I feel for some of these women that are getting paid good money to FUCK old, fat, hairy guys....YUCK.  They must bring themselves to happy place while they are fucking.  On the flip-side....Provides must love when a young, wealthy, good looking guys shows up and fucks them.   They must think...I just got paid to fuck someone thats better looking than my boyfriend and there is NO drama afterwards..  Ladies...I want to hear your thoughts on it....Be open and honest about it

Not withstanding the fact that you write fake reviews, use fake credentials and references to see ladies who avoid you like the plague and generally bullshit everyone about who you are and your activities, and now you want honesty?  Oy vey!  OK, I can be flexible.  

I see providers for all the reasons you state, but mostly because I like to fuck beautiful women and as any of those I've seen will tell you,  I'm amazingly good at it and always have been.  Its a gift and a curse.  A job well done feels good too.  As Kanye said the other night, "If I told you otherwise, I'd be lying to both you and myself!"  Fantasy or not, its my truth.

Damn, did I just say all that out loud?

Since, your not all that familiar with simplicity and truth:

... I adore good looking sexy women & I want to be wit them as much as possible

... I like sexy with good looking sexy women as much and whenever I can

... It is really a hobby for me just like hiking or fishing for others. I enjoy.

... Best way to meet good looking sexy women on the planet

... No unnecessary baggage to deal with

... LIFE IS GOOD

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I'm very shy around women and this hobby solved this problem.  

I've always thought that only assholes get the girls and nice guys like me never get laid.

This hobby fits me perfectly because providers want a nice hobbyist.

I got tired of begging my wife for sex. I got sick of me having to initiate it all the time and get humiliating turn-downs. Then I decided to "outsource" sex and while at it, live out my porn fantasy.

... Or that's what I tell myself to go to sleep at night.

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1) I have no other way of meeting Women. I've tried all the Traditional Routes like, through Friends, Social Gatherings, even Women in Class when I was going to College. Nothing Worked.

2) Less Hassle meeting Providers as opposed to a Regular Girlfriend. The Relationship stays New and Exciting as opposed to having a Steady Girlfriend. I can call my Provider most anytime and she can see me almost on a moment's notice. I'm not Married so I can see her almost anytime of Day.  

3) No Emotional Problems. Although it's getting tough not falling for my Provider. She's a Sweetheart and is so Adorable.  

4) It's a lot of Fun

so your a 32 year old guy who never had a relationship and all

Women are "drama" and you believe your living a fulfilled life by buying an "act" ? 5 letters spell a word the describes u and the 1s letter is L the last one is R , fill in the others and paste the 1st one on your forehead !  

I am like you, in this case

I was married before, it was an amicable split but ever since the divorce I have not dated. I'm just simply not willing to play the stupid game anymore. I don't find the thrill of the chase remotely enticing and to be perfectly honest I'm not at all interested in the kind of women that I could attract. So, from your post you say you're not interested in the drama, thus you hobby, well me too. Money I have, youth, good looks, patience and desire to listen to the bullshit, not so much. I get what I want, when I want and with really hot women, most of whom make me feel like a friend if only for a few hours at a time and I'm perfectly fine with that arrangement. One of the fortunate .aspects is, that I know exactly what a provider's motives are. Most every provider I've been with are interesting in their own way and so that quenches the only other thirst I'd have with a mate. It's perfect for me, and I'll be the first to admit that I'm not the normal, but I am me.

I'll say too that role playing and living out fantasies are easier with providers, they seem a lot more comfortable playing the part or accepting of the fantasy than women I've dated, perhaps because they experience it with many different men and realize that it's an escape from who we are and it doesn't define us.

I didn't start the hobby until I was divorced, my own integrity is to not cheat on a woman I'm comitted to (I do not impose my integrity on others though). I don't ever intend to date civies again though, there doesn't seem to be a good reason to do so.

You're an adolescent who is afraid of girls, so you live out your fantasies here.  Yep, that's my theory.

As I've mentioned before, I divorced at the beginning of this year after 36 years of marriage and 45 years of being together. I don't want any emotions, and I don't want pain.

While we were separated from 1971 to 1973, I saw a few young ladies, and most all of them were bats**t crazy. One of them I swear was the inspiration for Springsteen's "I Came For You." Another assumed a whole new identity every time she switched majors in college. When she was in the drama school, she dressed nice and looked great. When she got into psychology, she started wearing sack dresses and looking like a refugee. Another had a voluptuous body with big tomatoes, and dressed to highlight everything, but wouldn't let me (or any guy) touch her; she was just plain cruel. I couldn't take it, and got back together with my now-ex.

I'm told I'm still a good-looking guy. I'm not fat or gross in any way. I do well socially. I just want to be with what I've been missing for 40 years: hot young women who want to have great sex. That's all I want. When and if I tire of the 21+ girls, I'll move up to the 30+. For now, though, it's just fun to relive part of my past.  

My counselor is giving me a hard time, saying I shouldn't be spending the money, and should look for a woman closer to my age. I figure that the cost of going out would come close to what I spend on providers, and I wouldn't be getting what I need now

You comee across as one of those egomaniacs who views himself as the guy any woman should be willing to pay for the priviledge of basking in his glory.  Wow, I can only imagine the kind of harem you attract with that approach.

For me it's much simpler. I enjoy the sexual company of a beautiful woman when I travel and I hate the bar scene. When I'm home I have no problem getting all kind of dates with all kinds of women, but if I'm in 4 cities in 5 days I want to cut tbrough the hunting and posturing stages.

Plus the women I meet here are usually more interesting and much more skilled.  And though I'm not in my 30s, or a Sean Connery double, I treat them with respect and kindness and probablyy get much beter milage than the self absorbed pretty boys do.

I have great sex at home, and rarely come into a date 'horny as hell' or whatever other qualifier one in this hobby might use.  Sex is a nice part of the evening, but to be honest, spending time with an attractive, intelligent, funny and fun companion is way better than watching reruns of Modern Family followed by SportsCenter or the Daily Show or even worse hanging out at the hotel bar watching a local college football game.  

Sure I could catch a show and enjoy dinner at a great restaurant by myself, but why not add a dose of sugar and spice and everything nice.  And if she ends up being more spice than sugar and nice, I won't complain

The biggest failure that guys seem to have is they think if they are in great shape and handsome.... we just love them. Really it is all about personality. If a guy is handsome/fit but a dick.... you can't make up for it. The regular guys who have a nice personality makes it much farther. If we were looking for a boyfriend, we would. Nothing worse than an asshole, no matter who you are or how much money you have. Money doesn't get you everything you want

Why guys do this?

Most common answers: wife won't give it up and he just wants sex. A guy is too shy or too busy to get it. Just wants sex and not have to work for it in hopes she may put out. Some are just too big of jerks to get laid or too yuck to get laid. Guys just don't want drama.