Would any of you gentlemen ever have a serious relationship with an escort you met for appointment? (Leave wife, introduce her to friend,family.... Etc) if not, please explain.

Met the family, friends, etc.  Some of them are visiting tonight and staying over. No different from a relationship with a civvie girl at this point.

it would only happen if I was single.

I would have a serious relationship with a woman I met here, just as if I met her anywhere else. Given that she felt the same, meeting friends and family would be a requirement that applied to us both. Honestly, I think that declaring a relationship with friends and family is probably one of those essential things that helps overcome the doubts, insecurities and stigmas of the "escort/client" relationship - beware the bf/gf who won't let you meet friends or family, as they may have something to hide.

I have the best woman for me already. I love my wife and she loves me. It isn't a knock on the ladies that I see, but I love my wife too much to hurt her by falling in love with any other woman. But I have developed serious friendships with ladies I have met doing this, even took them home to meet the wife. But a romantic relationship is out, not because she is a sex worker or how we met but because my heart is taken.

I do this because I like women and I really like seeing different women from time to time. I haven't been in any relationship that worked when the girl said, "Go fuck all the women you want." Providers don't care if I see others. In fact, they expect it, so I'll keep it P4P because that's what works ... for me.

the woman, of course.

At the moment I'm quite happy flying solo.  But if I wanted an SO I'd probably prefer a prostitute.  I have some very nice friendships with several and I tend to like the women who are part of this lifestyle.  I do have another "fuckbuddy" relationship with a woman in this game but she's a female monger, not a hooker.  I hope next time I see her we'll be joined by a hooker I'll let her pick.  We have very similar taste in women anyway

wow.. I thought most replies would be "hell no" lol... happy to hear that some of you would actually have a relationship with a girl who was an escort and have no judgment about it. I wonder if one day, in an argument, the subject would be brought up, though. Very cool that you guys were sincere and realistic in your responses and took the time to reply. Two thumbs up. That's why I love this board.  

I would not seriously date anyone who has had many sexual partners, especially one who accepts money for it. Yes, I subscribe to many double standards

only with hot Brazilian women who stay horny..

From his reply he was seeing a woman that worked for an agency.  If not an agency then she's a gal that may advertise on backpage and have to be very responsive when a call comes in.

I guess that was the year your were born.  That makes you 71 now.

But it has nothing to do with the escort thing.   Escorts I have met are a lot fun and I enjoy talking with them outside the bedroom.  However, at the moment, the odds of me pursuing a serious relationship of any sort are zero.  If I were interested in a serious relationship I would not be doing P4P - which is basically sport fucking. It's fun, I enjoy the hell out of it.

In the heat of the moment, it very well could be brought up - by either party.  

I heard, you took a friend of ours skydiving and chickened out. By the way, Rod next time don't be cheap and pay for the recording. I would have loved to see her face when she jumped.

You didn't even read the post did you.
 

But if you are looking for love? Go to the library, and find the best looking Nerd you can..

but I do have an ex provider, ex GF, current FWB who has been FaceBook family with my mother for years.

and for the record, I have dated many women who either do this or have done this for a living and I have NEVER used the pathetic "You're just a whore" response when having a fight with any of them.

I can just imagine the first time she said "Not tonight Honey. I'm exhausted from work today."

...that my life has taken, entering into this little world.
So, I just take things as they come, learn and grow.
Anything is possible.

I meant it with great respect as the highest of compliments.  Have you ever seen a girl smile with her mouth full of cock?

I've met hundreds of gals here and few come from a similar background that would make "us" compatible.

I don't have a wife. If I did I wouldn't be hobbying.  

In fact, I married her just over a year ago.

About 15 years ago I had another very close relationship with a gal while I was married and during those few years prior to my divorce when my ex was tolerating my hobbying.

This particular gal ended up babysitting my kids while the ex and I took vacations.  It was a very odd arrangement, I'll admit.  She became fairly close with my daughter for a while and started giving her guitar lessons even, and my daughter would go and stay with her on weekends occasionally.

maybe you should ask yourself why none of your relationships last?

Well that's where I'm at now. Never expected to like her. Really glad I met her. I was just looking for a Provider to replace the one I was seeing that moved out of state. But somehow things progressed between us.

I'd be proud to have a current or former provider, they are after all my favorite people.

