Sorry if this has been posted elsewhere (I feel like I've seen a similar thread, but can't recall what it said and can not find it or a similar one).

just outright NOT respond, so, in my case, if a man has reached out and gotten nothing back, I most likely legitimately forgot and wouldn't be bothered by another contact.

If you email me at over the weekend, It will be Monday before I get back to you.
If you email me in the evening it will be the next day before I get back to you..

Thanks for the thoughts. I like to think I'm to the point and not creepy in emails. It was basically an inquiry to availability on a specific day before I went through the P411 process. Gave my user id here and there as well. Like I said - maybe I'm overly sensitive, but for some reason I was worried that even a week or two later sending another request would be bothersome. I think that's probably silly.

What is the appropriate wait time until you move on and contact the next girl? Always an issue when I am traveling, not a whole lot of time to wait for her reply.

If a guy is asking me on a Monday about a date on Wed. and HE waits til Tues. to respond back, we won't be meeting. I can't really answer your question not knowing your schedule, but play it by ear. If you have a week to wait on someone ok, but if not, move on to someone who is good at timely responses. In any other business, we would be crucified for taking days to respond...not this one. I don't get it. How do women make money who take 2 days to respond? It's not about the meeting time, but the courtesy factor.

I don't try more than once. I don't stand in line at restaurants, why the hell stand in line for a BJ.

Best to have conversations going with several girls, most will not come through.
When you have a limited window of opportunity do not count on the providers to be dependable.
Always have a back-up.

Chatting up multiple girls and then following through on just one is wasting their time.

most providers respond in a fairly timely fashion. I usually wait 2-3 days before sending a second email. I will not send a 3rd email anymore. And that's not because I think I'm "pestering her", it's because I am quite sure she is being hugely disrespectful to me.  

Unless you are in a city with only one provider. In that case you can understand why it takes so long to get a response.

I thought it was a pretty simple question and I have my reasons for being interested in this provider. No whining. No crying. No bitching. Except on your end. Your inability to process a simple post and turn it into something it clearly wasn't belies what I can only imagine is a wonderful personality and warm generous spirit.  Fucktard.  

I see a least a few ladies every week. By necessity I am going to be talking to several ladies at any given time, and I do follow through with all, or at least almost all of them that strike my fancy.

As for the OP, I have no idea what the etiquette is, but I usually wait somewhere between 2-3 days and a week, and then reach out one more time before moving on and forgetting about the one that didn't get back to me.

back to guys in a timely manner. Two business days (leaves the weekend out) should be plenty of time for a provider to get back to a guy who has asked politely for a specific day / time.

Hi,

If you don't get a response by the end of the day , move on.  People who don't respond in this day and age with in one work day ( 9am-9pm) with even just a, "let me think about it" or "let me get back to you", are arrogant and inconsiderate . Everyone in this day and age has their email connected to their smartphone. It's a big load of shit when someone tells you otherwise.  Do you really want to do business with someone like that? Think about it. Respect , Response, Results....

+1 here... DC isnt far behind!

then you aren't keeping anybody on the line.  Works for you, but I think most of us are closer to the one per month than the 3 per week rate.

Ah...you make me blush. You're a great gal yourself

Thanks for the responses. It was a case of a very long lead time (3 weeks) and someone who just came off some travel to attend to some personal things. So it was all good in the end.