First some very quick "background" to give your some perspective on this post.  I once saw a TV show - Intervention on A&E were the subject (albeit she was an addict) was prostituting for $$$.  Big difference between prostituting and escorting but that is a subject for another post.  Anyway this women says it is really not much to do because the guys are so horny that they come real quick.  Hmmm.  A few years back on the Stern show I heard some guy who used to "run" an escort service say something very similar.  That the women didn't think it was much work because most guys would come within 10 minutes.  And the rest of the time the girls just bullshitted around talking and what not.  Well guess what?  IF I WANTED TO TALK I WOULD GO PAY MY THERAPIST HIS OUTRAGEOUS FUCKING FEE!!!!

Now, I have noticed in this hobby that some Providers try some variation of this trick.  Immediately attacked you with a mean blowjob to get you to C-M real quick.  Why?  Because they know most guys lose stamina after that first pop and then she can coast for the next 30-40 minutes.  Not saying ALL Providers do this but enough do.  Especially those that book a bunch of appointments in one day.

Anyway, the trick is on them because I have some strategies for dealing with this TRICK.  

*  Masturbate the day before or 12 hours before your appointment.  Why?  You won't be such a horndog and blast off like A 10 year old ADD kid in an Advanced Calculus class.  And you can keep fucking for a good long time

*  Discovered this next trick while having sex with my wife.  Once you cum don't pull out!!!!  Just stay in and keep on stroking.  You paid for the time and there is no rule that you have to pull out when you cum.  Why?  I have discovered that if you just keep stroking you can reboot if you know what I mean.  That way you get your money's worth.

Now I know some of you will go what an AsSwhole.  But I ask you this cousin?  When your time is up does the Provider let you stay in the room?  You paid for your time and you should get every minute worth.

Anyway with anymore ideas for stamina please help a brotha out.

Discuss amongst yourselves Please.

All those cool tricks to fool an escort . I especially love the one where you come and fail to pull out, possibly falling out of your condom spilling all that goo inside her. She'll be so happy that you did that.

And let's hope others that have your outlook follow your sage advice. Have a great time hobbying, let us all know how these things work and how many ladies you dupe.

The likelihood of a condom failing (i.e breaking) raises considerably if you were to continue to use the same condom after ejaculating.

The barriers cease to be protective when using them incorrectly.

He cares only about getting his moneys worth and not much else. Ladies, let's not fight each other for the chance to see this one, I am sure if we patiently wait, he will get around to each and every one of us...Oh happy day!!!!!!

FYI, guys have no choice but to pull out with me, because it is CIM or take a damn hike! You're too big for me anyway, so no worries ha ha. I am all for a dude getting his "money's worth," but I will also charge certain guys for a pse and not a gfe, if they come in with this mentality. Luckily, I see mostly older men who are more about the date experience, than the "pop" experience...thank goodness.

What do you mean by the women get to "coast for 30-40 min.?" Really? Honey, it is a lot LESS work to let you stay up and keep trying new things out, than to let you pop, clean you up, talk to your ass while you recover, bbbj you back to life which may or may not even happen, then start all over again. I don't know where you get this coast idea at unless your dates are doing their damn nails after you nut. Coast my ass! Yea, many of you lose stamina alright, so do the math. Trying to bring a limp noodle back to life is a hell of a lot MORE work, than one that is already good to go.

Is your problem more that you want to get two pops and they refuse, or that you want to last the entire hour on one? Both should be allowed if you're paying for gfe with a "quality" provider. That is the key. If you're a BP hound for women with a cheap rate and no reviews, you will keep running into this. TER is your friend.

I am also ALL for blow and go dates, because hey...you save money, and like you said...she spent 10 min. Does not bother me either way, but if a guy wants a gfe for a blow and go rate...he can check the truck stop, or wherever you've been shopping lately. Sounds to me like you are getting one and done girls for a low rate, and being disappointed you got jacked..what a shocker lol.






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Hi,

Every lady that I've met has fulfilled the hour obligation w/ multiple pops!! .To continue pumping away after you're finished can lead to serious health risks if the condom falls off or breaks  as Ms Monet & Saturnsky has duly pointed out!! you need not be hit w/ the reality stick but the whole darn tree!!!

Posted By: Ridgetucky

First some very quick "background" to give your some perspective on this post.  I once saw a TV show - Intervention on A&E were the subject (albeit she was an addict) was prostituting for $$$.  Big difference between prostituting and escorting but that is a subject for another post.  Anyway this women says it is really not much to do because the guys are so horny that they come real quick.  Hmmm.  A few years back on the Stern show I heard some guy who used to "run" an escort service say something very similar.  That the women didn't think it was much work because most guys would come within 10 minutes.  And the rest of the time the girls just bullshitted around talking and what not.  Well guess what?  IF I WANTED TO TALK I WOULD GO PAY MY THERAPIST HIS OUTRAGEOUS FUCKING FEE!!!!

