Found this little article on 19 dirty questions we still have.....pick one and answer it this should be fun.
#15. How come sex with hot people is almost never as hot?
In my experience the more attractive the man (Disclaimer not all cases) the less work he feels he has to do because he's attractive. Instant turn off for me. On the flip side, I have come across men that are hideous and swear they are God's gift to earth. I even asked one who was just nasty and rude and to top it off pompous if he was the one that send me the email that stated that he was so attractive he could get whoever he wanted that this was just just an experiment for him. Needless to say I brought him down to earth so fast he thought he was having a flashback. He still writes and I ignore him entirely for being a dick.
Which question will you answer?
By doing so, we reward people, and more so here in the Sex field for simple appearance and barely any on engagement. We see with our eyes first, so we want to be visually stimulated. So allow selfish behavior from Hot people because they are always rewarded for simply being HOT.
So substance and charter only come into play in the longer haul when you want more interaction for yourself. In this world and in the world of Casual Sex, Hot is what we want first before actual mutual engagement, and it is amazing when we can have both but they are rare.
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Actually my ego won't allow me to think I'm ugly, although I'm far from hot.
I've always wondered why it's the pretty people who always seem to have the most issues with life.
I bet you don't even have an afro.
I think the sex I have with hot gals is pretty damn hot!
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Are NOT the beautiful ones IMO. Really good looking people have an attitude that they are doing us a favor by "allowing" us to have sex with them -even in P4P! Not always, but enough that I wonder about it.
Most of the hottest sex I have had has been with some of the hottest women I have ever been with.
While I have had some rather homely women try their ass off to please me, both in the civvie world and in P4P, unless there is a certain amount of physical attraction, it's to no avail. Now if you ask me if I have ever fucked a drop dead gorgeous ice queen, and of course the answer is yes, but I disagree with the premise that fucking beautiful women is usually disappointing, The very same as I disagree with many of the old "hobbyists" here who claim older women always give the best performance. Quite frankly I call bullshit on both assumptions.
OK, lets move to question number one
1.How come the same amount of booze it takes me to have sex can also be the same amount that stops me from being able to get off?
As a very experienced drunk, I find this only holds water where it comes to fucking ugly women. I don't need anything more than a mild breeze to get my motor running for a hot women, but the homelier the woman the drunker I have to get to have any interest. At a certain point of homeliness, by the time I am drunk enough to have any interest I have lost the physical capability of performing. I call this natures safety valve and thankfully it has kept me from fucking some real pigs after consuming thirty or forty shots of tequila.
Next?
what kind of tequila. A fine Reposada or an Anejo.
I share one of the above with an ATF. She takes a
double and shares if with a DFK. I do likewise but
save some for her rock hard nipples. We like to share
AND I'M NOT SCARED IN THE LEAST. Mia (above) fixed that. Once and only once needed. I guess I'm a qwik study.
"Why is foreplay more stimulating than the actual penis-in-vagina sex?"
I know this is the case for me...
I think there is more intimacy related to touching, kissing, massaging...it allows more communication verbally and non-verbally between the participants and often leads to oral pleasures for both parties...
I have said before that for me DATY is my favorite part of sex...I have no idea if I'm actually any good at it but I do enjoy the sensations of the woman's physical reactions and the building orgasm...I often liken it to playing guitar, theplayer (me) manipulates the instrument (her) and by altering pressures and tempos can get different reactions...
And I do enjoy me a good sloppy blow job...
The vast majority of intercourse for me has been done with a condom, 100% with providers...the loss of sensation and mental block that comes with CFS makes it for me much less pleasurable than the build up to it...
I've found that a man being clean with some really wild sexual energy is what really makes me want to fuck the brakes off of him! I could care less if he's model material or has a few extra pounds really. THAT ENERGY, is what makes me consider a man" good cock" 
Honestly, I just don't fuck ugly women though. Sorry but all the women I fuck are really hot! Either in this hobby or civie life.
Xoxo,
TL
in any aspect of life, especially sex.
Money comes in a distant second, but some people manage to wrangle a lot of life out of it before pissing it away
Some of the best relationships...mostly friendships and a few sexualships I have had are based definitely on some looks (for the sexualship, yeah I am that shallow), but an amazing attitude and a great sense of humor takes it to another level.
...we're right there with you. BTW, this one's for you...and he even loves pussies...LOL.
I'm not the marrying kind...once was enough. The closest I'll get to a commitment is my workouts with my trainer...LOL.
I just sustained from passing out at the sight of this one. Combine her with super bike kitty man and I will happily die.
'liked' for the obvious pussy joke
and then one before that
and no doubt in my mind no matter what I read tomorrow we be good also
#10 How come great sex isn’t enough to keep us happy
I can only explain this in a food reference. I love NY Pizza but if I only had pizza every day I wouldn't be as satisfied. I want a Cheeseburger Taco. Wings Shrimp Chicken Steak and Pee King Duck. In basic terms I want a little bit of everything. Cook me a dish with 8 different foods which I enjoy that's whats going to make me happy and keep me satisfied.
Sex is 1 component of being happy.
Sex isn't going to make me completely happy because I want so many things in life. Sex is a piece of the puzzle to happiness. But show me anyone who is happy with only one thing everyone wants more. A relationship won't last only on 1 aspect. You need the entire pizza.
It makes sense to me on some level
Pee king duck? I'm not sure even Andrew Zimmerman would try a bite of that...
Especially hot guys, they think the girl should do all the work... Especially if they have a big cock... Sex is a mutual sport, a lazy lay is so unattractive... But I've also heard guys with small cocks are the best pussy eaters.... I agree to that 100%!!!! I would take a small cock over a hot guy for sex!!! "Who wants an O?"= ME ME ME ME ME!!! 🙋🙋🙋🙋🙋
Simple answer on this one.
Because nothing, and I mean nothing ... feels as warm and inviting as a pussy. Nothing. You can try to copy or intimidate but the best you'll ever wind up with is something that's a little better than your hand.
A vibrator on the other hand. I mean, shit, those things vibrate and shit! How the fuck is my dick going to ever compete with something that hums and vibrates? Women aren't threatened by a flexh light BECAUSE IT FEELS LIKE FUCKING A GUMMY BEAR. Plain and simple. Women laugh at it.
It's not fair.
I always look at the whole person beyond looks.If they have personality, a sense of humor along with manners I could care less what they look like.Now I have seen men that would have been hot in the looks department until they started to talk.
