Almost all legit places tend to go that way.
If you want the ladder, go to those places.So I got a legit massage at a local spa yesterday. I have been looking for a new deep tissue masseuse and I found my girl. But she is not a girl, she is 65 year old women. She has strong hands and what must be a muscular body which was mostly hidden in a rather baggy spa uniform. She has kinda wild hair and a little bit of an old hippy look. I also notice when she greets me that she has what looks to be substantial chest. So we start the massage and she is awesome. I have big bones, I work a lot and so I have dense muscle. It takes some strength and understanding to give a good tissue massage and this gal can do it. She starts on the face down on the back and then i turn over for the front. Standard stuff, right?
Along the way she tells ,me at one point after I compliment her on her strength that she used to work as a solo masseuse, then she stopped for a while. Now she has come back and enjoys working at the spa where she shows up for work and has more clients than when she was solo. She also adds that when solo most of her clients were men. She mentions construction workers and athletes as two types of clients, mainly to illustrate that she has the strength to massage big strong guys. But my spidey senses are wondering if she is giving me another message.
After I turn over and she is massaging my quads and she is VERY thorough and brushes up against my dick and balls. Later she finishes with some moves where she is in front of the top of my head. She bends way over to reach the base of ribs and pull up to my neck and massage shoulder and neck. Feels great and every time the cloth in the shirt right between the boobs is touch my chin, mouth, nose.
I am thinking there is mongering potential here. I am booked to see her next week. Gonna propose a session at her place so I can pay her more than she would get from the spa. Am I crazy? don't answer that.
A fav FBSM lady didthe same thing reaching over my head & such. I'd use the cues posted in this thread http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewall.asp?MessageID=3272&boardID=56&page=1#3272 to see what she's willing to do. If most of her clients were guys, that's a hint thatshe's willing to do happy ends. The brushing your privates & face... pretty much. Some gals like to get to know you before allowing it.
You've got a great thing with the massage.
The best case is that you don't piss her off AND she provides the best extras at the best price.
The worst case is that she kicks you to the curb for insulting her or jeopardizing her license or whatever and refuses to see you anymore.
If she goes along with your advances, the bonus treatment might be pretty lame compared to others.
If you're looking for massage with benefits, emphasis on the benefits, go to the places that specialize in that and stay with this lady for the best massages
She can massage you without accidentally brushing your privates or rubbing her chest over your face. I don't believe in coincidences... certainly not more than one. So she is flirting. It's possible but unlikely that she'd do that without the willingness to do at least a HE... eventually. I would not expect more.
As posted in the linked thread... flirt back. A bit of man spreading to give her access. A bit of audible response. Maybe touching her hip or side if she stands where you can reach. I like to scoot to the side she primarily is working from for more body to body contact.
To repeat, go slow. Flirt back. Meet her half way.
I've had gals state a fee & others just want a nice tip. Be prepared
Almost all legit places tend to go that way.
If you want the ladder, go to those places.
you might want to give it a few more trips until you pull the trigger. She's older so she has the experience so don't read too much into it yet, but go another time or two and see what happens. It will only get better trust me, but don't jump the gun and ruin it....Patience my friend will reward you!!!
Along the way she tells ,me at one point after I compliment her on her strength that she used to work as a solo masseuse, then she stopped for a while. Now she has come back and enjoys working at the spa where she shows up for work and has more clients than when she was solo. She also adds that when solo most of her clients were men. She mentions construction workers and athletes as two types of clients, mainly to illustrate that she has the strength to massage big strong guys. But my spidey senses are wondering if she is giving me another message.
After I turn over and she is massaging my quads and she is VERY thorough and brushes up against my dick and balls. Later she finishes with some moves where she is in front of the top of my head. She bends way over to reach the base of ribs and pull up to my neck and massage shoulder and neck. Feels great and every time the cloth in the shirt right between the boobs is touch my chin, mouth, nose.
I am thinking there is mongering potential here. I am booked to see her next week. Gonna propose a session at her place so I can pay her more than she would get from the spa. Am I crazy? don't answer that.
went pretty well. She gave me her number and a very low rate to get a massage in her house. She gave an awesome massage, we did some bodywork stuff trying to open me up and make more flexible. In maneuvering around I did plenty of man spreading and at one point said, "look, I'm not..." She finished my sentence "Shy" then looked away she rearranged the blanket saying "that is goog, but I am" And her boobs brushed and bumped up against me three or four times. Gonna set something up at her place next week and see what happens. She is 6 years older than me, wiry and strong with a little pot belly. And then there are those boobs. They are large but uneven. Left side maybe a C cup or small D, right side a full DD for sure. Not sure if I want this, but it will be fun to see if I do. Good times...