Now, I have noticed in this hobby that some Providers try some variation of this trick.  Immediately attacked you with a mean blowjob to get you to C-M real quick.  Why?  Because they know most guys lose stamina after that first pop and then she can coast for the next 30-40 minutes.  Not saying ALL Providers do this but enough do.  Especially those that book a bunch of appointments in one day.

Anyway, the trick is on them because I have some strategies for dealing with this TRICK.  

*  Masturbate the day before or 12 hours before your appointment.  Why?  You won't be such a horndog and blast off like A 10 year old ADD kid in an Advanced Calculus class.  And you can keep fucking for a good long time

*  Discovered this next trick while having sex with my wife.  Once you cum don't pull out!!!!  Just stay in and keep on stroking.  You paid for the time and there is no rule that you have to pull out when you cum.  Why?  I have discovered that if you just keep stroking you can reboot if you know what I mean.  That way you get your money's worth.

Now I know some of you will go what an AsSwhole.  But I ask you this cousin?  When your time is up does the Provider let you stay in the room?  You paid for your time and you should get every minute worth.

Anyway with anymore ideas for stamina please help a brotha out.

Discuss amongst yourselves Please.

Seems to me he is missing the best part which in my opinion is seeing if you can get the lady to cum or at least show off her acting skills. That can certainly make the time more fun for both parties. On the other hand if it's some BP lady that's not that classy DATY might not be as much fun.

An asshole has a purpose, a necessary function. You do not.

I pretend to be deaf and dumb, so there is no talking or listening when we meet.

I also have two identical clocks. The one on the table next to the bed shows the correct time, the other one under the bed is 15 minutes slow.
When she is not looking I switch clocks and get an extra 15 minutes free time.
If she has a watch, I just say it must be faulty and she believes me, because she is so stupid.

And finally, my pieces de resistance, because I wanked 10 times in the hour before she arrived, I never cum during our time together, so I get to fuck her for the whole 60 minutes, or 120 minutes if its an extended date, and shes none the wiser.

Thats why I have spent 99.99% of my allotted time with escorts fucking them.
The other 00.01% of the time I was thinking of other ways I could trick them.

We are both geniuses.

Your ideas on tricking a trick should be put into a book. As a matter of fact that's what you should call it. The way you compared a drug addict to an escort is genius.

Here is an idea for you minute man, how about you learn how to fuck from some of these women? Oh never mind they have you pegged now, good luck with getting that next provider. As far as stamina, some have it some don't (maybe I can get some verification on this one to help prove my point). Hit me with the mean BJ, I don't care. By the time she swallows or comes back from the sink I'm ready and thank my maker everyday I don't need that little blue pill or anything else.

In the mean time keep pulling your puddin. When the providers talk between themselves, some will be minute men and some will be Magic.

Peace out

You referred to the business as "this game."  That metaphor fits with the rest of your post. You are the type of client that views sex as a contest and the provider as your opponent. You measure the experience not by the pleasure, but by who won and who lost. How sad - not just for you, but especially for those unlucky enough to accept your call.

...idea. It's a good one too. Use TER. Read the reviews and only see well reviewed providers. Let's see...you have one review. It might be that you have a lot of experience but don't review but I doubt it based on your post. Your one provider is from BP. There are good providers there but you have to find them and read the reviews. What reviews? The ones here on TER. No reviews, don't see them.

You don't need to figure out how to keep from being tricked you need to see ladies that don't do that shit.
I've reviewed 20, I've seen even more. Not get my full time?! It's never happened. Get me off quickly so they can lay around for the rest of the time. Not the ladies I've seen!

You clearly are clueless. You are blaming being less than satisfied with your experience on the provider?! It's on you. Then your ignorant about the condom and continuing after you finish!

This is clearly a case of It's better to keep your mouth shut and let people think you don't know anything than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.
Or I like the one by a former Notre Dame coach who said, If you can't improve the silence, shut up!

I speak truth to the situation.  If a Provider decides not to see me because of my board activity then what the F--- can I do about that.  

Some of us take this lifestyle seriously and some of us do just for (insert whatever damn reason you have here).

You will NEVER EVER catch me posting under an alias.

My methods are my methods.  What can I say?

Why not save your money and stick with masterbation?  It's all a mind trick, anyway.  Your penis doesn't care if it is mother thumb and her four daughters or a woman's hot box that makes you ejaculate.  The penis just knows there's a means to an end - a good cumming.

