Re: Wigs? Sexy or no?

Many, many years ago between divorcees I unknowingly pulled one off a civie date and scared the shit out of me and embarrassed my date tremendously.

I used wigs at first. Now I have weave. It works better for me because you can see my hair line and I left out most of my hair so the guys can play with in. The weave is just for a little length in the back, but for the most part, it's my hair. Most men don't care about a weave or wig as long as it doesn't fall off. If you are into men pulling your hair or you just want it to be secure, sew in some wig clips. Then put on your wig and clip the wig clips in your hair. I don't care how hard dude pulls, your wig will not come off. Trust me. I had a reviewer talk about how he fucked me doggy style while pulling hard as hell on my hair. It was a wig and didn't move an inch.
http://www.ehow.com/how_5717165_sew-wig-clips-wig.html

Im gonna assume that's a legit question and give you my legit response, even tho it's from the man's pov...

The 'instinct' reaction to having a woman in a wig show up unexpectedly (for me) is "What's she trying to hide?" The one time it happened to me the tattoos were the giveaway, I recognized her from those. Yes, she was trying to mask her identity. That is not to say that is YOUR intention...

Wigs can change a woman's apearance dramatically, most guys (me included) find longer hair sexier. Mention to the client the options, and let him help you decide your 'look'. If the guy is expecting a sexy redhead and you show up brunette it's gonna be a problem for sure. The wig MUST be high quality and must be put on properly. A high-end wig properly worn is hard to distinguish from 'natural' hair. I wouldn't take it off til you get home tho - I agree that it could be a major turn-off should it 'come off' at an inopportune moment.

The only thing I have against long hair is that it sometimes gets in the way 'in action' ("oww you're on my hair!") but IMHO it's worth it. Maybe another reason I like Doggie?

JP 2c

I love running my hands through your hair and I hate running into extensions, etc.

As long as they stay in place during our most energetic efforts, I don't have a problem with them with one caveat -- I want her to look like her photos enough so that I can recognize that it's the same woman. Otherwise, let me know before I show up that something is slightly different.

I was with a provider last year who was having a "wardrobe malfunction" while we were going at it rather energetically and she kept moving her hands to hold her hair on! That did detract somewhat from the experience; probably would have been better if she'd just pulled it off and continued on with enthusiasm!

No to fake hair, nails, eyelashes.

Wigs alway have a creepy feel to the fingers.

Definitely gets a lower score if she has them when I arrive.

A two-point drop if she photoshops out her cellulite or 'thins' the back of her arms.

Hate false advertising. If you do a wig, make sure it is clear on your site.

in her blue-gray wig playing Thelma Harper on
Momma's Family, and that whole area where women wore wigs when they didn't want to take the time to do up their hair up.

I look to see a lady in her mid-20's to mid-30's, so wigs and hair extensions, for me, are a big turn off, especially because I like to share a shower with my lady.

I'll get heat for this response. In general I hate wigs.

I have to admit, however, that most African American or black providers ( was that PC enough?) can pull it off with a wig or weave. Other ethnicities or races can't pull it off as well, IMO.

I really enjoy a good game of dress up.  I have a friend that loves red heads, and I'm blond. So getting a tight tiny black dress, some hot heels and throwing on a long haired red wig was a blast.

I also have a long black wig for the more gothy moments.  

I wouldn't throw on wigs for every date. The hair doesn't feel natural to the touch, which to many men will be a turn off.

Also, if they want to stroke your hair - or grab it in a moment of ecstasy - that may not work. Regardless how many pins you use, it could shift or come off altogether.

That's something to talk about with each gent.

So wigs are not exactly my cup of tea.

I have one favorite who started wearing a wig some time ago for medical reasons.  (not chemo or anythiing like that), and I recall it coming off in my hands when I went to massage her scalp.

She was pretty self-conscious about it but eventually she removed her wig for me and it was fine then.

Hair is one of the most sexy attributes of any woman.

By the way, that provider no longer needs to wear a wig so all's well that ends well.