“You’re just a little boy, Alyosha, so here’s a piece of advice for you: never ask the woman you love for forgiveness! Especially if you really love her, however guilty you may be before her. A woman is so peculiar, Alyosha. Damn it, that’s one subject I really know quite a bit about. I tell you, the moment you admit to a woman that you’ve wronged her and ask her to forgive you, she’ll never stop showering you with reproaches. No woman will ever just forgive you for what you’ve done. First she’ll humiliate you as much as she can and remind you of all the mistakes you’ve ever made, and even of those you never made; she will forget nothing and add plenty, and only then will she forgive you. And that’s how the best, the nicest of them, act! She’ll scrape the bottom of the barrel and pour it over your head- it’s an instinct in those angels, without whom we cannot live. You see, Alyosha, my boy, I’ll tell you frankly- every self-respecting man is bound to land under the heel of some woman at one time or another. That’s my conviction, or rather a feeling I have. A man should be forgiving- it will never degrade him. Forgiving will not stain even a hero, not even Caesar! And yet you must never ask a woman to forgive you- anything rather than that! I want you to remember this rule, taught you by your older brother Mitya, who perished because of women. No, I think I’d better make it up to Grusha in some other way, without asking her to forgive me.”

Don't you two live in different cities and only see each other from time to time?

Given my age and accomplishments, I could care less what other people think and would have no problem revealing a personal relationship with a hooker. The flip side, at my age I can't imagine any of the women I see, especially my ATF, wanting to be in a civil relationship with me. One hand giveth and the other takes away. I'm content knowing I'm restricted to being a mongerer.

Forgot to put that in. It is relevant to the answer.

...Provider has is with the Father of her children.  Here are a couple of your own posts to refresh your memory:

Hehe, No. I've dealt with way too many to be able to buy their bullshit.

A sexually repressive one. That is as much information as I'm willing to share publicly. :

and feel you would probably be the best bf for a gal who kept doing this during this career.

but some guys can rise above the temptation to rub her nose in it.

There are benefits and challenges to having an LTR with a woman that does this for a living. Obviously some guys have issues they can't get past, like having their woman come home too tired to "put out" Others can rise above those type of things. BJN apparently is one of those guys incapable of dealing with this, the good news is that no one is forcing him to do so.

She asked "Would any of you gentlemen ever have a serious relationship with an escort you met for appointment?"    
My answer is Yes

When I am in relationships, because I expect them to be okay with my providing services to other gentlemen- I consider our relationship open. MEANING: 3 somes YES. Swinging YES You seeing other providers: YES  

I will, actually I think few of ladies here are world class women, not only companions

it would most likely be a SB situation but it would be fun to watch the X's reactions for sure.

Had a long time relationship with a provider for over three years. I thought we were getting close and did think about leaving the wife for her but glad I didn't. Turns out she is BSC and has a lot of issues. The bad times started getting more than the good times so eventually we parted ways. Glad I didn't make the major move to her. Recently we tried to get back together just on a professional level (the sex was really good) but she ended up freaking out about crazy stuff that's all in her head so I guess I dodged another bullet. Will stick to strickly to fun stuff and leave the "relationship" scene alone.

Maybe all parties are cool with that - but it just strikes me as a little... odd.  I don't think I've seen something like this on TER before...

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allowed all and allowed him be a pig - he would be ..

I think that quite  says it all  
 Love asian philosophy - as you know Eastern Europeans are Eastern by a reasons ..
 We do share  a lot with asian cultures..( my dear god few my best dates are Asians and here is NOTHING can beak the bond we have- we have just natural bond - asians and russians.. )
 so may be you will relate  saying too.. but many here said NO to wife   who took money for sex?
 As your wives not doing the same giving you less ..

would any escort ever have a serious relationship with me? Even if we're highly compatible, isn't there an issue with character? I mean we're both law breakers. You want to start a relationship under those circumstances? It's also possible that one, or both of us, is cheating another relationship. While not strictly against the law, isn't that a character flaw? It's not looking good for us.  

Breaking the law is a flaw of character? I beg to differ. In certain cases it is a good thing, in others a necessity.

...jumping into the deep end of the pool and making a fool of yourself.

So far you've praised Rod Tidwell, the board piñata, and somehow deduced that none of mrfisher's relationships have lasted.  How would you know how long mrfisher's marriage lasted?

You better stay in the shallow end of the Newbie board pool.

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I like my "hourly" girlfriends lol.........

Besides, don't you know all this is fiction?  Silly girl.

and get together about 6 times each year for 2-4 nights on average.

I actually communicate more with her than I did with my first wife who lived under the same roof with me, but withdrew and became quite distant.

First of all, I would not say that none of my relationships with women last.

I was married for almost 20 years, which isn't such a bad run, and I've been with my current amorata for almost ten years.

The gal I mentioned that I knew 15 years ago was someone I had a very close relationship with for about 10 years before she disappeared.  I found out from a friend of hers that it was the green eyed gonzagas that led to her departure once my current sweetie and I became an item.  By that time our relationship was platonic at her insistence and anyways, I had offered her a chance to be my soul-mate and move in with me after the ex moved out, but she demurred, so she had her chance.  She has some issues anyways, so most likely she did me and herself a favor.  She has never had a real steady boyfriend much less a soul-mate as long as I've known her. (~30 years.)

Add to that that I am still seeing providers I've known up to 35 years, and I think it is safe to say that long lasting relationships have not been a problem for the most part.

