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No way !!! Absolutely not !!!
decadentxy 32 Reviews 1819 reads
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1 / 28

... with someone from the hobby? ie. an escort, a client, another hobbyist.
A legit business.  Not being "booking agent or screener or other" bull shoot

oldguyinconcord 425 reads
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2 / 28

we're all liars and cheaters.  We are either lying to our families or spouses or friends.  I know there are exceptions to that rule but as a group we are used to deception, not a good formula for business success.  JMHO

Sooo...YouWanna 485 reads
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3 / 28

So, because we all are involved in something that the general public frowns upon at the moment, we are morally corrupt people, so used to lying that we would not be reliable business partners?

Excuse me. I think I just sprained my wrist from doing the jerk off motion.

OSP 26 Reviews 486 reads
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4 / 28

We have a very lucrative b'ness thank you very much. She's the brains and I'm the uh..............I haven't figured it out yet.

inicky46 61 Reviews 462 reads
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5 / 28

First of all, I've met some really good people in this game and gotten to know a few of them quite well.  We trust each other with personal information.  And we already know a lot about each others' deep, dark secrets.  You can't say that with someone from outside.
Now all I need is money

inicky46 61 Reviews 466 reads
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6 / 28

Exactly.  For your excellent answer, you have won this video

GaGambler 356 reads
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7 / 28

Not only would I do so, but I have done so in the past, and will most likely do so in the future.

As for lying, as I said I am way too lazy to lie. I don't hide my whoremongering to anyone but the wives of friends of mind who implore me to do so. Even then I've told them I simply won't mention it, but I won't lie if ever asked outright if I have sex with prostitutes.

Cosette 362 reads
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8 / 28

If they had the qualifications and professional capacity to be a good business partner, why not? What people do in their personal life shouldn't affect what their potential is professionally.  

There's other types of people that I would be more worried about as business partners, just given my personality that I would find difficult to get along with - drug users, alcoholics, bi-polar, narcissists, etc. This seems so petty if they're otherwise legitimately qualified people.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 400 reads
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9 / 28

I would do a legit business with someone who sees hookers...Because I see hookers... Hey.. As long as he is smarter than me.. I would definitely do business with him.  But I doubt someone who is a Bible Thumping Christian or some super religious fanatic would do a business with me/us, if he had knowledge of my/our extra-curricular activities.  

Its no different than someone who sells drugs finding it comfortable to do a legit business with other drug dealer.But I would never even think about doing business knowing that the other guy deals in drugs... Although the risks with dealing drugs greatly vary compared to risks of seeing hookers, I think its a fair comparison..

Its all about our value system and comfort level.

 
*Edited for grammar.

-- Modified on 10/9/2013 4:23:55 PM

shudaknownbetter 374 reads
posted
10 / 28

We'd have to have an understanding about not involving the business.  If a hobbiest, we'd have to have (as everyone should) strict accounting by professionals.  If a Provider, what contingency for possible interruption of the business if she is busted or arrested?  Not insurmountable but wise to be prepared.
A non-hobby person...  may have just as much in their closet but you do not know.  No one in a business should be irreplaceable...  lack of depth does not allow for sickness, vacations or eventual retirement.  Very unwise.

89Springer 411 reads
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11 / 28

In all my years in business, I've been royally screwed by people who move in the highest circles of society and are regarded as pillars of the community. I wouldn't trust them with a wallet with a single Franklin in it.

I have a brother who I wouldn't partner with to run a lemonade stand.

It would depend upon the individual, the person's knowledge and experience in the proposed area of business, and the same sort of factors I'd apply to anyone else

Jamie.Solo See my TER Reviews 389 reads
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12 / 28

Speak for yourself baby, you may be a liar, but I am not. Leaving out the truth - isn't lying, I don't go around shouting from roof tops my profession, but if it came to someone asking me - not matter who they were, family, friend, etc.,I would tell them the truth. Obviously, if they are asking - they already have some idea. But like I said, I don't go around talking about it, but the important people in my life, know what I do. I am just blessed with understanding people, though, I guess. And I was taught not to lie.  

