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No, it is not just you
GaGambler 1089 reads
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I have had it happen on more than one occasion. Of course in a couple of those cases the provider in question really was my GF, and in one case an insanely jealous one to boot.

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Hi guys,  Have any of you had what I'm starting to call my Jealous Girl Friend Experience?  A provider who is acting like your high school girl friend when you even mention another girl. Wondering if it's just me.

GaGambler1090 reads

I have had it happen on more than one occasion. Of course in a couple of those cases the provider in question really was my GF, and in one case an insanely jealous one to boot.

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cashorcredit1191 reads

I once had a gal who was monitoring my reviews, she chewed me out for seeing another gal before seeing her again.

Men and Woman get jealous it's just natural

Panthera121055 reads

You shouldn't be flattered. If she was so jealous you wouldn't be paying her.

cashorcredit829 reads

Let me have my fantasy lol... I would like to believe she couldn't spare the thought of sharing me with another gal

AnotherDonJohn1213 reads

Is if you did join her ATF camp with Bbfs rights or you become a SO.
Then and only then are you more than just an ATM.
Girl's gotta care who's sharing her Bbfs space. Lol

GaGambler1129 reads

There is a huge difference between GFE and having a provider GF. They are not immune to the same jealousy, etc that any other woman has. I had to cut my last provider GF loose for that exact reason. She became almost insanely jealous, and I couldn't take it any more, and yes she was an ACTIVE provider, but was still as jealous as any civvie woman I have ever been with.

AnotherDonJohn945 reads

They're only fukkinfor money.

We're fukkin because we're not committed or sexually attracted to her.

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cashorcredit976 reads

Bbfs no way

I don't play roulette unless I'm at a casino in Vegas!

Panthera121189 reads

She's on her way over to clean your house and do the dishes too. What a girl!

cashorcredit908 reads

cooking me a pot of lasagna after she finishes cleaning

AnotherDonJohn983 reads

But OP is flattered.

His junk (read wallet) must be huge! Lol!

cashorcredit1093 reads

Will look exactly like the one in the photo

AnotherDonJohn1013 reads

A bank statement in there showing a million $ balance...

Yeah exactly stupid idiot's it's all about money

NO sex workers like to lose income.Fuc* up someone flattered.I don't make this job my only income.

I wouldn't waste my time being jealous over sex workers. Sun don't rise and set no one ass. Sex workers shouldn't trash talk others sex workers bad business.

AnotherDonJohn1026 reads

Or to watch the autocorrect on your iPhone.

Can't understand ya.

0603450onThe1070 reads

oxymoron as Got ATF? For any woman to get 'jealous' in this world is absurd LOL and hilarious. Come on. Perhaps you should lay off the just out of 'highschool' 19 yo's gentlemen. Just a thought ;)

You've so often commented that you don't ever read your own reviews.

But now you said that someone granted you VIP (perhaps a john who opened up his account to you...that could indeed lead to being banned for both if TER matched up IP addresses) to read Nick's reviews  LOL

Hmm...for someone who is denouncing she is jealous...sure doesn't match up to your words and actions  ;)

Care to comment?

Posted By: TaylorSteele
oxymoron as Got ATF? For any woman to get 'jealous' in this world is absurd LOL and hilarious. Come on. Perhaps you should lay off the just out of 'highschool' 19 yo's gentlemen. Just a thought ;)

or that she's found anyone jealous for my having seen another girl.
I love girls who love other girls.  And I was with a bunch of them last night.  When they start making out with each other in the middle of a party it's big fun to watch.

Posted By: TaylorSteele
fucking between you and I, so NO need to impress me. It is super cute tho. Thank you, I am flattered ;)  
   
 Btw, someone granted me VIP for a few days last week so I was able to 'peek' at a few reviews from you gentlemen afterall...interesting indeed. But Nicky, you and Rrasha...ok, now that by far took the cake and thensome. Bravo my man hahahahahhaha. I should hope you repeat often after that review. Good Lord.  

