This is a serious question for the providers only. My situation is this: my (now ex) wife had a few affairs and ran off with another guy. She is now living happily ever after with one of them. The little red guy on my shoulder came up with the idea of hiring a provider to seduce the guy and have sex with him on video. I would then show my ex the tape so she could know what it's like to be cheated on.

Ethics aside and completely hypothetically speaking, my question is simple. Would any of you be willing to do it?

such a thing would violate not only my own personal ethics, but would be antithetical to my very nature.

Sounds like you are dealing with closure issues. I know what that's like as I had them with my ex. She cheated prior to and during the divorce. Lots of drama with her throughout the divorce and such. I learned over time to let it go and sounds like you need to work on that too. I did think of lots of things to do to her but my advice is just daydream about it and don't do it!

You would lower yourself to a level that is not befitting a gentleman, spend money needlessly, and someone ELSE would get laid.  Bust up her relationship? Maybe, but so what?  She is GONE and from the sound of it... good RIDDANCE.

My friend, the best revenge is living well.  Spend that money on you!  Get a provider, find a babe and take her for a wild weekend, buy new pipes for your Harley, anything that makes YOU feel better. But like the lady said... its time to move ON!
MVR

No I wouldnt and even if it sounds good dont follow thru and stoop to her level. She will hang her self in the future. I have had this happened to me and it usually has nothing to do with sex the cheating part. Believe me. I have succummbed to this lifestyle and not judge others who have some on the side. I understand more why we do it. obviously she didnt respect you or herself. So you have someone else out there in the world waiting for you and deserves you and loves themselves and capable of loving and caring for you. Take what you learned from this experience. It sucks when someone puts your heart in a blender! Find some positive hobbies (other than this hobby lol its all good though) like chess or golfing, flying kites shell collection ect it is a positive release and let go it takes time keep a journal. I found at least 1000 ways to make the others lives miserable. If you write it down, few months from now even a year you will realize how stupid you will feel dwelling on this and shred or burn the journal! Take care of your self Angela

JP.....did you love her?....If so,sorry about your bad luck!...It's not always easy to "just get over it"....good luck!....ps,what made her cheat in the 1st place?

You found her! There are plenty of women out there!  Find someone else!  Heidi xxoo