Hi.
First post.
I'm mostly curious about large people.  I'm a big guy, 6'5" and 275lbs.  I'm just wondering if being overweight makes a difference to the providers or not.  
Thanks,
Tim

I'm a big guy too and not one lady has ever made an issue of it, or even appeared to take notice.

Understand that a well reviewed provider becomes well reviewed because she understands that it is her job to fulfill fantasy, and the positive reviews are all guys (most of whom aren't greek gods) saying that she is very good at her job.

Beating the dead horse yet again, clean polite sober and respectful (along with plenty of cash of course) will get you all the fantasy action you want with no regards to your looks.

Just make sure the first thing out of your mouth is "I love doggie and cowgirl".

hi Tim,

for me confidence goes along way as far as whether or not i'll consider a man attractive. a big man like yourself who was very shy, looking at the floor, self-conscious...i would find to be unattractive. but if he walked in like a "Pimp" so to speak, head held high, big smiles and sure of himself, then i'd have no problem finding him sexy.

one of my favorites is a gentleman almost 100 lbs larger than yourself, your same height. i find myself becoming aroused just anticipating his visits because of his big personality and the confidence he exudes.

Not a problem at all... we are not all blessed with a high metabolism.  I have fallen in love with short men, tall men, fat men, thin men, bald men, hairy backed men... it's the heart and the mind and the sense of humor that matter.... and any good provider looks past the physical to the heart...  this is more than just physical.  There is a human connection element that is wonderful... I know it sounds cliche... but size doesn't matter

If it makes a difference you are seeing the wrong girl. Just one reminder, big guys sweat a lot. Be sure to shower either right before your appointment or at her location when you arrive.

As everyone else has said, you'll do fine with a truly professional provider.

I'm 6'0", and when I had my stomach stapled 7+ years ago I weighed 420lbs.  Only once has a provider reacted negatively to me because of my weight, and she wasn't a true pro, but a hyped-up junkie (poor research on my part).

Just remember, if you are big, not all of the positions work, and those that do don't work with every lady you see.  Let her guide you.  If you are with a true professional, she will find a way to make sure you have a great time!

. . . I have always been attracted to kindness, a bit of vulnerability, intelligence and a sense of humor regardless of physical attributes.

We are all much more similiar than we are different.

Wow... this question really hits home, and brings back sh*tloads of memories from before my first appointment.

I'm not a model as far as looks go.  So before I booked my first appointment ever, and also before I discovered TER, I was worried that the provider will rip me off because she won't like me. After all, the donation is for time only, and anything else is *not* guaranteed.

Thanks God for TER (on a side note, it seems kind of ironic to thank God for something like this, but oh well).  I read the reviews, and realized how good the hobby was.  So I took the plunge, and booked an appointment, with a very nice Chicago agency.  A few days later, I showed up for the appointment.  The provider realized it was my first time hobbying, and treated me accordingly.  Long story short, I walked out of the hotel room smiling, and have been hobbying ever since.

But it's good of you to tell women before you show up because it does matter to some.  The most important thing is to be recently showered and friendly.

And have her fee.  Follow those rules and a good time should be had by all.

Harlow Gold

Reon't worry!---wrong

It's possible for a woman to be a true professional and not find a 400+ man desireable as a client.  It's personal choice.

Just like men have preferences in which escort they see, women have preferences in which clients they see.  To suggest that she is not a professional because she doesn't like large men is just as ridiculous as suggesting that a man isn't a gentleman because he doesn't like large women.

Each woman is free to set her own standards (as is each hobbyist).  "Professionalism" has nothing to do with it.