say I enjoyed it and did it several more times.  I haven't done it since but would consider it with the right woman.

If you have an open mind, you may find you like it.  If you're one of those guys who thinks it'll make you gay, then fuggedaboutit; you'll be too uptight.

I was seeing a young Asian lady for the first time, and arranged for a 2hr appointment. During the shower part of the appointment, which I enjoy a lot, we lathered each other and we were playing, and kissing, all of the sudden, without a warning she slid her finger deep up my ass. I was shocked, and I think I let out a squeak, and removed her finger, shook my head, and told her that I do not like that, it does not feel good.

Her English is not good, so I hopped she understood that I do not like that kind of play. She nodded OK, and smiled. A few minutes later, there goes her finger up my ass again, I did the same as before, she was laughing out loud, at my facial expressions I would guess, and nodding OK.

We continued kissing and playing in the shower, and I felt her hand on my ass trying to sneak a finger in again. I grabbed her hand and put it on my shoulder, and she was just laughing. So, I grabbed her by the waist, pulled her closer to me, and slid my finger up hers, just to see how much she liked it.

Well, she did like it a lot, she was pushing against my hand to get my finger in deeper, and started to kiss furiously. I think, putting her finger up my ass was supposed to be a hint for me to play with hers, It was her way to let me know. She turned out to be a very kinky lady.

She had great reviews here, but none of the reviews, profile or her website mentioned that part, or the greek part, it was a complete surprise to me, the good kind.

Yes I would let her, when I was in the military station in Germany, had a german girlfriend who had a strap-on that please her also, and I loved it because she know how to use it and give me a reach around at the same time.

Strap-on, NO!  Fingers are okay, if she is well versed in the art of giving erotic prostate massages.  One of my ATFs (now retired) studied tantra and introduced me to a prostate massage during one of our session.  If done correctly, it can generate some mind blowing orgasms.

It was cool. Had one that stuck this little vibrator I bought for her to stick in her ass while we fucked, but she decided to use it on me instead. Tiny thing. About the size of your pinky.

But the finger fucking's cool when you're in 69 and doing it to each other.

Strap on I'll do without, though.

Violating my boundaries with unwanted penetration is borderline sexual assault. I would be well beyond pissed. The session would instantly end. I would do every thing in my power to warn everyone she has no respect for boundaries. I am normally a calm guy but that could turn me violent. Penetration with out permission is wrong regardless of who initiates it. Kooky or not she is lucky she did not try something like that with me. The very thought pisses me off.

IF she asked, I would politely but firmly tell her no. If she pressed the matter,I would leave and put her on my DNS ever list. If she just did it bad things could happen, very bad. Nothing and I mean nothing short of endangering my family would piss me off faster. Nothing.

I had a provider ask me if she could bring a strap on. I told her she could as long as she was bringing one of her girl friends to use it on. Otherwise it should be left at home.I have also had a massage/provider girl unexpectadly stick a finger up my ass. Yikes..I don't like anything up my but and lowered her score a point.

So you don't have to worry about me. No, double standards at all form me. But if it is true about 85% just going there and showing that kind of disrespect, that is sad. I wouldn't put up with it.

Posted By: nahtynikkey

Posted By: GaGamblerssmarterbrother

I have never hit a woman before, but if anyone tries to put an object up my ass by surprise, I cannot be held responsible for my actions.

Some of the responses by the guys here go along w/the quoted one.... I'd say about 85% of clients I see will try to stick a finger up my a**... most never ask, just go there.. & I do NOT partake in greek, no where in any of my reivews.... wonder why the double standard? Gentlemen, if it isn't listed in her reviews or services offered, please ask before just assuming, as I see a lot of you guys wouldn't take too kindly to it, lol

Well said. You always ask about anything. Do you like pressure? How sensitive are you are two more good points. It's always better to ask. No one ever gets hurt that way.

Warm Hugs,
Paul

I'm not big on having my butt played with.  I asked one top provider,  whose reviews said she was an expert in prostate massge, to try that on me.  Didn't do anything for me.  A strap-on, even less so.  But if a gal is known to enjoy having her butt fingered, I'll do that.  Another top lady was riding me intensely RCG and asked me to stick  a vibrator up her butt.  I was happy to comply, as it increased the pressure on my cock as well as the general hottness.  As for greek, most girls won't do it with me because of my girth (no, MP, not my stomach, either!).

What is good for the goose is good for the gander, even when it is the gander getting goosed.



Thank you
2011 = 28

how sexually conservative this bunch of men seems to be.  A lot of pleasure to be had there, espciallly if you still have a prostate.

Afte much pursuit, she finally agreed to let him do her, with the condition that afterwards she got to do him with a strap on ......... a very funny dilemma.

BigPapasan- I agree 100%.  WHen we are sitting in front of our computers it's easy to say NO and Your Gay if you do that.  However, I love sex and in the heat of the moment I'm pretty much game for anything with the RIGHT WOMEN.  If I'm comfortable I would let her do just about anything she wanted to do.  I want to try the strap on thing with our local girl Amsterdam....she  has experience with this and she is a HOT little thing.  And guys, I'm not talking about a 7 inch strap on....I want to star small...maybe 3 to 4 inch and very gentle since I'm a virgin.  :  

over my ass that says "EXIT ONLY"

Until you've had a proper prostate massage.

Dick kicked like .500 Nitro Express.

It was easier for the girl to stick her finger in my ass than for a physician. It's more relaxing when the 'examiner' is laying there nekkid with you than a person tells you to drop 'trou' and bend over. Especially when you know you can do the same thing to them...

AWW, It's nice to read. Thanks for sharing.  Feels nice to know,  it didn't only happen to me.

I never understood while they try.... Um Like do I mention that on my website?  Ah no!

I don't even see myself puting anything in another person in that exit... lol... Thats a one way. hehehe

 

Posted By: nahtynikkey

Posted By: GaGamblerssmarterbrother

I have never hit a woman before, but if anyone tries to put an object up my ass by surprise, I cannot be held responsible for my actions.

Some of the responses by the guys here go along w/the quoted one.... I'd say about 85% of clients I see will try to stick a finger up my a**... most never ask, just go there.. & I do NOT partake in greek, no where in any of my reivews.... wonder why the double standard? Gentlemen, if it isn't listed in her reviews or services offered, please ask before just assuming, as I see a lot of you guys wouldn't take too kindly to it, lol

I've had several prostate massages at AMPs and I have to say they do intensify the orgasm if they do it right, which they always have with me.  And they never asked, they just slowly got their finger up there while in the midst of providing the happy ending, and massaged the prostate while completing the hand job.

I had a gf that tried it once, but she was clueless and it just hurt.  

I've never tried a strap-on, but I would give it a shot if I was with the right lady.

with fucking a girl in the ass but don't want anything in yours!  I can't stand anal, just a waft of ass smell and I start gagging.  But a prostate massage with BBBJ and CIM - can't be beat.  Mind blowing orgasm.  
You're not gay if a woman sticks her finger up your ass.  Your gay if you suck dicks.  And that's fine too, if that's your cup of tea.  But to not try it because you're scared you may like it?