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Do clients use Bluesky?
tslucyjane See my TER Reviews 2350 reads
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A lot of SWs are leaving Twitter behind and doing their social media advertising on BlueSky instead. Are there any clients here who actively browse BlueSky for SWs, and have you met any for a session?

hehitshewins71 reads

I have a profile on Bluesky and followed some people. But I stopped paying attention after about a week. It's just not big enough for me to care to check it on top of everything else. Maybe it will get there, but until it does, I'm not interested.

If you haven’t checked it recently, there’s a ton more activity over the past month or so, because ex went on a ban spree.

hehitshewins55 reads

My account is a personal one connected to friends, family, work colleagues. This includes following big names like Mark Cuban. I have a network with over 100. Which in itself isn’t bad if they were active. But many did what I did. Created an account and didn’t spend much time on it.

 
I have not tried it for providers. That would require a different account since I keep these parts of my life separate. And, TBH, I haven’t ever gotten a lot out of Twitter either. So it makes me reluctant to try to new toy in that arena.

BlueSky Is nothing, like X. I no longer am on any social media. I do have onlyfans for that want to see all of me no edits.

Yes, I do.  There are a few providers that post regularly on there.  

It would be nice to see more providers use it.  

It is also nice when providers post non-photoshopped images on there.  

Bluesky is super lame. Wpuldnt create an account if paid to do so.  

It wont be around in 5 years. Waste of time imo.

Stay off my posts, thank you. I don't care what you think about anything, and wish you would stop running your mouth so much.

420Smoka4Eva51 reads

You are soliciting opinions from a forum that is open to literally anyone. If you make a post, anyone can respond whether you want them to or not. It's not our fault if you don't like the responses or opinions you get. You don't get to pick and choose. Its all or nothing, and if you're going to post here you have to take the good with the bad. We're not here to serve you or validate you. If you don't care what people think here, stop posting your stupid questions to the board.

I wasn't speaking to you, but since you want to chime in, you can go to hell with readytorock. I told that weirdo to stop replying to my posts because he's made several snide remarks to me unprovoked and never has anything nice to say. You only have something to say when I respond and never to the initial disrespect, though. Don't address me again.

RespectfulRobert53 reads

You are participating in a public forum. By its very nature, that means you don’t have the ability to control who chooses to respond to your posts. Some posters will annoy you. That is just a given here.  
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There are really only two ways to handle that situation: 1) respond or 2) ignore. If necessary, you can also make use of TER’s “ignore” feature, which will keep certain members posts invisible to you. While I personally haven’t found a need to use it, I know others find it very helpful.
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I genuinely hope you will continue posting. I love a diversity of viewpoints. That said, the solution you are asking for i.e. limiting who can reply to you, isn’t realistically compatible with how an internet chat site like TER functions.

Oh I absolutely will continue to post. Everyone else gets to be opinionated, sarcastic, and downright rude, but when I have something to say in response, all of a sudden I’m in the wrong and the scum of the Earth. I’m not going for it whatsoever. These losers don’t phase me. Thank you for being neutral and not jumping at the opportunity to tear me down. We need more like you.

I'm not sure if that will make you invisible to them, but it will make them much less visible to you. When someone whom you have blocked responds to your posts, it will say [user ignored], and you won't have the option to click on their response. Out of sight, out of mind. It's glorious.

Since most everything after the first posts is off topic and name calling/
Pretty sophomoric.

"If you don't care what people think here, stop posting your stupid questions to the board."

Notice how I only said this to one person and none of the other people who respectfully replied to the question. Why would I be offended or upset over whether or not clients use bluesky? Are you dense? Maybe you have your panties in a bunch because you and readytorock have a thing with each other offline... I don't judge, just leave me out of it and stop coming for me when I'm not talking to you.

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If you haven't realized by now, I'm not the one you want to fuck with. Tread lightly, sir. You should probably just put me on ignore so you don't have to see any of my "rude" comments from this point forward.

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My opinion is just that.  

It shouldnt bother you as much as you are letting it.

This really shows the flavor of these boards.  The question from the OP was fair enough but like you said, fair game to any and all to respond.  RR responds with his thoughts and the OP melts down with a ridiculous demand that he stay away from what was REQUESTED of him, an opinion!

 
The head scratching part were (at the time of this post) the 5 members who seem to support her unhinged rantings by liking what she said about staying off her posts!  Although a very negative (and probably correct) opinion about Bluesky and zero shade towards the OP.  