Though I guess that didn't work out too well for them in the end.

But, there has to be some examples of couples outside the law who came out OK.

(Samson and Delilah?)

Help me out here folks.

Did I mention that I like to sleep in the middle of the bed?

I don't think any of us are here looking for our next ex ... well, there are a couple of stalker-fuckheads on here so I may be wrong ... and I sold my soul a long time ago ...
 

Posted By: Pavliena

allowed all and allowed him be a pig - he would be ..  
   
 ONLY woman keep man feel good about himself  
   
 Woman which is strict  
   
  Word of true man  
  It is not a question if you have had relationship with provider but if provider is a woman  
  or just .. a proud provider who allowed all and  think it is what man like  
  Men Like real women ..  
  as I am :  Hhaha  
 But I would not marry myself to any of those who are here  
 I also love one woman man

Yeah, but did they call you a "whore"?

The thought of her fucking other guys and getting paid for it would turn me on no end. It wouldn't take "strength" for me, I'd seriously get off on it for as long as she wanted to do it. Wish I'd realized this about myself when I was 25.

Selling my soul would be like selling my liver, who in their right mind would ever want it. lol

and yes, there are a few fucktard stalker types on the boards who are looking for "more" more than is being offered that is for sure.

Both me and my wife are hardened criminals. Actually pretty much everyone is. The advantage person commits three felonies a day and there isn't an adult alive not guilty of a crime, as that is how insane the laws are. So given everyone is a felon any successful relationship will work in this nation. So I submit my love affair with my wife. 11 years and counting.

The moral of the story is absolutely true.  The adage - think twice, speak once is so very important in a relationship.

From another post by Bobby:

You act like the opinions of strangers matter, they don't. It might be wise to lurk and learn if you put weight on the opinions of strangers. I just don't see the value of caring. The worst thing that can happen is someone calls you a mangina or some other petty insult. As the official KING OF THE MANGINAS, I will like to inform you that isn't that bad. Hell, the person his post was aimed at didn't mind why do you clowns?  

I met his cousin his non and his aunt.

DON'T matter and I didn't say they did.  On the other hand, I actually know some of the posters here and respect their opinions, even if I don't agree with them.  But scoed, you have been around here long enough to know that when you start out with the post I referred to it is probably not going to go well for you here.  
BTW, I was having fun, just what you recommended to Bobby.  
And, YOU just gave him a variation of the VERY same advice BigP did.  Listen and learn.  Sheeesh  

Escorts are people. I see no reason to distinguish them from anyone else as a potential person with whom one could have a serious relationship. And in terms of the ethical judgment of who is doing what, it seems to me that I'd be more deserving of judgment than an unattached escort.

I know what you mean, some of these ladies are very adorable and know how to work it. That's for damn sure, but I still keep it real to the "business" relationship.

And like you there are people here whose opinions do matter to me. But Bob is new so he likely doesn't have that yet. BigP and my advice wasn't the same. His advice was shut up, listen and learn least you up set people, mine was listen and learn but post and don't worry if you upset people. There is a difference. Yes things can get tough here. I know as I used to be the board pinata. But I learned not to care about that and had fun with it. And over time I made friends out of some of the same clowns that used to take swings at me as a pinata. Things here are more fun if you post and not worry about the fall out. As a man who was labeled the king of manginas, I speak from experience it just isn't worth worrying about.

The name of our romantic song : "She's my Hooker I'm her John"
   Once I'm her John I'm not singing a different  melody with her.  
         
    If you were lead  vocalist in a band, while playing live, would you change the words of a popular song fans loved to sing along?  
      IMO  No need to fix something that isn't broken and working fine.  
     When  I enjoy my Hooker I'll book again.  
        That's the name of my tune.
   Friendship outside the business OK, Serious monogamous relationship, No Way!!
   
     
      No sense writing words in a song that don't fit the message.

But I bet you've been called worse. LOL.

mr fisher enjoys basking occasionally as a piñata, not in a needy sense like Rod, more in a light hearted comical Rodney Dangerfield way.  
    mr fisher is the last guy here , other than me, who needs another poster  to defend him.  
 
   
    That's my take on mr fisher.
 In your defense, I'm immensely more astute than you.      
   
 
   
     

It was at crossroad and I was supposed to play the guitar like a Mo Fo, but the only thing I play like a Mo Fo is myself. Guess that liver would only be good for Pâté since it been well marinated  LOL Cheers.

Neither you you nor mrfisher know you've been had.  So you're both in good company with BPS.  Yep, you're astute all right!  LMAO!

Don't tell me I'll guess, rubbing ass with inicky gave you the liar virus.  

I do know you try to pass as a woman, a very ugly woman, with an enormous  
  nose, no doubt.  That's old news.  
     

Seems like the answer is "no."
That's fine.  Keep masquerading as someone who has a brain.

Your wife has to know that you do this or else who do you introduce the escorts as to her