I have only had "4 dates" in the past 8 years, one in 2021 as it was someone I have seen many times prior and three in the beginning of 2018. My question is what is considered proper and is fair to both parties? I came back on yesterday and started looking at websites from ladies posting on here as well as looked on Tryst and some personal websites. I also purposely looked up five women I have not seen in over eight years. I would say a good 75% still had pictures up that I am absolutely certain they were using eight years ago. I understand there is a cost to updating pictures, especially professionally done and I am sure some women have not changed much in those years and some may even look better. I was simply surprised at how many pictures that were eight years old or more. So I ask with total respect for our ladies, what is appropriate and fair to everyone?

When I see a woman, I don't ask how old she is, so being 8 years older in of itself doesn't matter. If from 24 to 32 she looks just as good, I don't care so much. That said, this usually is not the reality. I often find she does look older then her pics when they are so dated. There are several providers that I saw 5-6 years ago or more who's pics made them look in the 25-35 range and who were clearly over 40. And, many still have the same pics up, making them likely 45+ now.

Professional photoshoots are expensive, but necessary.  
Yearly pro shoots at the very least. March 2026 was my last professional photographer shoot. I love candid cell phone photos! I try to post a variety of photos. I create content for my OF and regularly provide unedited photos and videos for my subscribers.

"Still using pictures on her ad from 2018"....Lot can happen---Lost her looks, gained a lot or weight, lost a lot of weight, looks in person like she has been using a lot of drugs or drinking, facial wrinkles, failed breast implants, the list goes on...