 
Now that I'm on the thread, Bluesky has pretty much zero tolerance for any opinions that go against a certain political viewpoint and not so much about free speech...unless you're in agreement with a certain agenda.   It has no future IMO.

You don’t know the past interactions that I’ve had with that person. You and 420smoke are only seeing this exchange and assuming that I’m shutting down an innocent poster for no reason at al, when the reality is that this person has made SEVERAL distasteful remarks to me and I don’t care to hear from him again. If you have a problem with my response and not his initial disrespect that was completely unwarranted, you can fuck right the hell off. I’m immune to gaslighting.

You have no clue what I’m talking about because you weren’t present when this person disrespected me in the past. I’m well aware of that. Maybe you can seek context instead of jumping to conclusions next time. Have a great day.

hehitshewins72 reads

Being very honest here, this is a bad look for you. You’re in the middle of a debate with 3 guys I despise, so I am the last one who would take their side. Robert is typically on the other side of the three of them as well, and is trying to offer you sound advice.

 
And, I saw exactly what Ready said to you in the other threads. It was disrespectful. But you need to not carry that energy into future posts. You cannot expect everyone to know the history. They see what you’re doing now. And it’s you looking bad in this thread, not him.

 
Trust me, he will trigger you again. Others will trigger you as well. But only you can own how you respond. And when you do respond, it’s on a public forum for everyone to see and you will be judged by it.

Calling that a debate is like saying you dont have ed...after describing classic ed.  

Just sayin....

It's actually painful how unfunny you are. Just do us all a favor and shut the entire fuck up.

hehitshewins70 reads

It’s comments like this that make you a troll. There’s a difference between having an unpopular opinion and being an a-hole. You cover both rather well. It’s time to stop denying that you’re not a troublemaker. Idc if you want to talk about licking shit stains all day. But maybe try out not behaving like one too.

Not sure you equate me to being the asshole here. You are the one that comes into every single conversation with a ton of opinions and extemely fragile ego acting like you own the place.  

You started in on me awhile back and now you are the one claiming im the troll? Bud you have been on here every day talking shit for years.

hehitshewins66 reads

I never started in on you. In fact, not only did you draw first blood, 90% of the time since you have started. I mostly ignore you until you start with me, which happens several times a week. I’m living rent free in your pea brain head. If you actually tried taking a break from trolling me, you would actually realize I have zero desire to tango with you.

Wow. You are delusional pal.  

You started in on me 100%. You are able to dish it out but get rather butthurt when someone gives it back.

hehitshewins71 reads

Either you’re too dumb to realize when you’re unnecessarily insulting people or this is just more of you trolling. You constantly will share a contrarian opinion - which in itself is fine - but then insult the person and suggest your opinion is superior. That is starting shit. The additional insulting comments are not necessary. But you’re so full of yourself you probably think the insult is just you sharing your opinion too. Man, you really have earned the Most Brain Dead Award on the TER boards.

And here we are again. More crying.  
 
You started with the insults. You started with the trolling and now you are crying foul after you get your panties in a wad.  

Enough. You, nicky and a few others....the mods here must be so sick and tired of your back and forth drivel.

hehitshewins56 reads

Credit where credit is due. This is your best brain dead troll post yet.

from one of these fuckers and then they wonder why months later you won't get off their asses.  I've not had a single argument in here with someone who hasn't cocked off first.  Well, there's a few that treat the boards like we're all sitting in our chairs eagerly waiting for their daily screed and then they just babble on..lol

Sounds like you know what i mean.  

I come on here, accidently bring up a topic some folks arent into and i ruffle the locals feathers. They go in hard on me, i give maybe 10% back. They cry.

....whereas some of the others can only sling names at the person they are answering too, mainly ickydik and bigpoopy right behind him.  heshitsonhimself has to stick his wet finger in the wind to see which way it's blowing so he can conjure up a milktoast response.  Even then, he'll have to use 3 paragraphs to cover his point from multiple directions with  NPR'ish "but for's and that said's".    

 
Swear to God, write a post asking how providers open a jar of peanut butter and he'll have to puke out a response on their behalf from at least 3 different points of view and of which he has not experience in any of them.  For him, speculation is masturbation as a recreational event.  

