: No, it isnt : Discussion in TER General Board, posted by goofball42

I use her stage name (short form). When I'm interacting with her a friend, I use her real name. That's a reminder to both of us that the p4p stuff is separate from our friendship (she has an SO). It works, for us at least. There's another provider with whom I developed a friendship and we followed the same approach, although she didn't have an SO until recently.

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170521811 years ago311 reads

With 4 of my favorite ladies

it is by real names

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FatVern11 years ago246 reads

Handle

I thought everyone on TER referenced one another by their handle.

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russbbj11 years ago257 reads

I feel it's best to use her stage name during a session

That's who I want her to be, when I'm paying for her company.

I know 2 provider's real name and for email or text communication I use her real name, because in that instance she's being herself. When she's being "Bambi" I'll call her Bambi. I don't know why I like that stage name for a provider, but I do. To be clear, I've never seen a Bambi.

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GaGambler11 years ago265 reads

Too funny, I once knew a girl whose real name was Bambi, not her hooker name

It was the hardest thing to keep up with which name to call her as "Bambi" was much more a hooker sounding name than her actual hooker name.

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russbbj11 years ago204 reads

yeah I'm not sure why I like Bambi for a hooker name

I mean Bambi was a cartoon male deer. But it rings my bell. Hell who knows what makes my warped brain tick.

I can assure you of this though, a provider would have to be super hot for me to get past a name like Marge or Blanche or Gertrude.

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GaGambler11 years ago305 reads

Why make things so difficult?

Just call her whatever she wants you to call her. Does it really matter to you what you call her?

I know a lot of women in this business, if I am around them in a hooker setting, I call them by their hooker name, If we are around family and/or friends I call them by the appropriate name.

Is this really such a tough question?

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goofball4211 years ago272 reads

No, it isnt

I agree, call them what they want to be called. I guess that was my question - with a regular, what do they want to be called.

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escalade196411 years ago294 reads

I think my ATF accidentally shared her real name

Now I don't know what to call her?

I am still at stage name but i am shy

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floyd103911 years ago250 reads

Re: I think my ATF accidentally shared her real name

Had a hotel manage call my ATF by the name she checked in under so I assumed it was her real name. I can't remember it nor do I want to. Just keeps life simple.

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mrfisher11 years ago227 reads

Use her stage name unless she says otherwise...

Almost all gals I've known for a good while have had me use their RL names.

In one case, a gal had me use another fantasy name she would only give to a very small number of people. It got a bit complicated.

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keystonekid11 years ago265 reads

Making sure I understand this--you saw her in 2013 and she has no current (last 2 years) . . .

reviews and she is your ATF. Or, is it you didn't review your ATF so other guys wouldn't know about her?

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JoeAFriday11 years ago209 reads

Stage vs. "real name".

Posted By: goofball42

If you have seen a provider a number of times, and you know each others' real names, would you go by your real names or not?

If I called my ATF by her stage name, she would be pretty offended:

Just curious.

I am Facebook friends with "ones" who friended me, then again there are more than one Friday out in the netherworld, she may have friended the wrong Friday. As to their names, how can you be 100% certain it is their "real" name? Seeing their license? She may have had a stalker and made that novelty license toj throw snoopers off.