I know I've had real conversations, sometimes they even lead me to emailing the lady then setting up an appointment there.

To me it's not a waste of time.  But Im not a provider, so I have no idea what the other guys are saying to them.  Probably some time-waster stuff.

Just think of them as spam pop-ups. Not every guy will make u feel comfortable in PM. You have the power of control--to ignore or accept. You do not have to get emotional about it. Its like every other thing in life. You appear attractive in your website, and I am sure you must get hit on by men all the time. Its the same scenario, if you ignore, they will go away, if you accept, then they will "likey likey fo your booty booty".

Anyways, the PM system is a great attribute in TER. I have made many good connections through it with providers. I have also gain many good insights from hobbyist about providers. Its a gain situation. Your an adult, just kick that suckaaa to the curb girlfriend!!

Hi Caitlyn I tried the messenger for a little while. Like you, I received mostly BS.

It's too bad that more BS than anything seems to be going on when using the messenger service here.  BS propositions with no references.  Or guys who just want to talk dirty to me.  Not happening...  There are websites they can pay for computer porn chat.  LOL  Consequently, I rarely use the messenger here anymore.  I will use it to chat with some other ladies I know from time to time.  Other than that, I found it to be useless.  ie: out of every single hobbyist I chatted with on TER Messenger, not ONE led to an appointment.

Just my .02 cents.

 I use  PM when asking her many inches she can swaller, or what posichun  do she like the best doing brown eye.
Is messenger a better place to ask jusey  questions?
I don't git many replize on PM.

I always thought Messenger was a waste of time....

and had problems using it when it was new. I gave up on it, and refuse to use it.  I don't know a soul who likes it or uses it.

I own a small company and stopped posting on Craigs list because the quality of the calls from there was horrible. Mostly people looking for the lowest price. TER is a great site and the only one I use for reviews but any good client worth his salt will be verified through a site. As a hobbyist, its just easier for me to get what I want. This guy is a wanna be and a flake.