This is from a prior TS post.  Sure reads as if she was creeping around reading your review(s).  I don't believe she makes a comment about any of them (other hookers that is) being jealous.  But then I doubt she communicates with many (as in none) of the gals you've reviewed.

Oh...and I much prefer that the hookers make out with me.  But if being a voyeur works for you...enjoy.  LOL

Posted By: inicky46
or that she's found anyone jealous for my having seen another girl.  
 I love girls who love other girls.  And I was with a bunch of them last night.  When they start making out with each other in the middle of a party it's big fun to watch.

I forgot about that Rasha review, lol!  It was a total fantasy.  I did see her, but  that's not what went down.  Saw her for one last time about ten days ago and it was epic.  But no review will ever see the "light of day."
As for the rest of my reviews, as TER says, they are all fantasies.  I am actually a 17-year-old Chinese kid, posting on my Mom's iPad. She thinks I'm researching medical school applications.  She so stupid.
As for the women at the party last night, don't worry, I got a lot of personal attention.  My only problem was trying to remember all the hotties I met and want to see.  Not enough time before I'm "Leavin' Las Vegas."

Some of my most memorable times have never (and will never) be posted in any review...here or elsewhere.

Funny...I thought I was that 17 y/o Chinese kid...I guess I'll go with a 16 y/o whiney Jewish kid  LOL

I hope you gave a few of my gal pals a kiss on the cheek...maybe both cheeks?  Eh..how about on tulips?

Posted By: inicky46
I forgot about that Rasha review, lol!  It was a total fantasy.  I did see her, but  that's not what went down.  Saw her for one last time about ten days ago and it was epic.  But no review will ever see the "light of day."  
 As for the rest of my reviews, as TER says, they are all fantasies.  I am actually a 17-year-old Chinese kid, posting on my Mom's iPad. She thinks I'm researching medical school applications.  She so stupid.  
 As for the women at the party last night, don't worry, I got a lot of personal attention.  My only problem was trying to remember all the hotties I met and want to see.  Not enough time before I'm "Leavin' Las Vegas."

captain71050 reads

But I post about each and every one! lol

that is super hot, 2 ladies making out. OTC too, a free show in Vegas? Awesome ;)

mind? Geezk...lol I believe I change my mind everyday about something or how boring. And no, I think TER granted me VIP dummy...so shut it. I figured what the hell, might as well get to know a bit of 'whom' I'm playing with on here afterall...it has been a year. Why not take a peak I said? No harm hahahahahahahhahahahahahahha, that was like getting my BC all to myself in a way. Never had a clue about some of you. Now, if only one gent here could give me the inside scoop on himself just a lil (damn no reviews for alias')......then that would've made my day ;)  

But I did read a few of yours CPA hahahahahahah. Interesting. I like your 3some one most ;)

Sorry, no jealousy here. You do know I hate to disappoint being the perfectionist I am. I'm just very curious, don't mistake curiousity with jealousy my love. Jealousy is such an ugly thing.....god. Why do you think all my friends are guys? LMAO

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That was a very hot time with Eve and Audrey...but I had a slightly different 3 some last year that I can't really publish.  Let's just say it was one of the most memorable afternoons I've ever had.  

As well many of the gals I have seen since I stopped with the publications generally prefer to stay UTR.  I'm more than happy to accommodate.  As well those reviews might be a little too racy for our mostly vanilla crowd here  LOL

Oh...and quite often reviews are indeed published under an alias.  They're out there  ;)

Posted By: TaylorSteele
mind? Geezk...lol I believe I change my mind everyday about something or how boring. And no, I think TER granted me VIP dummy...so shut it. I figured what the hell, might as well get to know a bit of 'whom' I'm playing with on here afterall...it has been a year. Why not take a peak I said? No harm hahahahahahahhahahahahahahha, that was like getting my BC all to myself in a way. Never had a clue about some of you. Now, if only one gent here could give me the inside scoop on himself just a lil (damn no reviews for alias')......then that would've made my day ;)  
   
 But I did read a few of yours CPA hahahahahahah. Interesting. I like your 3some one most ;)  
   
 Sorry, no jealousy here. You do know I hate to disappoint being the perfectionist I am. I'm just very curious, don't mistake curiousity with jealousy my love. Jealousy is such an ugly thing.....god. Why do you think all my friends are guys? LMAO

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0603450onThe1030 reads

'other' 3some...sounded hot too.  