Mind over matter.  No one loves you like yourself I say.  Trick your penis into thinking it's going to score more by simply increasing the frequency of masterbation.  You may be surprised as to how stupid your penis really is.

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what the fuck is the point of pumping away for an hour w/o cuming. Seeing if you can make the lady sore? IMO a good provider is going to at least make you believe you both had fun. Otherwise you may as well just fuck a hole in the wall.

Good to know YOUR tactic. FYI: to piggyback on what the other ladies have posted, we have ours. Pussy is kryptonite, there is no way around that! Do what you must to resist its power, JO right before or whatever, whether you last 10 mins or the whole hour, doesn't matter to me, your time is your time. Some may run the "game" on you, but if you spent your time and money with the right ones, instead of brainstorming "tactics" you'd get it. And I for one, am up for the challenge!

P.S. That whole laying in the kitty after your done mess, save it for your wife, no chick wants a limp soggy hanging around the luv cave causing trouble. Do you not know the basics of using a condom correctly? Scary.

I think Ridgetucky and John-UK . . . ought to have sex with each other and see which one can trick the other with their flacid dicks in a spent condum.

You guys are disgusting, self centered, and obviously mentally challenged. I don't think I have ever read a post that makes me so mad.

My experience has been that the ladies I have met from TER site are classy and over deliver value and only a moron would feel the need to trick anyone.

I hope you take my suggestion and rip each other's ass with a semen overflowing condum. You deserve it.

There is one word for guys who do that..it's stop and you'd better do that. Soreness is not on many ladies list and some don't tell guys like that to stop IF they are sore for fear of a bad review. Other ladies will have more self respect for their bodies and ask the gent to stop and give her a break and possibly change activities.

jaded, hateful hobbyist who goes to battle with an escort as you so eloquently mentioned, when he books with whomever is unlucky enough to meet him.

I generally accept most sexual challenges head on, and yes I would meet with him, just to prove a point. My sub side showing once again.

The sloping forehead, dragging knuckles and grunts of, "Me want sex," should tip off the unsuspecting provider. But better if he used that recently discovered opposable thumb to take matters in his own hand. (they're already hairy anyway).

Told you some one would do him because money is the motivator. He will think he has one, but he will be out the cash for cumming once or twice. She should not bathe or shave and really play the game. I am amazed at what money can do.

some Yanks DO understand sarcastic humor.... we are not all dumber than a box of rocks...

REALLY?!? Because money is the motivator??? Hmmmm... IS that not why most ladies are here??? Ok, the money is good, but my story is WAY different, FYI I got sick of screwing the A-holes off CL and AFF cuz "strange" turns me on. The reality of it is, the OP has his "tactics" to how he approaches P4P. Ok cool, thanks for sharing. Could be part truth and part BS. But how do I know my next client isn't JO in his car on his way over. Not part of my screening to say hey, no sex 48 hrs before seeing me. I mean come on! To do my job effectively as a provider/hooker/woman I still need to please my man when I am with him. Bottom line and that's the MO I go by whether a guy is "renting" it by the hour or with me in a relationship.

And your logic about being unclean is disgusting. Not ever in my nature, character, or upbringing would that EVER cross my mind. You sir are just as dangerous as him if you see ladies that play that game. YUCK!!!

I am not worried. Ok, the condom thing is a stretch, so no that wouldn't be cool. But is the OP really pattering his sex life off what he saw on TV? He wants to get his money's worth, we all do. He needs to find value in spending his dollars and not go for the quick fix. There is no guarantee any client doesn't JO hours before so they can last longer. If a guy could ever really figure out how to live with a vagina and breasts, then we'd all be in trouble! LOL!

The guy you're replying to is not a fan of those tactics,. I mean any gentleman would not be. I get that the OP is a challenge for you and I am not here to say anything about that except be careful.

The guy possibly mistook your reasons for seeing such a character as money motivated. With you it is clearly something else. His reference to cleanliness or the lack thereof, was to make the encounter unpleasant for this guy, who feels it necessary to make life harder on the escort by applying his bag of tricks.

You might be one of the only ladies willing to deal with him, and that's fine.  There is always someone for everyone out there whether I or anyone else agrees or disagrees with someone's motivation. And you're right, who knows what a guy does prior to meeting any one of us. And we cannot dictate what they do either.

The only thing an escort can do is her best and take care of herself and if that means not accepting something in the session that causes her discomfort, then so be it. As much as we have no control over what a guy does before a meeting, a guy has no control over how a lady runs her session and to what level she lets it get to. The best part of this is when BOTH person's wants are met without any scheming, and underhanded tactics.

