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Q for hobbyists : is CBJ a deal breaker ?
HumbleHobbyist 1171 reads
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it is for me. What say you ?

Some can do a CBJ as almost as good as a BBBJ. Plus there is peace of mind in the reduced STD risk. I prefer a BBBJ but a CBJ is not a deal breaker. No BJ is as I love BJs.

I much prefer a BBBJ over a CBJ.  Half the providers I have seen insist on  CBJ and the other half is happy to accomodate me with a BBBJ.  And then, of course, there is that rare provider in the BBBJ group that will actually allow CIM and a swallow.  These are the ladies I like the best.  Is it a deal breaker?  Not really although if I had a choice I'd always opt for the BBBJ.

CIM isn't a necessity for me but BBBJ is.

Having a session without BBBJ is like having a great meal without the first courses. Still delicious but missing something important.

I won't bother visiting a reviewed provider who doesn't offer bbbj and cum in mouth: swallows. If I visit an unreviewed one who only offers CBJ's, I'll pass on the fellatio and stick to licking her. Daty can be worth the admission price, but I really dislike the shaving trend and most are these days. The only way I'd visit a CBJ provider is if she's really good looking and has a lush bush.

If I were given two options with two ladies with different options, cbj or bbbj, it's always bbbj.  Unless she is a phenomenal, once-in-a-lifetime gal, then I would go cbj.

when it happens I'm not going to have a fit. I had a lady use two on me and it was a pretty amazing BJ. I can't imagine how long I might have lasted if it was BB.

Of course I prefer BBBJ , but it is not the most important factor.  Attidude..sensuality...mutural enjoyment are what brings me back.  I do pretty much avoid ladies that do not at least LFK...

and have magnificent ta-tas where one can finish a la russe quite nicely. (a happy flashback, that.)

if you do careful research you can find CBJ specialists. whther you rule someone out because of an acronym is up to you. i enjoy research, though. it appeals to my analytical tendencies and my love of porn. ;-) win-win. ;-)

numbnuts11127 reads

I've been spoiled by all those BBBJ givers. How does anyone pay $300+ for service that includes CBJ?

Posted By: numbnuts11
I've been spoiled by all those BBBJ givers. How does anyone pay $300+ for service that includes CBJ?
You wouldn't say that if you spent some time with Wendy http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=131464, but in general terms I would agree. There are exceptions to every rule.

I've even seen providers who do no BJ at all because of other great attributes of theirs.

Some who do CBJ did it so well that I never even knew it was covered until I was done.

...as I endured too many years without it during my marriage. BJs are an integral part of the experience for me and I want to experience it to the fullest. If she's great at giving a BJ, it will be even that much better if I can fully experience it. In fact, if she's great at the oral arts, I love to have the first cup in that manner (CIM is the "icing on the cake"), rest and chat a bit, then have her get me back into action that way for the full course, round two.

Of course, that's predicated on doing the research and finding a suitable lady -- then the planets have to align for her to enjoy what she does and me to enjoy it. So far, so good ;)

Thankfully very few providers are CBJ in my neck of the woods.

but if she charges the same rate as someone in the same area that does BBBJ, I would less likely go with a girl that does CBJ.  I've had some girls that have done awesome CBJ though.

HalfHour147 reads

gotta be bare & gotta be cim

It is for mr, but I know BEFORE I walk into the room and so it has never been a problem.

If you do your research, you can't go wrong.

other area and have a skill set that is exceptional to even be considered if she didn't offer BBBJ.

6lover9111 reads

Not an automatic deal breaker, but pretty close.

Posted By: HumbleHobbyist
it is for me. What say you ?
I know CBJ has its defenders--but it is a no-go for me.  Frankly, I've never gotten along with party hats all that well, so BBBJ is kind of a needed pre-requisite for him to stay awake when wrapping up for CFS.  CIM not required, always appreciated.

prefer bbbj, but if the provider is hot, reviews are good it wouldn't be a deal breaker- I would say in order of importance multiple cups (only 1 cup is deal breaker), dfk, bbbj, and daty- there is a group of hot NJ girls (Dream Team) they don't post here- but they are no dfk and cbj - although rates are resonable and very hot bodies- however to date I've resisted b/c no dfk plus cbj

Don't like to have my dick sucked with a sock on it. ;)

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