Hmmm, really, reviews under alias'....oh well, the VIP is gone as it posted of course when I wasn't active this week and away hahahahaha. Go figure. But I was able to check out a 'few'. Ok, you'll have to give me the inside scoop on alias reviews, I have thus not a clue hahahahahahaha.

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Rihanna. She is stunning in my book. Edgy, hot and gorgeous.........

and the gentleman would be.............;)

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Retired-Guy1075 reads

She had invited the second girl, and she and I hit it off during the session almost immediately.  After than I saw her several more time (while still seeing girl #1), and had my own JGFE.

Believe me I like a realistic experience, but there are some realities that I'm happy to pass on.

and while it can be difficult, mentioning other providers during a session, can lead to this type of behavior.  

Posted By: UncleBill54
Hi guys,  Have any of you had what I'm starting to call my Jealous Girl Friend Experience?  A provider who is acting like your high school girl friend when you even mention another girl. Wondering if it's just me.  

Posted By: hiddenhills
and while it can be difficult, mentioning other providers during a session, can lead to this type of behavior.  
This was in texts and emails between dates, I generally never mention other girls during meetings.
On the other hand this provider went on and on about how this guy we both know has a giant cock and she had to stop seeing him because he was too much, and some other guy who has a penis pump or something like that, while we were in bed the first time. no GFE found, lol

Even when they are not, they often get very jealous of other girls I see.  Several have demanded that I only see them when they are in town.  I just take it as a complement. LOL

MoutainGoat886 reads

Yes, I've had it happen.  The other provider isn't so much "jealous" just upset that you are spending your money on another girl and not her.

Maybe jealous wasn't the right word, but Mad to lose the cash Girlfriend Experience doesn't have as good a ring to it. suggestions?

I've had a few ladies PM me asking why'd you see her and not me? When you point out the other lady was $100 or $200 cheaper and was equally qualified they shut up.

Let's keep in mind that it's business jealousy; they may enjoy your company, but almost certainly wouldn't give you the time of day if there were no fees involved.

Business jealousy is a possible sign that she's not getting enough bookings.  Then you being to wonder why...

Hate to say it but yes. I see 2 girls pretty regular and then when I go to Bkk and see her when I get home gives me "why you go Bkk? You see your girlfriends there?!!!" The other gave me, after not seeing her for a couple of weeks "Oh long time I not see you, you go mexico long time!" She reads my reviews. They are both asian. But its not jealousy of the caring or love of any kind, its all about the money. They know when I'm seeing other girls thats money out of their pocket. LOL!!!

This particular provider is in her 40's and there is no doubt it's about the money, I question if she even likes me half the time. Obviously I won't call her anymore, I was just wondering how common it was.

But I have picked up on a vibe or two over the years.  it's only natural.    
In fairness, I've often been given good leads on other providers from gals I saw

ADJ - If Sammi Sweetheart or J-Woww are providing, do you know their email(s)? Snooki? Not so much.

AnotherDonJohn711 reads

Thought there were rumors on
The ps board.

Not my thang because they're not even celebrities in my book, and nothing special

lookin4fun937191140 reads

she doesn't like sharing her money with other girls.

and give out her contact information for a new provider to use as a reference.   Ms. BSC goes and paints you as a dangerous rip-off perv rapist.  Would you ever know or have a way to defend yourself besides hearing crickets?

At that point, yes. I will be pissed that you're hogging the hotties. But I'm big on sharing ;-p

I understand that some ladies do feel as if they're losing out on that income, but that's the whole point. To get a little strange. We are both allowed, no use being mad at the beauty of it.

TheSkyFell867 reads

Half the problem in these situations is a client with another girl's name in his mouth.

