Hi, this may be a newbie question, but here goes. I visited a provider out west and I'm interested in seeing her again, but probably won't be through that area anytime soon. What are the normal financial expectations of me if I invite her to come to my area (east coast). I guess it depends if I'm only looking for her to be a sole provider just for me vs. her seeking out other clients during her stay?

Find someone else there are billions of hookers out there.

guarantee her a date if she travels your way, she may be looking for an excuse to visit your area.

that you prepay for her RT airfare and then a minimum overnight once she is in the area.  She may also charge you a travel fee as well since it does take a while to get from one coast to another.  

Hmmmmm. Zillions..

Maybe you're right. Thanks for snapping me back to reality.

and that's a justifiable reason to see her again. I just don't think it would be worth the effort, to bring her to you.

Ok, Johny's talking me off the ledge...gradually.

You are losing SPOTY points by the bucketful.

Oh wait, I have my money bet on Fungus. I changed my mind, keep up the good work, my money looks safer and safer, not to mention you can piss off your "good friend" DA, he's the one who bet on you. lol

WTF are you talking about?

But he would always slip back into idiocy again.  Don't count your on a SPOTY victory for fungus yet. The year's not even half over.

The need has been purged from my system thanks to all your heckling. I guess the system works!

The option tends to be spreading, and I think those dates are super exciting and fun...

Guys do this all the time.  Even for the first date ever meeting the girl.

Don't let the bastards wear you down.

I have seen several gals who flew in to me at their own expense.  Of course I did offer them an overnight to make it worth their while, and I also sent in a deposit which is only to be expected.

The gals then saw other guys the day or two after.

So, go ahead and speak to her about the possibilities.  If she is really that good, it can certainly be worth while.;

Fungy tends to get even dumber as the year goes on, and the competition tends to fall by the wayside. Not to mention that BV/noemail/Pimples/JCA is likely to change his handle at least one more time without formally changing it with TER, forfeiting his accrued SPOTY points once again.

It's no sure thing yet, but I feel pretty confident.

Harvard Man are you then?

Game ON.
Oh....maybe plan on dinner and what not. I like hotels w restaurants in or near y'all's hotel. Also maybe a good sight seeing walking area by the hotel. I'm from Alabama so I'm easily entertained.....especially in those big metropolitan cities. It's a tad overwhelming when I do it alone but when I gotta date, I have a blast.  
Think of stuff like that and she'll be a ball of F U N...I'm just sure she'll adore you.  
I highly suggest arriving the day prior so you can get settled along with a good nights sleep prior to meeting.  
Have a ball and do let us know how your vacay went.....sounds  F U N..!!  
~Love & Peace~

Anywhere I provide. Simply approach the subject with her and I'm sure she'll answer your questions. You already met her so that relieves alot of the issues when travel is involved.

Actually, it's on a coffee mug some guy sent me and is sitting on my desk holding pencils.  

Funny, it's part of the Harvard fight song I  believe too.

You should expect to pay the cost of an over night visit (assuming she does them) as well as travel expenses both ways.  She will also expect to be put up in a room that she won't have to share with you and she may also be looking for meal expenses.  I wouldn't assume that she would be willing to "tour" in your area and even if she did hang around for a few days she is probably still going to be looking for a premium price from you.  Plan on a t least two or three grand depending on what her rate is and what the air fair costs are. Still interested?

Mr. Fisher your a good man (Remind me to see you some day. ) You need my medical checkup and work out routine! LSMJD you know I think you're a good man because I just hung out with you -- BUT NO THIS THREAD ISN'T ABOUT ME, IT'S ABOUT A DIFFERENT GAL he (LSMJD) met out west  I know it's about a different girl because I already told LSMJD my .02 cents about her in PM, plus I always do my own travel planning when I head all over the USA. As a working girl, I just like that sort of independence I guess. Then I know who, when, how many and blah blah blah. Every situation and arrangement is different, and every relationship out here is different! I've ONLY fallen in love ONCE out here since 2002 when I began playing in the sandbox, but I know lots of us (men and women) who have fallen in love out here MANY times.  You pay the girl to leave you so she doesn't get into your real brain, real life, and mess up everything you built and worked for in family and in career. LSMJD has his heart in the right place and so much to lose with one wrong move. Be careful, my friend, follow your "spider sense". One fella said to me " if you don't see a girl more than twice you won't be able to fall in love with her."  
Oh boy, Plenty of fish in the sea to choose from !! Kids in a candy store out here.