So you see a provider for the first time and she's not a clock watcher and actually stays an extra 30 minutes or so. So then you write a review for her and say that she is indeed not a clock watcher.
Then you go to see her again and she makes sure to cut the apointment off right when the time is up.
So providers are only NOT clock watchers on the first date? To me that seems to be the common trend? Am I wrong?
something most of them want in reviews. If she likes you, she might let the session go overtime, but she is not necessarily going to do that with everyone. By including it in the review, all her clients will be expecting same treatment.
Were I a provider, and I liked you enough to give you some extra time, I would ask you not to say anything about it in the review. That is probably why the next time you went to see her, she cut you off at the agreed-upon time.
I would not generalize that providers are not clockwatchers on the first date, in fact I would think just the opposite. Namely, if they like you on the first date, you might get extra time when you repeat with her. I just can't see a provider giving a guy extra time the first time they met. But that's just my opinion.
Honestly, I have yet to be with a woman in this hobby that kicked me out because the buzzer went off on her clock. The one time I spent an extra 15 minutes with a provider (from an agency) I apologized profusely to the agency and got out of there as soon as I noticed the situation.
The independent girls who have graced me with an extra 10 minutes of chat time, or whatever, even if they just walked me out to the street have always ended up on my call - again list.
Then again, in every case, it was because we got to talking. Too bad I cannot hire some of these girls to work as receptionists at the company I work for! With their smiles, attitudes and people skills, the company would NEVER have a slow period!
A gentleman is always appreciated. Chat time is fine. Extra time is fine. I just don't want it to be expected. Ah- whoever coined the term *clock-watcher*- phooey on them! Haha. I have never heard of any buzzer going off.. We providers aren't that bad. Just need a little love.
Time escapes us. One shouldn't analyze it or get pouty when more time isn't extended on the next date. That's what ruins it. I'm not referring to you, just people in general.
If I have an extra moment or am enjoying a conversation, some extra time may lapse. If at the next appt the client makes no move to get ready to leave, or if even after extra time has lapsed and I start getting ready and he makes a comment about me usually not being in such a hurry.. I really, really don't like that. This has happened and I made a point not to see him again.
Enjoy if it happens. It's not anything I try to do because so often the above result occurs and I'm made to feel uncomfortable and as if I'm rude for not extending the date on future occasions..
This is a service. A very fun service. But a gift (like a bit more time ) is just that- a gift. Don't expect it. After a massage, would you just continue lying on the table?
I hope this makes sense. Typing into my phone, haha. Sorry if I come off too opinionated.. Just had some experiences with this myself.
Sometimes we have things to do after and sometimes we don't. If my next appointment is in three hours than I won't be rushing someone out the door. If my next appointment is in 45 minutes of course I will be throwing you in the shower at exactly an hour.
the first time you both met, she had a slow day and didn't have anywhere to be. When you met up the second time she may have had somewhere she needed to be shortly afterward. While I am not a clock watcher, I am not always able to spend the day with my clients. Our time is our money. I would not blast a lady for not staying an extra 30 minutes every time she sees you or she might send the rest of us an email saying that you are just trying to get something for nothing. It happens all the time.
If you really want her to stay longer then dig a little deeper and pay her for it.
I consider it a nice bonus and makes it much more likely that the lady in question will receive a future booty call from me. But, if a lady rocks my world, that's all that really matters.
Believe it or not I once had a lady accidently short me an hour on an extended appointment (long story). I will see her again in a heartbeat if the opportunity arises...She was amazing!
Note: She did offer to make it up to me and I will definitely hold her to it!
You are WRONG!! Really all providers must be good time managers, whether watching a clock, tracking time by music tracks or just a sense of time. A "clock watcher" rushes you even if your time is not up ("Hurry up before my room mate comes home", "Did you cum yet?"). We should not resent a lady gently reminding us as our time wraps up... as long as she pleasantly gives the full time. It would be totally unfair to expect extra uncompensated time every time you see her. She is not your GF! She may have someplace to be. I have had quite a few ladies stay from 1/2 to 3 hours over... though the action was over close to the agreed time. It would be misleading to put that in a review. Other occasions with the same people have been wrapped up soon after the appointed hour... because they did have some thing else to do that day. skb
providers do have a life of their own outside the hobby, and its theirs to decide what to do with that extra time once the official appointment is over.