Now - to respond to the OP, Yes I would start a business with someone else in this business. Them being a provider or hobbiest wouldn't matter. The business would be what mattered. Is it a business that I think is going to make money? Is it something I would be proud to be apart of? Is it a business that helps people? Sexually related? How profitable? Do I have to invest to get it off the ground? Etc. Those are the questions that I would be asking. Whether or not someone is a hobbiest or provider - in my mind - doesn't have much effect on their business running skills.

Oh and - Liars make very good business owners actually, it just all depends on WHO they are lying to.  

Think about it - you go into a restaraunt - you order a steak and it tastes funny. You ask to speak to the owner, and ask him is this steak old?? Is he gonna tell you the truth or is he gonna lie? I'm not saying it is an ethical practice, but I think a lot of business owners probably "lie" too.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 328 reads
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13 / 28

Posted By: Jamie.Solo
Speak for yourself baby, you may be a liar, but I am not. Leaving out the truth - isn't lying, I don't go around shouting from roof tops my profession, but if it came to someone asking me - not matter who they were, family, friend, etc.,I would tell them the truth. Obviously, if they are asking - they already have some idea. But like I said, I don't go around talking about it, but the important people in my life, know what I do. I am just blessed with understanding people, though, I guess. And I was taught not to lie.  
   
 Now - to respond to the OP, Yes I would start a business with someone else in this business. Them being a provider or hobbiest wouldn't matter. The business would be what mattered. Is it a business that I think is going to make money? Is it something I would be proud to be apart of? Is it a business that helps people? Sexually related? How profitable? Do I have to invest to get it off the ground? Etc. Those are the questions that I would be asking. Whether or not someone is a hobbiest or provider - in my mind - doesn't have much effect on their business running skills.  
   
 Oh and - Liars make very good business owners actually, it just all depends on WHO they are lying to.  
   
 Think about it - you go into a restaraunt - you order a steak and it tastes funny. You ask to speak to the owner, and ask him is this steak old?? Is he gonna tell you the truth or is he gonna lie? I'm not saying it is an ethical practice, but I think a lot of business owners probably "lie" too.

tg_baby 384 reads
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14 / 28

I've had that happen to me twice, in this business. The more highly-regarded they are, the more they (feel they) can get away with. And most of the time, they are right.  

Also, it's harder to be heard when you're protesting against the masses that Mr (or Mrs, or Miss) Hero is really not all that people think he/she is.

Karma seems to work for the hoi polloi, but not for the elite.

palomamontecarlo See my TER Reviews 363 reads
posted
15 / 28

Because they are in this industry. Like everywhere, you run into unprofessional, unprepared and unqualified individuals but you may also run into the opposite. I have been very fortunate to meet extremely knowledgeable and business savvy individuals in this arena and, If the right opportunity to start a profitable and solid venture with them is presented, I wouldn't hesitate. Keep in mind that you guys also experience our character and interpersonal skills first hand and in a more intimate way than an interview, the way we write our emails, our posts, our personal image, our demeanor, our punctuality, reliability etc. Yes, I do know we carry the stigma of the occupation, but also keep in mind that some of us do this on a part time basis and may also have a full time occupation and higher education (some ladies go as far as PHD degrees and professional degrees) and experience in a more "real life occupations". If you want to analyze this more in depth, providers are great at marketing and advertising as well as time management and resource allocation because technically we are self employed so all the liability falls on us. I find that if the level of trust and mutual respect is optimal, a business venture between two people in the industry could work, but once again, it is solely based on the character of each individual.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 416 reads
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16 / 28

I would approach it like any other business venture. Weigh it out. Do I trust the person? Is it a good business plan, or at least a good gamble? I definitely don't consider everyone in the hobby to be liars, cheats, unethical, or immoral. Sure many are, but so are some of my family members and "civvy" friends! There are good people and bad people, and smart peopke and stupid people everywhere.

In fact, I was recently asked by a provider about getting into a partnership with her, and she wasn't looking for financing. Her money, my skill set.

89Springer 383 reads
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17 / 28

An old friend and mentor of mine in my business niche told me again and again, "be nice to the people you meet on your way up, because you're going to see them again on your way down."

