my difficulties with health are on going and continuous. there are a couple of special ladies who surprise me with bits of research, advice, get well cards and calls after surgery, and references to get second opinions and such. so i don't have a single crisis story, more a long running pattern of concern and care.
for these special ladies, i try to return the favors as best i can.
A couple of weeks ago I had an incident happen where I was stuck on the side of the road, and started to feeling sick from an injury I had. Where I was stuck at just so happen to near the in call location a provider I know was at.
I gave her a call told my situation, and she helped a me out. She also allowed me to rest at her in call for a little while until I started to feel better, and gave me a ride where I needed to go. I was so thankful she helped out, and all she did for a me in during this situation.
Providers & Gents, Have any stories where a provider of client helped you out during distress.
before fucking me. It was a kind gesture and I appreciated her HEART.
The "after" part is what I am grateful for, because I don't want to be puking on the lady's face like that during the session. lol
Anyway, as to OP's question, why is it a surprise that some providers have a heart?
They are same people just like you and me.
Now, the ones that aren't nice and are testy / bitchy, I'd like to avoid at all costs. lol
In fact, it would be nice if this was in the profile "Bitchy/Testy/Has attitude: yes , no"
not that I think this would fly since it's always a ymmv.
DA
In all seriousness I have also been a receipient of rather kind acts from Providers through the years. Makes up for all the times I've awoke in a trash bin beaten and brusies with my wallet missing [ just kidding...that has never happen...if it did I would certainly knock a couple points off of the review rating].
and some of these kind women have been willing to suck on it until the throbbing subsided, for these acts of kindness I will be eternally grateful. lol
i;m glad your brother isn't so one-track minded ![]()
We are normal ladies and I for one do care about some of my clients that I know well. I have not had a client call me in distress yet. I can think of 5 right off the bet that I would help in a heartbeat if they ever needed it. I was sad about my office closing two years ago and a client did take me to Hawaii and that cheered me up. We had a awesome time. Does that count?
i was broken down a good distance from school
so i called my favorite client*who was paying for my schooling anyway*to see if he would mind driving 200 miles to help out. he said of course. it was a holiday weekend and my car couldn't get fixed until the next business day. he arrived in botswanna*may as well have been*and we stayed the weekend together while my car was getting fixed despite regular business hours. he called some /friends\ and they worked their magic. i think my favorite client left knowing i appreciated his help*cough cough mumble mumble
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Had an extended double session not too long ago during a southern heat wave. To make matters worse, I was working on very few hours of sleep over the previous week and was completely exhausted. Near the end of the session, things started getting blurry and I was definitely spacing out. The lady allowed me to say overnight in her incall to get a good night's sleep and made sure I was rehydrated. She had to return home to prepare for work the next day, and just told me to make sure I locked up on my way out in the morning. I really don't think that I would have been able to drive safely back home without her help, and I will be forever grateful for it.
My mistress kicked my balls after a fight. And my balls were really aching pretty bad as I was driving my car. I stop by the side to call a provider nearby, because my balls were blue. She said to come on over to her incall. When I arrive, she asked me to drop my pants. Grab my balls gently and said "oh poor baby, it's swollen." She started licking my balls for 30 minutes and took care of the boys. Oh man, this was the greatest cure of all times for blue balls. That's a provider with a Heart - knows how to take care of her man.
to have heart surgery and he couldn't drive for a while afterwards.
He lived alone and didn't have a lot of people to help him out besides his ex wife, so every week before our get together, I would go to the grocery store and pick up some things he needed on my way over to his house.
I received first aid at a massage parlor. I also had a lady that volunteered to shave my back.
a FBSM provider cleaned up an injury... took a hard fall on my way to see her & I was unaware until I got there that there was gravel imbedded in several body parts... so I second the First Aid.
a provider calmed me down when I came down with an unexplained infection... which later proved to be common bacteria run amuck because I am immune suppressed. Guys seldom get UTIs but I got a one heck of one!
a handful of providers have been very kind, giving extra TLC (not just in bed)... above & beyond the call of duty... my medical situation behind my being immune suppressed.
a Favorite provider... has a legit home based technical business... Gives me *free* technical services... between rounds. She has fed me... and I have brought meals... I have always been generous with her compensation (compared to her requested donation).
I have seen Favorite providers who needed repairs/upgrades to their location. On a few occasions, I have been able to bring materials which made the repairs possible. I expected nothing in return & made it clear that there were no strings attached.
I have posted about How one provider found a way for my son to cope with my cancer by having him start a small indoor garden and teaching him how veggies and fruit fight cancer. It gave my son a way to help me fight. It gave him a since of control over my illness and helped him a lot. here is a link to that post.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=463675&boardID=12&page=
I will never forget what she did for my son. She done it out of concern for me and my family at her own expense. She is a truly great person.
That is the biggest thing a provider I have booked has ever done for me. But I there are other stories as well. I wish I could share those stories as well but discretion forbids it. I have been blessed by meeting many truly great ladies in this hobby of mine, some I am very proud to call them friend.
my difficulties with health are on going and continuous. there are a couple of special ladies who surprise me with bits of research, advice, get well cards and calls after surgery, and references to get second opinions and such. so i don't have a single crisis story, more a long running pattern of concern and care.
for these special ladies, i try to return the favors as best i can.
I have a serious health problem; it is ALS (aka Lou Gehrig's Disease). My disease has taken an unusual course. ALS usually attacks the nerves in the arms and legs first, eventually to the point that they become useless. Mine has attacked the nerves in my mouth and neck leaving me without a voice----and a few other neck and throat related problems. The rest of my body still performs OK although I have ED (it hasn't stopped me from feeling horny). For over a year I felt like a monk who had taken an oath of silence. Everyone around me was very sympathetic but I soon found that nobody has the patience to set with me to carry on a normal everyday conversation.
Then I met my provider. I explained in my introductory email what my problems are so they would not be a surprise when I knocked on her door. I either write on a small white board or type on my laptop (which has a text-to-voice synthesizer). They are both slow but I can get my points across.
She sat me down on her sofa and sat where she was looking me in the eye. Then we started conversing (her talking, me typing). She never got impatient and tried to anticipate my responses or did she change the subject while I was responding to a previous question. Eventually she started asking some very thought-provoking questions about how I was being impacted by my problems and what did I want to do about them.
Prior to this visit, I had had counseling sessions with several doctors and other professionals at one of the foremost hospitals in the country, my minister, and a psychologist. None of them asked such deep questions as this little lady did.
My wife was having just as hard a time adjusting to my problems as I was. My lady was probably my wife's "best friend" although they haven't met. She guided me in how to comfort and reassure my wife.
My lady and I trade emails between sessions. Nine months later and she is still one of the few people who will take the time to converse with me. Unfortunately, my budget doesn't allow me to see her as often as I would like and her incall is a long drive away. i don't know what I'll do when I cannot drive anymore; and that is fast approaching.
My lady is very active on this board. I want to tell her "Thank you".
Do we have awards for "Compassionate Provider Of The Year"? If so, I would like to nominate her.
it's just being human anyhow.
I gave her a call told my situation, and she helped a me out. She also allowed me to rest at her in call for a little while until I started to feel better, and gave me a ride where I needed to go. I was so thankful she helped out, and all she did for a me in during this situation.
Providers & Gents, Have any stories where a provider of client helped you out during distress.
Antibiotics when I came down with bad tonsillitis. It was just before a weekend and he knew I wouldn't make it to the doc until Monday, so he gave me his emergency Z-pack stash. Totally saved my life.
Hey...and he didn't even try to grope me when he dropped it off...what a saint!