Would it kill the fantasy?
No, as long as my experience with her is still good
No, as it doesn't harm me personally. What would you do?
Keep seeing her as long as the experience is the same or keeps improving. Q1
This would be silly. It would make what she is doing more important, than how your experience/time together is. For me it doesn't matter. As long as I'm getting what I want from the time together. And she is enjoying herself as well.
One day you decided to Google her and she what she has been up to. You saw some soft, tasteful porn and then you came across some porn that you found nasty. You saw your ATF getting gangbanged by some gross looking guys of all races with tattoos. They were each taking their turns with her, CIP one right after each other w/o anyone showering or cleaning in between. You also saw a glory hole video that was similar. Would this kill the fantasy?
Would you care? What would you do?
1) Quit seeing her because this is too over the top?
2) Act like nothing is different and just keep seeing her as usual?
3) On the other extreme would you ask her if you both got tested and shared results would she be up for something more extreme or maybe even going bareback with you? Would you expect her to do that with you given that you have been seeing her for a while and are "better/more" [looking, professional, hygienic, and/or trustworthy] than the guys in the video?
Would/should it matter if she acted completely differently with you and all of this seemed completely out of character?
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It's like a hotel room, you never want to know who has been in there before you. Keep the fantasy alive.
There Is a high end provider that I am passing on because of that exact same reason.
K-Agencies are excellent at keeping you from seeing who has been before you. They do that for a reason. So, to answer the question, I would quit seeing her.
from the dream.
This would never happen with my ATF. That’s one of the reasons she’s my ATF.
She doesn't do anal or bb and goes to church every Sunday (or Saturday).
and doesn’t do anal (she tried it, doesn’t like it) or BBFS, at least not with clients.
Not sure why you find that so hilarious, though. But some people are easily amused.
I have a feeling that the pros and sugar babes I've been with have seen a dick or two. After that, who's counting?
I like to think of worse case scenarios right off the bat. Many kgirls I see I know do nasty things and so forth. Doesn't bother me.
There is no fantasy for me, and I like to keep it that way. I don't like lying to others, and lying to yourself is even worse as far as bad things go imo. I know exactly who I see and why I see them.
That isn't to say I necessarily get off on a thought of my atfs doing nasty things to other Johns, but I really don't have any issues with it. If I had, I wouldn't see working girls at all.
Finally, porn generally is a lot cleaner and more regulated than hooker industry, at least to my knowledge. Sure, some porn artists work as escorts, but in general, something bad is far less likely to happen on a set than in an outcall. So for porn, I'd have even less of a problem.
Would it kill the fantasy?
No, as long as my experience with her is still good
Would you care?
No, as it doesn't harm me personally.
What would you do?
Keep seeing her as long as the experience is the same or keeps improving.
Q1
This would be silly. It would make what she is doing more important, than how your experience/time together is.
For me it doesn't matter. As long as I'm getting what I want from the time together. And she is enjoying herself as well.
Why would I care? Granted she aint killing or scamming people, what she does outside of my appointment times is none of my business.
If she's fucking a bunch of black or brown guys, does that make it "worse" in your eyes?
Just sayin...
For the record, I never have any urges to Google any woman that I consider a favorite. I might Google a hooker "before" seeing her, but I would find it a bit creepy if she started Googling me AFTER we started fucking, I can only imagine she would feel the same.
Lastly, porn is not "Real" what an actress does on camera says nothing about her as a person, this includes hookers too of course.
“He said guys of all races with tattoos.”
So I guess if it was a bunch of white guys without tattoos it would be ok? 🤷🏻♂️
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in a porno. I have no tattoos.
I mean, everyone is entitled to their likes and dislikes but that comment stuck out. Maybe it's like the line from the Kanye song:
"She said her price would go down if she ever did a black guy" and the OP now expects a discount because she's damaged goods in his eyes.
over the years i have seen 3 or 4 who have done porn .. and in each case only knew one ahead of time. my key hesitation is that nearly all porn is BBFS .. so makes even CFS riskier. other than that - no issues - i think most guys don't really realize or care to realize how many guys a top girl sees. even a girl with only say 20 reviews has likely hooked with over 500 different guys . just thats how this biz works. it is what it is.
actually happened to you or whether its a hypothetical exercise, but this would never happen to me because I could care less about her other customers or how she spends her free time. A girl does not become your ATF (you probably mean "current favorite") off of one meeting, so she is someone you have seen multiple times. As such, she became your favorite based on the time you spent together. Personally, I have no interest in what she does during the time I'm NOT with her, because our relationship is professional, not personal. Would you care if your doctor was into yellow or brown showers when he's not working, as long as he is clean when he sees you at his clinic? What he does on his personal time is no concern of yours, and its no different with your favorite provider. The only exception is your urologist. What YOU do on your personal time may concern HIM. Lol
If your relationship is more than professional, then my answer would be different, but on the facts you stated, this is the way it should be. Mind your own business and enjoy the time she is with you. The rest doesn't matter. Getting into a provider's personal life when you are not dating her on the outside is a little creepy and makes you look like a stalker.