I can't count the number of times someone who'd screwed me over called to ask if I'd be a reference for them for a new job when they lost their lofty job. Sure, I said, but I never told them what sort of reference I'd be. ;)

There's people on this forum who, at least at first glance, seem to be the sort to partner with. For a cream-pie hit man/woman business (those where you're hired to throw a cream pie in someone's face), I would think London Rayne would do a fantastic job of delivering the pie. ;)

YouCantSeeMe 329 reads
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18 / 28

Women and men in this business are only liars because they have to be in order to continue doing it. Some are honest, while others do it secretly. IMHO, ok, it's not an opinion it is what is. The liars and cheaters are the ones who look like they have the perfect life and look ethical and honest.  

Think about it. You know she's a hooker, she knows you're hiring prostitutes. You're both covered int he event one tries to pull any shit.

Really you are the one who knows whether or not you should do the deed. If only they had Pre-nuptual agreements set out for business. I work for companies. Never co-owned anything but a car and a house, so whether that option is available is beyond me.

In all honesty, honesty isn't the issue here. I don't think there is honesty when it comes to money and power. The more you have, the more you'll do to keep it coming in and to keep it. Just watch your back if/when the business becomes successful.

Take note: Lots of men out there doing this shit and not a soul knows about it. You can't pick a partner based on what you know. If you do, you're picking based on what you don't want to know.


-- Modified on 10/9/2013 5:52:33 PM

tg_baby 364 reads
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20 / 28

just discussing people in general and NOT anybody here (as far as I know). There are a lot of great people in this business. Some of them are on these boards.

I don't pass a final judgment on anybody until I've gotten into a fight with him/her :-) Maybe not even then. This business has made me cynical that way, I guess.  

But reading certain peoples' posts does make me more inclined to trust.  

Thing is (and I'm not speaking of anybody on these boards, just my personal experiences and related to your first post) you really can't go by image/reputation...anywhere - and ESPECIALLY here...it's best to cultivate some skepticism. Worst that can happen, is that they will prove you wrong.

-- Modified on 10/9/2013 3:25:43 PM

inicky46 61 Reviews 322 reads
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21 / 28

I think Jamie is using flat mode and you can sometimes get screwed up and end up posting under someone you didn't mean to.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 373 reads
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22 / 28

And it just ended up in the wrong place.
I hate flat mode. It messes up threads. I remember a few trainwrecks started unintentially just because of a reply in the wrong place.

quadseasonal 27 Reviews 397 reads
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23 / 28

If  I can run my own business there's  no need for partners making my rules  .  
 
   I wouldn't have any issues hiring guys and gals from TER or recently paroled ,  in a non partnership role .
 My first employees in a new enterprise  would be the business   card of placebo power , with longer working hours ,  VP jobs .

Posted By: decadentxy
... with someone from the hobby? ie. an escort, a client, another hobbyist.  
 A legit business.  Not being "booking agent or screener or other" bull shoot.  
 

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 369 reads
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24 / 28

quote:
Would you say Gambler that people from this underbelly of society make some of the best business partners because of there ability to be true to the hustle? Also would you say they wouldn't be afraid to take a calculated risk as well?

GaGambler 352 reads
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26 / 28

and the same can be said about most of the ladies.

As for not being afraid to take a calculated risk, I would say the ladies here are better at that than most of the men. Not trying to be a mangina here, but the ladies already do that on a daily basis, while the men, or at least most of them, are trapped in loveless marriages, having to lie and cheat, mainly because they don't have the balls to take a chance and start over in life by getting a divorce. On average, I would say the women here have much "bigger balls" than do the guys. Please notice, I said "on average", obviously I am generalizing.

That said, I have met many people in this "hobby" that I trust at least as much as I trust anyone else that I have met through other means. I don't generalize in business, nor in my friendships, even though I was just guilty of it in my paragraph above. lol

londonheather 342 reads
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27 / 28

Yes as long as the guy doesn't think free sex with you is included.

decadentxy 32 Reviews 431 reads
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28 / 28
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