Be grateful when do you get xtra unpaid time, but don't come to expect it.
Not a clock watcher only means she has the courtesy to keep track of the time without making it apparent to her clients. A customer who takes advantage of her good manners to try to get extra time is a freeloader.
Not a clock watcher only means she has the courtesy to keep track of the time without making it apparent to her clients. A customer who takes advantage of her good manners to try to get extra time is a freeloader.
You are WRONG!! Really all providers must be good time managers, whether watching a clock, tracking time by music tracks or just a sense of time. A "clock watcher" rushes you even if your time is not up ("Hurry up before my room mate comes home", "Did you cum yet?"). We should not resent a lady gently reminding us as our time wraps up... as long as she pleasantly gives the full time. It would be totally unfair to expect extra uncompensated time every time you see her. She is not your GF! She may have someplace to be. I have had quite a few ladies stay from 1/2 to 3 hours over... though the action was over close to the agreed time. It would be misleading to put that in a review. Other occasions with the same people have been wrapped up soon after the appointed hour... because they did have some thing else to do that day. skb
How are we to know you want an extra 20 minutes? Remember that we manage our schedules around the requests we receive. At least let us do that without making gents think they will get rushed off early bc you didn't request the full time you want or require from us.
She is there because you contracted her time...and when that time is up...she is leaving. If she is bored she may want to chat. If she is hungry, she may suggest a dinner. If she has somewhere else to be (like maybe another guy wants to see her), she will leave.
This is not a complicated formula. Don't overthink this. And try and remember...you are very special (for the hour only!!).
In My point of view.. If she's in it for the $, she will be aware of time right? Or if she has other things going on...
My experiences* If we're having fun and he books 2-3 hrs with me (which is what I do) I don't bother to look at the time, Unless, its pass his bed time ) Then I ask if he has to get up early in the AM> Then I better get going.
Everyone is different how we conduct our time. Good luck!
I would love to date you for 3 hours....starting eary evening. When do you come to Washington DC?
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In My point of view.. If she's in it for the $, she will be aware of time right? Or if she has other things going on...
My experiences* If we're having fun and he books 2-3 hrs with me (which is what I do) I don't bother to look at the time, Unless, its pass his bed time ) Then I ask if he has to get up early in the AM> Then I better get going.
Everyone is different how we conduct our time. Good luck!
You are wrong but it depends on the provider, I dont believe in clocks . First time to every time. But if you see a provider that workd with and agency well you already know. brink black electrical tape with ya next time . ha ha
Maybe the first date with you she had no other dates, or she had extra time in between dates. Second date she could have had to be on time for another date.
Well i am not one. on the 1st date to the 10th date to ?? some providers are and some arent.. JMO Indiana Provider dont send me msgs i dont have vip status here
If I can, I sometimes spend a little extra time when I'm meeting someone for the first time... I have a (less scandalous) day job though, so sometimes I have to leave in a timely manner.
You shouldn't expect a woman to stay longer than the time you've agreed upon. I would suggest finding out what her "additional hours" cost. I would expect this could be found on an indie's website. I live in Canada so we can discuss this somewhat freely, perhaps someone in the states could explain how a man should handle this?
I would just like the gentleman to say something like - "I don't know what the rest of your day is like, I wonder if we could extend? I thought we might hit it off, so I brought enough to extend for another hour. I totally understand if you have previous commitments!"
The key is to make sure she knows that you have the additional donation, and give her an out/be understanding so she won't feel bad if she has to decline. Remember, I'm in Canada so someone in the states might clarify how to go about it there.
One of my favs has a driver since she doesn't. At exactly 60 minutes he calls and she is up and out the door in less than 1 minute. So I set an alarm for 5 minutes early just to finish up.
Another of my favs (two hour initial session) had me spend the night. Next time she was in town, I spent five days with her (for the two hour rate!) while she attended civie business meetings and met civie clients. Now THAT is someone who doesn't watch a clock! This has been ongoing for awhile now.
"clockwatchers" is the name given to women who throw you out before your time was up, usually with only one pop regardless of how much time remains or whether a second pop is asked for.
You paid for an hour, you GOT an hour. If you want 90 minutes, then PAY for 90 minutes. The only time you are entitled to is the time you paid for. If she stayed longer the first time you saw her, consider that a bonus, not something you can or should expect everytime you see her.
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) Then I ask if he has to get up early in the AM> Then I better get going. 