RespectfulRobert45 reads

Let me offer some advice for your disability. If a longer, carefully reasoned response feels overwhelming to you, that’s hardly an issue with the writing. Not everything can be reduced to shorthand, written in crayon, just to accommodate your amazingly limited attention span.
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Perhaps once you reach high school, you’ll be better equipped to process an adult argument without struggling through a few extra, extremely grueling paragraphs. Until then, you might stick to the game on your phone where you swipe a sword to slice fruit for points. It seems far more aligned with your current level of focus and intellectual stamina.

vomits up paragraph after paragraph of slime which he plasters on the board.
What a hypocrite.

hehitshewins66 reads

Ah, the simple minded snafool has popped one too many veins in his head from his brain working on overdrive. Oh my God, forbid someone is capable of seeing and understanding more than one angle. And heaven have mercy he expressed it too!!!  

 
But I must say, I am glad to see I am living in your head. It’s a rather resourceful way of using all of that empty space. And when you drum up some dribble of a response, be careful not to work too hard and pop too many more veins. You just might come out looking like Emperor Palpatine. Then again, it’s already how I imagine you, so likely it’s a little late for me to be warning you.

You're aware of how much of an asshole readytorock and other gentlemen on this forum are, so you should understand. I'm a very kind person, but I don't like being disrespected and will respond if I feel inclined to. This exchange is not reflective of my value or character and doesn't make me "look bad" if you're aware of the full context. Let's just move forward. It's not that deep.

An asshole? What?  

How am i the asshole?

Your lack of self-awareness is appaling. Do better.

Im not the one letting others opinions bother me to the point of making veiled threats. So there is that.

hehitshewins60 reads

Let him walk the plank first in every new thread. When he’s out of line, keep putting him in his place. And he will keep doing it because it’s who he is. You let your past interactions color your response here when he didn’t do anything wrong yet. You come out looking like the bad guy when you do that. Like I said, I despise the guy. But he’s welcome to comment on any of my posts he wants. If he doesn’t step out of line, I will likely ignore him. When he does, I then clap back.  

 
I think you’re a good person and like your involvement on the boards. Don’t let a troll get the best of you. Take the high road. Just my 2 cents.

are you advising the T or readytorock?

hehitshewins70 reads

I’m advising Lucy who is newer here and who I believe is well intended. I know better than to waste space offering actual advice to Ready.

420Smoka4Eva54 reads

Dude she flips out on everyone. She already flipped out on Robert. She will probably flip out on you too. Also, It’s good to know that I’m one of your favorite posters.

hehitshewins74 reads

Yeah, I noticed a couple of others got caught in the crossfire. To be fair, I shouldn’t bunch the 3 of you up as equally bad. Ready is clearly on his own troll level and the worst. Snaf can be out of line and disrespectful at times, but not nearly the troll Ready is. You’re better than them two, but we have had a few run ins where I felt you were picking on me and a little out of line. But generally, you’re not that bad.

RespectfulRobert49 reads

But he is not like the others. He can compose an intelligent and insightful thought and does so eloquently. He just likes to stir the pot on occasion. The others mentioned have no redeeming value whatsoever.

Funny thing, I'm going thru all 12 seasons of M*A*S*H this winter and every time I see Winchester, I think of you!  Poetically awkward and a nose so far up Houlihan's ass she can do no wrong...

RespectfulRobert43 reads

dude that has stalked MULTIPLE providers, I think of you.

MASH is one of the greatest shows in TV history. Definitely top ten, maybe top 5. I love MASH.  

 
That said, Winchester was the snob from Bahston. “Awkward and with his nose up Hot Lips Houlihan’s ass” is a description that better fits Frank Burns, I believe. Que no??

 
LoL I may need to go rewatch MASH now. That or perhaps the somewhat similar China Beach. MMmmm Marg and Dana, now there’s a couple ladies I wish were providers. Yum

Burns had his nose up Hotlip's ass for his whole tour but wasn't the arrogant type...he was a cuck buffoon.  Winchester only spent the part of one season with his nose in here ass....I embellished, lol but that's just about the area of the timeline I just went thru.  The interest in her seems now seems to have passed.  I've moved forward a season since I posted that.  

Have you got past the opening credits yet?  It was Frank who was up Houlihan's ass....

Posted By: snafu929
Re: Thanks bloviating bobby!
Funny thing, I'm going thru all 12 seasons of M*A*S*H this winter and every time I see Winchester, I think of you!  Poetically awkward and a nose so far up Houlihan's ass she can do no wrong...

But I agree, that was Frank Burns.  

Charles Emerson Winchester III, who I would’ve called Chewy had I known him, was not exactly well liked; but he was respected and in no way up Houlihan’s delicious ass.

