I know. I have a killer sense of sympathy, don't I?

Besides he knows I'm fucking with him, lol!

but in this case he certainly deserves it. Pain killers and all.

I hate it when I have to agree with the likes of BJ. Scoed, sober the fuck up and quit posting fucking nonsense that the rest of us could care less about.

I don't think she is in love with my but loves me as a friend.

A few weeks ago I got sick and had to rescheduled because I was sick.  She went out of her way and dropped off homemade soup. Then she always cooks for me every time I book her.

Today, she heard that I have a kidney stone and came by and checked up on me and brought lunch for my kids and me. I never asked any of this of her. She is a good friend.

Well, I just thought that while I was thinking about it, I would say that you to the real friends I have made in the hobby. The ladies are great. I have found real friends like my ATF and MP. I am indeed thankful for all they do for me.

scoed.

P.S. If this post makes no sense it is likely because I am a bit loopy on pain killers.

Wait till that fucker comes shootin' out your dick!

From personal experience, rules I made last year are no longer rules I personally like.

Same may be with your wife.  Have you asked her?

But, c'mon, scoed: Are you really that hard up for friends that you have to announce every new one?

Or are you bragging?  In which case, what are you bragging about?  Does it have anything to do with her job?  And if so, why?

Does her willingness to make you soup help make her your ATF?  

What happened to the deal you had with your wife to not get too chummy with other escorts?  Sounds like you are pals with this girl, see her regularly, and enjoy the sex.  Your wife doesn't find that threatening?  If not, why not?  

I am not trying to rag on you or anything.  I'm really curious.  Seriously.  Some of you guys out there sort of puzzle me, and you're one of them.

Drunken asian probably made a valid point about my sobriety, BashfulJohn was just a douche as usual.

I doubt that either of us is going to lose any sleep over what anyone else thinks about us, kidney stones are a bitch, I hope our posts distracted you from the pain.

As for your post, yeah it was lame, but you had pain killers as an excuse, there are others that can't make that claim. lol

I just don't get it. How would she feel if YOU told her how many times she could see a guy or what she could or couldn't do with them?

She seems to be taking advantage of your HUGE submissive side.

Do you ever stand up for yourself with her?

I mean DAMN!

I've read his post here for some time and it seems like he gets a raw deal. He's told what he can and can't do with working ladies by his  wife in the biz. Wonder how she would feel if HE put those rules on HER doesn't mean I'm raggin on him, lunatic.

And the only one using the "whore" word is YOU. But hey you do that when you're drunk, angry and outta control.

I don't think he's stupid or dumb. Again NEVER said that. Any man that is dominated that much by a women's rules is being submissive. Saying he should stand up for himself ain't raggin on him.

My post had nothing to do with him being a nice person or not. I've aways thought he was a nice person!

"Shit smelling face"-LMAO! Personally I've never had shit on my face, but wipe the egg off yours and scamble it up for breakfast.

When I posted it I was under a lot of pain and under the influence of pain killers. I was just trying to be positive about anything at the time. That was why I posted it. A little hard thing half the size of a small pebble was kicking my rear and I was trying to be positive.

I have know clue why she chose to make me soup, as I have only seen her on a paid basis, a total of three at the time she made the soup, four when she brought lunch over six months I known her. I am not her most loyal customer. I think she likes me as a person. We have not even kissed so I doubt it is more than that. It has nothing to do with her job, but yes the food is why she is my ATF.

That rate I have booked her is the maximum amount of times I am allowed but still with in agreed terms. I am allowed a platonic non-paid time as long as my wife has met them and my wife has met her more then once. My wife was a participant in one of the sessions. I am allowed escort friends. I did not make the rules, I just follow them.

Yes I consider her a friend, but nothing more. As to why my wife is not threatened by the escorts I make friends with, I have no clue. There has been many times I wished she would stop me from playing at all. It scares me sometimes. I think she gets off of my sexual exploits with other ladies as we often reenact my sessions when she gets home from working.

To be honest I don't think my wife knows how often she has cooked for me or how often we talk over the phone as she calls me up almost every week. I think she might be if I told her everything, but I don't.

Now you know the real reason I don't like to drink, I always make an ass of myself. Now I am not high on pain killers, I do regret this thread. Feel free to rag on this post, as I deserve it.

Having read many of your posts, my observation on this post is your last line

"To be honest I don't think my wife knows how often she has cooked for me or how often we talk over the phone as she calls me up almost every week. I think she might be if I told her everything, but I don't."

I would think given the type of relationship you and the Mrs. have this could blow up at some point.  Most of us here have to keep this a secret...but you have openly discussed that you don't...but now you do??

I guess it is time to let my wife know and let her decide. I have not lied or broke a rule of hers or mine, but I have not volunteered the fact that I am forming anther friendship with a escort I have seen. The last time that happened we ended up going captain-save-a-ho. I will let my wife know what is up. It is only fair.

Did that once and it hurt like a sonofabitch! Drove myself to the emergency room puking out the car window from the pain. Hurts just thinking about it.  Thanks for the memories, scoed!

So yes I have asked her. This life style was her idea, I will gladly go back to the way things were before the hobby entered my life. I don't even require she gives up her play. I swore a vow never to cheat on her and as long as I am married to her I never will. She knows this.

I betrayed her once in different way, never again. She controls my hobbying and always will.

Seems like he has a relationship that's working for him, whether you approve of it or not.

Scoed has a huge, receptive soul. He might be stupid at times, but he's not dumb.

Bet the mother-fucker makes more money than you do! Ask him what he does for his employees, and for a former provider, now employee, whose child he and his 'whore' wife take care of while she gets her shit together.

If you knew what I knew, you'd shut your shit-smelling face and understand what he does and why.

Fucker has more class and compassion than you or I will ever know, that's for goddam sure!

Fucking asshole!

Plus my wife has rules she must follow as well. With the rules set up by my wife I still hobby as much or more then many of the guys here who have to sneak and lie to do so. She does not limit my menu other then insisting anal and vaginal sex be covered. I limit my menu. I am allowed to DFK, I chose not to. I am allowed anal but choose not to.

You don't know why I allow what I do as there is a lot of the story I have not shared in its wholeness.

Why do you care about how I hobby or about my marriage, anyway? I could care less about why you do what you do. Hell, I don't even know your sex as you hide behind your alias. Thats OK, ether way I don't care.

scoed knows where I'm coming from and who my allegience is to. If he has a problem with me and the way I go about things I'll listen to HIM, and not some alias pussy!

Actually, eggs sound like a hell of an idea. I'll take mine fried, like my brain. Betcha like your's over easy like your gay lover.  

Aliases are here.  The more you whine about them, the more that they'll pick on you.  Simply put, they aren't the problem.

Oh, and to all you guys pissing & moaning about Hirogen, do you realize that he's not posting?  Talk about a bunch of pussies.  You're carrying on about a ghost.  I'm home for a weekend and it's like returning to kindergarten.  Wow.

Totally abuse the system. But then again so did I, or I wouldn't be where I am.

I'm just glad I have the fortitude and self respect to say what I think without hiding behind one.