I'm planning my first longer session (3 hours) and it will be with my atf. I really want to take my time on this one and slowly undress her, kiss her neck and ears, caress etc etc. I don't want to force as many pops as possible ( never do anyway) I want to take the slow road and really treat it like a date. She is a great person and we get on really well, she texts me occasionally etc. I have no illusions of a civie relationship here, just pointing out that we do have a good social connection.

I'm wondering if this kind of thing gets to a point of enough is enough and starts getting into a womans personal boundaries or just annoying. I would think ladies who offer and say they prefer longer sessions would be cool with this but opinions?

I do plan to pre talk with her about this, just curious what most here think....

It's possible that you're smooooove enough to stir up enough emotions and make the lady uncomfortable but that's not very probable. After all, you're paying her to spend time with you.

Go for it though, Don Juan!

3 hours goes by so fast. Have a great time, tell us how it went.

. . . you popped after 20 minutes. What are you going to do the rest of the time?

Gentlemen who are new to longer dates often express the concern "but what will we talk about/do with all of that time??" At the end of the date, the consistent response is "Wow, I can't believe it went by so quickly!" It never fails to make me giggle.

Thanks all. Perspectives are reassuring. I'm sure she will be cool with all of this because she's down to earth. I doubt ill be pulling any serious moves she hasn't seen many times LOL it probably takes a greater cassanova than I...but I just don't want this to be another dfk daty bbbj mish doggy thing. Just trying to color in the spaces between the acronyms.

As for popping after 20 I never do especially with a cover. Sometimes i wish i could pop faster....Even if I did after 20  my atf is a great lady so I'd Just chill, get her a glass of ice water and give it another go after some time had passed.

Seriously doubt that personal boundaries will be crossed during the actual session but be careful that you don't go overboard in the pre meeting time with texts, emails, phone calls.

If she's your ATF and you two are cordial then, I'm sure she's looking forward to spending a longer session with you too. If she texts you casually then feel free to respond and take it for what it is, "casual communique". Just don't overwhelm her with texts and the next time you guys chat, just come out and let her know you'd like to do some planning for a longer session.

I personally enjoy longer sessions, especially with a client whom I've become accustomed to and very fond of. So often it's 1 or 2 hour sessions where foreplay is done but not really savored. You now have that opportunity and you BOTH will be grateful for it.

Enjoy!!