I've been thinking about a date I had a couple of weeks ago. I started to put my finger in her vagina, and she asked that I not do that. I've never, ever encountered that with a "civvie" girl (except with my wife if she was too sore from our intercourse already).  

I would get an infection. Finger nails have bacteria.
"Murphys Law" if I slip and allow it

The guy did not wash his hands before Really scrub those nails and nails can tear if not trim and smooth.

It's a good way to get BV or a UTI, I mean think of all the different places your hands touch during the day.  Some of you don't even bother washing your hands after going to the bathroom.  Also there are those who for whatever reason don't trim their finger nails and think porn star fingering is going to make us orgasm, thus resulting in a very sore vagina.

That makes NO sense !

I should have stated before I wrote that I do allow fingering.  He asked why some providers don't allow it and I gave him the two answers I most commonly hear from other providers.

Thanks for the replies, ladies. Why, though, would "civvies' not have a problem with fingering? No bad experiences, or they don't know about the potential for infection?

Are not the best learning tools for how to engage sexually with a woman.  Unless of course you spring for a pornstar and in that case you get her "A" performance.

Didn't you just post below "Who uses the word turd?"  LOL

Great...now we've narrowed that down some.

sucking the fk out of the head of your d*ck or balls. Sometimes it is too much to take, and I personally HATE being fingered. I like one just rubbed and barely inserted while getting daty, but just a finger alone does nothing for me. It is more annoying than erotic. Also, many guys have no clue how to do it properly. Yes, there is some skill that goes into something as simple as fingering and many lack that skill

It's too bad there are some men out there that don't realize almost everything in porn is done for show, and most of the time the women are faking it LMAO.

I should really keep my immature comments to myself but I just have to wonder why too. My first thought was It seems a bit silly. Then I ponder if its really pleasurable why wouldn't she want to enjoy it? If she is a GFE provider I highly doubt bacteria is a factor. Although nails do contains lots of germs and bacteria if you do not wash thoroughly but is more of a women issue because most men have short nails. I don't mind however it's usually not a finger that gets inserted.

LOL!  Please see your subject line, it's hilarioius! Don't you just love predictive spelling???

Get fingered by 5 different men in the span of 24 hours.

Wake up the next day and tell me how your pussy smells, okay?

You can get UTIS and BV really easily with too much uncovered stuff diddling around in your pussy and that includes fingers.

If the girl said "stop it" no matter what the excuse was: it didn't feel good.

I love being fingered.  There are clients I have to stop.  Why?  It doesn't feel good to the point of actually hurting with the way they do it.  Case closed.

Mainly, by having a guy wash his hands first and/or using an anti-bacterial wash.  Personally, I love girls who enjoy digits.  Fingering her pussy and G-spot while she BBBJs me is sexy as hell and will make me pop.
If he's too rough, just tell him to be gentle.  If he persists, tell him no more.  And check his fingers first for hangnails.

IRL she is a pussycat, very sweet and kind, just like you.

Sorry could not resist that one.

Terrific...I hope neither of you has any of your hooker related contact info there.

It was the term that threw you. Waste of time and too intrusive for my liking.

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So how do you friend someone without using social media?  

Sorry but if you are giving bbbj & DFK it's clearly not a factor. However, what you do as an individual is not my business so its not a statement directed toward you but I rarely date more than 2 men in a day and the one time I did was only because the guy saw me as I was on my way out. I am not about how many clients I can fit in one day.

Then I get it ? Or just manicured ? Those could hurt or scrap.

Again no sense .

Are you serious?  The problems we have brought up are concerning the V A G I N A.  What does BBBJ and DFK have to do with the V A G I N A?  Ok let me tell you a story about am experiment I did in my biology lab.  I had two Petri dishes used to grow bacteria under dark and humid conditions.  One Petri dish I brushed with a Q tip swab from my mouth and the other I merely touched with my fingers.  Can you guess which one grew the most bacteria???

Some women's vaginas are sensitive to external bacteria so fingers can cause infections. Again we're  not discussing the mouth here.

When I am turning them on too much, they always want to F..K me.  
Oh wait, on another thread, that meant I was doing it wrong. LOL

no thanks.

Civvies don't fucking hook...fucking brilliant comment!

Women work during 'that time of the month' sometimes and have to shove things up there to... well... you know... pretend it isn't happening...

Hilarious!

All part of the game.

What do the number of clients have to do with this subject again? If I saw a stats on bacteria in your comparison in BBBJ, DFK, and fingering a vagina I'd understand, but comparing about how many clients one sees in a day? Ummm... Hmmm...

But I guess they would have to use Dad's account to help her out.

Very few know what they  re doing, so now, I avoid at all costs.

I agree.  Her answer is about 50% of the reason and the other 50% is you dopes have no idea what you are doing and how to make it actually feel good.

You try typing with my daggers and see how many mistakes are made Ha Ha He Ho

It was about how fingers affect the vagina.

I'm telling you right now getting fingered by clients (a  lot will walk in the door after touching doors, their car, their desk and try to go straight into playing with us down there) causes disruptions to the vagina i.e. Bacterial Vaginosis.
It messes up the p.H.

She's dumbing it down by saying "if you kiss or do BBBJ you're not worried about your vagina" which is ridiculous.  Giving a BBBJ has never given me B.V.  Kissing has never given me B.V.  Having a client lick my pussy has never given me B.V.  
Being on tour with several different men's fingers inside of me over a few days has given me B.V.
Make more sense?

For your judgements on BBBJ or DFK or what exactly that has to do with my comments about vaginal infections from being touched internally by clients I responded below.

To how many clients you see, I'm sorry but I'm not here to buy what you're selling and I'll leave it at that.  My comments were not intended to be personal or speak specifically to your volume.

No problem, lust, I've made my share of mistakes as a result of predictive spelling on my smart phone and I don't have your excuse!