I do think men like him see partaking in p4p as a battle, them vs us. Many ladies are not interested in meeting a man with that mind set. And then there are ladies like yourself who find his way a challenge. Nothing wrong with that at all. In fact I am glad you are out there. I would not want to meet this man under any circumstances. I firmly believe he has an axe to grind with women...he has to win, one up, show who's boss, you know what I mean. And that's fine, as long as he meets someone that does not mind and goes with it.

Not up for a fight just for FUN! Now, what would be fun is being a fly on the wall when you hook up with London... Please keep me posted.

quite frankly any guy who makes a habit of unsafe practices like the OP touched on, is NOT as safe as one who does. The entire post screams boundary crosser, disrespectful, and "I am nut man...here me roar."

Ha ha Jaye..yes, London needs some p*ssy! I almost got arrested a few weeks ago because the girl had a little bitch boy for a man, and he was jealous bwahahaa. Poor thing. Reminds me of a few here.

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Most of us possibly see men that are not that extreme and like to sit somewhere in the middle and let things naturally progress, minus the purposeful calculating a small percentage of men do in order to "get his monies worth".

And let's not forget the same tactics employed by the ladies, get it done and gone...not fair either.

And the real test is let the JO pass screening to get an appointment. It probably wouldn't happen anyways, his true colors would show, his references won't vouch, and he'll be home with his wife and a soogy condom. Oh well on to the next.

No, Medic does post some good shit, not mad at him at all. xoxo

Do all of the ladies need pussy? What is going on here? We need a big provider M&G orgy or something. I tried to pick up some chicks off CL a few weeks ago and ended up with BP variety ladies responding to my email. I use to get mature women with good jobs and "bi-curious" housewives hiding from their husbands over my place for some decent girl on girl. Everything has gone to shit. LMAO!

You post silly drivel that people alternately rail at or make fun of. No one ever steps up to agree or support you. You add nothing to the board, and one can only assume you are dense, or purposely playing silly games and enjoying the ensuing argument. Who does that? Why bother?

Either way, what can I say?

My post was indeed 100% Sarcasm.

I know most of you realize that, but just want those that dont to understand it was written completely in jest.

I know sometimes you Americans have a hard time understanding the English language, so I dont take it personally ()

Cheers.

John.

and the boo hoos. I have followed your posts long enough to know, you're full of shit most of the time..as I am. I take 90 percent of your posts as sarcasm, which is why I tend not to jump on ya too much.

The day you start being nice to me, is the day I start worrying.

Dont ever change the way you are, baby.

Posted By: London Rayne

and the boo hoos. I have followed your posts long enough to know, you're full of shit most of the time..as I am. I take 90 percent of your posts as sarcasm, which is why I tend not to jump on ya too much.

Amazing!  
You captured my teen years in 2 paragraphs!!!!
Well Done!!!!!!

I simple make sure I am clean, well grommed, and arrive on time.
Then I relax knowing that I have done all my research before hand and that I will be treated well.
So far its worked everytime.

Is it really that hard to understand?

Hey John UK- I do apologize. I was so livid at Ridge, I did not realize you were being scarcastic.

As for LoboGris . . . you can kiss my ass. My guess is I would slam dunk your ass on an IQ test.

I do appreciate you pointing it out that I was mistaken, but I think John -UK is a big boy and does not need you to correct the situation for him. To imply that I am dumber than a box of rocks.... maybe  you have a point as it relates to this discussion board. Maybe because I am being more prouctive in real life and spend limited time on here.

I am very successful in business and in areas that matter, so  . . . since you pointed out you are a Yank . . .  why don't you go yank off!

I think TER should sponsor an annual version of UFC . . . so we all have a chance to take it to the ring. I would teach you to mind your own business.

I will personally apologize to John-UK.

Thanks for your feedback . . . albeit your comment about dumber than a box of rocks. F-k off.

Attracted to assholes? Really? Damn I need to start being mean to you now then!! :P

Instead of wanking hours before your session try not to wank for a few days leading up to the session. Then when she is giving you the blowjob to completion or you are stroking at the end to completion, your load will be so big she might swallow it by accident. Maybe she is a spitter, but if it's too big she might not be able to hold it long enough

let it fall out of her mouth all over your junk. Now that's a good "trick" huh?

which is why I laughed when I posted what I did to John. Lobos likes to play with me, but he is so insignificant, I don't really pay him any mind. He loves to use the "dumb" card, because it's projection in its most simplistic form lol.

If a guy wants me to swallow, just ask me a question while you CIM. I talk so damn much, I can't help but hurry and swallow, to answer him bwahahaha.