Per Grok:

"Major Charles Emerson Winchester III shows interest in Major Margaret Houlihan primarily in early episodes of Season 6, when he first arrives at the 4077th as Frank Burns' replacement. The show flirted with the idea of a potential romantic spark between them (often mutual, with awkward denials and tension), but it never fully developed into a romance—they quickly settled into a professional friendship with occasional banter.

Key episodes where this interest or flirtation is most evident:

"The Winchester Tapes" (Season 6, Episode 2): Winchester records a letter home describing Margaret as "part seductress and part Attila the Hun." He recounts a scrub room scene where she's close to him (checking for something in her eye), gets overly personal about his pores, and Father Mulcahy walks in—leading to an embarrassed, flustered reaction from Charles that suggests attraction or at least awareness of chemistry.
"War of Nerves" (Season 6, Episode 5): Both are sent to psychiatrist Sidney Freedman. They each deny any attraction to the other in a very defensive, teenager-crush-denial way—protesting too much—while assuming the other is interested. Margaret implies Charles thinks she's drawn to his wealth, and Charles acts like it's obvious she'd be into him.
Fans and discussions often point to Season 6 overall as having these hints (e.g., in episodes like "Images" or "The Light That Failed" for additional subtle moments), but the writers dropped any real romantic arc after that season. Later interactions (like in the finale "Goodbye, Farewell and Amen") are more about mutual respect and friendship."

FWIW, the last time I watched MASH with any regularity was when it was on one of the 3-4 channels we could get if we had our antenna pointed the right direction on any given day.  Mid to late 70's??  Where I was at during the moment I brought it up in the post, Charles had just brought a bunch of imported snacks into Margaret's tent for a romantic dinner and he thought he was going to get his dick wet.  

I told her she wasnt going to get 1k an hour and wow did that make someone mad.  

Its the truth. Not a porn star or xxl hung = not getting 1k/hour. Its just the way this business works.

You said that on a post of me asking what clients who pay companions $1k an hour do for a living. At no point did I ever ask you for your opinion on my value or my rates but you took it upon yourself to say them when I couldn't give a fuck less how you feel about me. Have the day you deserve and stop commenting on my posts before I really embarrass you.

Best way to not get any flack is to not throw rocks.  

I completely agree. This is the perfect message for readytorock who threw several rocks unprovoked. Have a nice day snafu.

RespectfulRobert53 reads

Nice bigotry too but we knew that about you already.

Look im not here to piss people off. I just make my remarks and move on  

If you didnt give a fuck you wouldnt be on here making threats.  

Grow thicker skin

Some people add no value here on TER and are complete fools. I unblocked everyone at the beginning of the year, but I had to ignore two specific top posters who cant seem to stfu. It's so annoying to see that they have to comment on everything even when it does not pertain to them.  

This specific person claims I shit on him maybe 15 years ago. Why is that relevant? It's not & either is he. TER has a great feature I utilize it's the ignore list. My list is growing. I noticed many men here are actually toddlers who need a time out.  

These trolls love the negative attention. Anytime you respond they get excited it's sick. Don't play into their ignorance. Ignore the trolls. 🧌 Trolls are a total waste of time. Look at the top #1 TER poster. Ignore. All he does is hijack threads. He should be banned. He posted about some he knows nothing about & continues to make an ass out of himself daily.  

Your welcome. 🤗

Should be banned? For what?  

My posts are just me talking about my experiences. My opinons are just that, my opinions. They are firmely rooted in truth. My bad if that bothers you so much.  

I noticed it didnt bother you until you messaged me saying we should get together and i dismissed the notion. Once you learned that i was not willing to pay your fee (for your "brownies" which "are the best")you suddenly got offended.  

Not cool, but you do you.

....she also admitted that she helped write her own review but I don't think she should be banned.  Maybe a reminder that that isn't allowed...

Laspho50 reads

Oh I got the same message. Interesting. Must be her Mo

But would never have thought of looking for providers there. I wouldn't know how to find them, lol.

hehitshewins70 reads

Many who are on Bluesky, like Twitter, post links and/or their handle in their ads and/or personal website.

You can use the #oursky feed and also look at #date[yourcity]. It’s not as easy as the X algorithm push, but it’s doable! You can also look up accounts for a few of your favorite local providers and then see who they interact with.

X has been mass suspending provider accounts. Bluesky, on the other hand has escort friendly features. I opened a BlueSky account specifically to follow providers who have been booted from X.

It’s a source I’ve never considered but that could change as I’ve seen an uptick in ladies getting on board

Yes, it’s helpful and influences my decisions for first dates.

No, I do not search for companions on BlueSky or any socials. I search on Tryst and P411. And SB.

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