I have to admit I can get turned on more by watching porn than a real women. I gone on "dates" with real hot women and honestly couldn't finish a load since I started to lose interest.

Think of all the money you save. I personally p4p for the companionship with no strings attached and that its cheaper than a therapist. For a quick orgasm i just turn to a free porn vid. Its a more and more common "problem" these days as porn is free and easy to access. The problem shouldnt be porn itself but jacking off with a grip that is too tight.

...you can have "dual thoughts" - one about the provider you're with and the other about the porn you're watching.  That should get you off.

Are you talking a bad experience with a woman? Or most of your experiences with providers? Or what. Porn does nothing for me anymore. It did for awhile when I was younger but not any more. Not 90% Thats out there at least. For porn to do something for me, it usually has to be damn damn innovative, real voyeurism of some kind or real sex not scripted sorta speak. And for the most part real sex not scripted is often times not good bc damn most people suck at the shit and look awful doing it. Lol. Damn. I'm sure I do to but I'm not looking at myself! Ha. So just sayin!  Can't do the porn as a substitute for good sex. Anything and everything is better than bad sex though!!!! Fuck bad times in the sack! Idc if it's with a p4p lady or a p4p Civvie or a Civvie. Lol. Oh yes. Why don't people talk about the p4p civvies out there more here on this board. Lol. Anyhoo. That will be a one time deal. No second chances allowed for bad sex. I'll take some porn then I suppose or just hurry to find some good sex! Lol.

Real is better than fantasy...

Looks like everyone is trying to perform psychoanalysis on you....But did you tell us whether you could suffer from porn addiction? What type of porn ("run of the mill" a guy and a girl porn, gang bang, bisexual, BDSM, etc).

I get turned on by BDSM porn that is more severe than anything I would or could do in real life. In general a real life female remains the most exciting thing for me.

"If you took all the girls I knew when I was single,
And brought them all together for one night.
I know they'd never match my sweet little imagination,
And everything looks worse in black and white."*

...on my phone. As this porn star, who she resembled which is why we were watching it, was moaning away she started sucking my dick. Nice.  But to answer your question, no, I don't have that problem.

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But it sure is less problematic as well as infinitely more cost effective.

Porn has the ability to set up  circumstances that if I could replicate them in my life, would be more of a turn on than the sex I have with escorts, but I know that is not going to happen.

Here, here!

.....but a real lady has to be the main event.

I watch porn almost every day, the only time I don't is the 4-5 days prior to a date (an excruciating 4-5 days for me, lol).

There are many times where I have met guys and wanted them to just be what I wanted them to be and perform the way I wanted them to, for my pleasure and use, and often they screw it up and I am no longer interested. Then I found the hobby. A little different outlet, but I can have minimal interaction and to get to the good carnal pleasure stuff with less of the human emotional get to know each other stuff.  

Unless you see a DDG (drop dead gorgeous) model or elite escort most real women in real life have FLAWS. And I mean both physically and personality-wise.

I totally do! There are so many reasons why: I can control so much about the movie; the women are amazing to look at (lighting, make-up, angles, looks - sometimes); and I don't have to do anything but pleasure myself in the way I want. I have been with very accommodating and beautiful women who know how to please - yet its still challenging for me to finish. So, I can agree with you. That said, I do like variety so seeing someone for real is still often very enjoyable

and most of the professional porn actresses do nothing for me.