Save yourself some problems and just enjoy the one you're with.

The rest of that competition/jealousy nonsense is garbage though.

I'm thinking of giving up the hobby.

Isn't jealousy and all the rest of these issues what we're trying to avoid?

Sometimes I like to hope that a provider will play out a kind of ultimate fantasy and not charge, but... That's never happened.

I've got a double scheduled, and it might be fun to play out GF (provider I've known awhile) and her best friend who've I'll meet for the first time "cutting in" to the relationship, but that could only last during the prelude and wouldn't be the most erotic fantasy a threesome could dream up.

Does anybody still think in terms of outdoor fun, or furry animal costumes, or marionettes, of cathedral motifs? I never see any threads on these old-fashioned standbys.

What's fun about jealousy? Somebody is or isn't jealous. It doesn't really have anyplace to go from there.

Most of them have either met each other at M&Gs or share screening info as a courtesy.  The gals I know are secure enough not to get all bent out of shape at the mere mention of the competition.  Maybe because there's so much of it, it's just a fact of life.  In fact, they ask questions about what other gals are like.

maybe I will move to where you live, sounds like a great scene, and how it should be

Posted By: inicky46
Most of them have either met each other at M&Gs or share screening info as a courtesy.  The gals I know are secure enough not to get all bent out of shape at the mere mention of the competition.  Maybe because there's so much of it, it's just a fact of life.  In fact, they ask questions about what other gals are like.

tg_baby848 reads

between sharing experiences, or amusing anecdotes, with someone who understands this lifestyle, and outright gossip. I think TheSkyFell is referring more to the latter.

Some guys LIVE to talk about our lives. I'm not joking or exaggerating (much). I've had guys in the past book me and immediately ask me for 'good stories'. Do I know this girl? Oh, well did I know that she _____? What about XXX? Well, she just got married, lives in XXX, and gets all her 10's from YYYY. She's a real ZZZZ.

I'm with some of the other women who say that they have 3 real names, etc. I even have a fake birthplace, a fake town, a fake job (I change the details somewhat) and a fake pet....fake hobbies too. It's not my nature to lie about stuff like that, but I've learned to assume that if you tell a guy something...you might as well just post it on your site. If there's anything that can be used to identify me (i.e. someone reading a description of me in a review might think, 'Wow, that sounds so much like [[insert my name here]]')...a guy will hear the OPPOSITE. That's experience talking, not paranoia, BTW.

There are a few clients (very few) I trust enough not to go through all that BS.

AnotherDonJohn934 reads

Like a set of fake pics on p411 while the competitor had a live ErosNY ad with real pics, and two pages with real  good reviews.

And i still havent heard a good answer for why DD didnt do it through pm or email but through a public post.

Wouldn't we do that if we were being helpful to that OP?

Maybe that story doesn't meet your criteria because the competitor GFE girl was "out of network."  

I'm sure the lady in question is nicer to everyone she knows in nyc.  

Or those not 10 years younger than her.  

I've been pmed that there's a little pot-calling-the-kettle-black about pics from people who've actually seen DD, who aren't over 55 yo old ( why is this important? Because if you're old, everyone looks young.).

But then, there is also referral bias, like who could refer a provider a double or not. Lol.

This pic is directed toward the lady not you, Nicky.

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Nice to the guys, but boy oh boy God forbid you get successful by any means. Because, you know, they seem to own all men they've touched lol! Isn't the whole point of this for the guy to bang as many pretty girls as he wants and not have to worry about a bitchy woman after him (or her) lol. Seriously.  

Had a girl visit a town in the last year and got an email from another provider, telling her that her Eros ad had been up too long in her "territory". Gave her a time limit for her PAIDads lol.

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I think maybe RGFE in this case, whatever I was getting, it wasn't what I had signed up for. So I moved along, no big deal.

Kinda' like shoes and women.  Find a pair that fit really good, look great and get hours and hours of fun out of them.  When they start to wear on you, toss 'em and go try on some more.

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