Women mostly don't realize that they hold a ton of leverage in a marriage. I know guys who've opened their marriages at their wife's request, and they had a grand old time, and then somewhere around the point where everything becomes community property and spousal support is guaranteed, their wives walked with half, and a very comfortable paycheck.
Men would be good to, at minimum, understand the position they find themselves in, and act accordingly.
Women mostly don't realize that they hold a ton of leverage in a marriage. I know guys who've opened their marriages at their wife's request, and they had a grand old time, and then somewhere around the point where everything becomes community property and spousal support is guaranteed, their wives walked with half, and a very comfortable paycheck.
Men would be good to, at minimum, understand the position they find themselves in, and act accordingly.
While I would tend to agree that in the majority of cases there really isn't a "hall pass" for guys (some relationships are open and that's great but not every person has a mindset and confidence level -- or independence level -- to live with that).
BUT the probem you bring up is solved by a prenupt. These days (meaning any time in the past 20 years or so) I cannot believe anyone gets married without one and without having discussed some basic financial arrangements related to property.
I agree with you. If you ask your wife for a Hall pass, she may say, Fine, because then she gets a get out of jail free card to fuck her trainer at the gym, or the pool boy.
My assumption has always been that guys are eager for a hall pass, until they realize that it extends the same freedom to the wife. And, in many cases, the wife ends up getting more opportunities to exercise the pass than the husband.
Theoretically getting married in your twenties is the ticket to a comfortable life -- until wifey gets bored and you get gang raped in divorce court. I used to advise marriage based on the likely financial benefits. But now seeing how ANY wife can go from girl-next-door to Cartel assassin, the risk is no longer ignorable.
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