I’ve seen plenty of porn stars, a few being ATF’s where I watch their “work” just before a session with them to get in the mood! A good porn scene and a good session are both just fantasies, so I think they can feed off each other! If I found online videos of an ATF, my cock would be hard in hand while I was fantasizing about my next session with the lady, probably sooner than later! For example, one of my pornstar ATF’s has an amazing scene of the most incredible slow sloppy dtbbbj I’ve ever seen online! I’ve reviewed that scene more than once before a session with her! In fact, I have even talked to her about how much it turns me on. She takes it as a compliment! If the porn doesn’t turn you on turn it off, but don’t quit seeing the lady!
As a matter of fact, one of my current favorites likes to record her sessions with clients, and makes money selling the videos. CFS, of course. I've been the "male talent" myself a couple of times, and they were some of her best selling videos.
Twice for me, some many years ago. I had seen her a lot and she asked before hand. Excited the hell outta me and some of the best with her. I am not identifiable in the video; and well I have a straight cock, but just one in millions in images.
I have an ATF who lives further downstate and have not been able to see cause of COVID.
Several years ago she did porn to supplement her income. First time I saw here I was VERY intimidated, she put me to ease at once, and we try to connect anytime I am close to her location. She just views porn as a job. Period. She even explained to me the process of making a porn movie, does not sound fun or sexy to me. Included in her narrative with the rigorous testing that goes on.
There are things (CIF) she did onscreen that she does not do in the hobby, and good for her! She left the business years ago and has not looked back.
Sooo, I would not let the fact your ATF is shooting porn be intimidating, unless her behavior changes drastically.
Well shit, porn along. See if maybe you can co-star in her next adventure.Embrace it as a good thing. Get that "hidden" freak on....Liberate yourself, you might find that you just may like it, and you'll be maybe mildly surprised.
And as you can guess...it wouldn't matter to me so.....porn along....lol
Wouldn`t bother me in the least, I`d even embrace it. I watch a lot of porn and the good stuff to me is an art form. I`d love to jump in one too. During CV times I also have been watching a lot of YouTube especially the N Korean vids by those two ex NK hotties. (You know who I mean) Love the accents! (Love K-girls! Seeing one tomorrow in CNJ btw)
Recently lots of vids about Fat Boy`s lil sis KYJ who I have dubbed "The wicked witch of NK" Evil as she is and sick as I am, I`d love to see how she looked after she got a complete Hollywood professional makeover?... HOT, that`s how.
To continue my fantasy I want one of the Porn studios in LA to search for a look alike and make a KYJ down and dirty video. Bet the NK regime would love that. Maybe I could get some insight from Holly R on YT or maybe CDL with his K-girl connections? Just a thought.
Good to see this site doin good again, keep it up (No pun)
Has done all the above with the exception of the glory hole as far as I know from watching her vids. I don't know that it makes any difference that she fucked 6 guys in 1 scene or 6 guys in 6 scenes. So what. As long as she doesn't invite any other guys to our meeting I don't really give a shit.
EOM
Probably see more dick in a month than the average doctor or nurse does in a year. They’re still my ATFs.
Who cares? They're not my wife or girlfriend. I assume that every provider I've seen has done some wild stuff that would make my head spin...but again, who cares? The only thing I care about is how she treats me during the time I'm with her. What she does when I'm not there is none of my business. Just like it's none of her business if I see 3 other providers in the same hotel, on the same floor she's staying on, right before I see her...
A lot of guys get infatuated with their ATF's and provider's indulge your 'obsession' with them because you are a steady stream of money. Make no mistake, 99% of them see you as noting more than a walking ATM machine no matter how much they claim to love your company...want to test that? Tell them you lost your job, and would like to get a freebie, or request to put it 'on your tab', and see how much they really like you!
I don't care who she's been with, what race they are, or how old and gross they look naked, ...so long as she's clean and smells as though she practices good hygiene when I see her is all I care about.
....ask if we can make REAL video!!!...collect royalties....
Assume this is professional porn? My impression is that most professional porn requires a clean test to do a scene, etc. I've seen only one porn star, but it was a turn-on to watch her scenes before and after the appointment. I guess I would mention it, "hey, I saw your porn, looked pretty good." I wouldn't expect or want to raw dog with her, since P4P is just a whole different thing.
I figure everyone is bare backing someone. So other than with my wife condoms are a must. Believe it or not none of these ladies are exactly virgins. For that matter very few of us hobbiests are virgins.
... with the guys in the video. It wouldn't bother me at all. I would watch knowing what she tastes like and how it feels to be inside her.
I can say, with experience, some Porn Stars gone Escort may not necessarily like some of the things they did on screen.
There is one ATF I used to see before COVID, swallowed, CIM, CIF in her videos. Does she like those things as a hooker, well not really.
She gives great head, but really does not want to take cum in those ways.
Not trying to correct you, only sharing my own experience.
Seeing my atf doing nasty porn with a bunch of guys?
Sounds really hot to me. I like to know they’re fucking other people. I want a nasty girl. Nasty girls can be super fun and not stuck up.
I’d love to get with Kim XXX, Franchesca Le, or a really nasty pornstar just like I’d be happy to see my ATF in a nasty porno.
I will personally go with the 2 option here