Save up a load when you know you are going to see a provider?  If so, when do you start saving?  Or do you prefer to cleanthe pipes on your normal schedule?

You just stay with the program.

But others have babbled that saving it up for "her" makes it special  LOL

Seeing a provider next week.
Going to be saving up until then.

It will be tough.
Hopefully I don't blow my load in the first minute.

I save up a minimum of 3 days, and that's difficult for me because I'm a sex addict.

MG It's sex, isn't anybody just  spontaneous and enjoy it!   It's not an Olympic event,

It helps with arousal and stuff.

As I said in my post above  LOL

As far as an Olympic event...I thought rhythmic gymnastics was "jack off" material?  No?

I saved up for 4 days for today.  It was great, but I didn't have anything for round 2.  Other people have the same problem?

Thanks for the intel pal.

Next time just show up and fuck the hooker....sheesh  

I won't deny that I have performed a solo act or two but no where near a 'normal schedule'. That's why I hobby...why play make-believe when one can get the real thing?

You're not a guy. You can't understand the importance of the performance factor: of being able to perform...or not. We have to worry about getting it up, keeping it up and, preferably, getting and keeping it up long enough to make Round 2 happen. If we especially have problems on Round 1 (because we're nervous with a new lady or an especially beautiful lady, or because we're tired, or stressed for a hundred other reasons) and it just doesn't want to happen that day, it's a personal embarrassment for us in front of a beautiful woman. Its an indicting statement against our manhood. We worry if we'll ever live it down with that provider. And if its a problem on Round 1with the first time with that provider, odds are we won't come back to see her again. We likely won't come back to finish what we started last time because we'll probably think about it so much that we won't.get it up for her next time either. As you've figured out by now, if we worry about it and think about it too much, there's a good chance that it may not happen. As we get older and start taking meds for high blood pressure, diabetes, etc....more problems. At that point you consider the Viagra, Cialis, etc - yet more drugs to take - or you worry about your chances. And then there's the concern that we're also paying hard-earned bucks for a session with a very real chance that we'll not get a return on our "investment."
Maybe now you get it - its a BIG DEAL for us guys.

First off Sinbad...don't pretend to speak for "all us guys"...YOU clearly DON'T!!

YOU worry about this stuff...no problem.  I certainly don't.  And from the posts that I've read I don't see many that agree with YOUR comments (except perhaps I see more of the performance issues on the +60 board).

Go and talk with your doc...tell him (her) that you have whatever issues you have..and work it out.

Or continue being paranoid of just having sex.  

I would guess you're also one of those paranoid sorts that worries about the sun coming up in the morning as well?