I want to do my first menage et trois with a couple of providers but I need some good advice. First, I don't DATY providers but can't think of what else the provider that I'm not boning can do while her friend has Mr. Happy inside of her. Also, should I assume bi action will take place? Will they be up for alternating CG on me without having to change rubbers? My ultimate is to have the two of them DFK each other while giving me BBBJ...is that too much to ask generally? Any other hobbyists been down this road and willing to relate the experience?

You're dissecting this 3way thing too much. The idea is to have a licentiously good time.

" listen to me & take my advice. Just pull down your pants and slide on the ice"
             (Dr."Sigmund" from TV's M*A*S*H)

  Cm.

-- Modified on 9/18/2005 2:53:06 PM

As with most things in the hobby, honesty and discussion with the people involved is a real good idea. With that in mind, I have heard others suggest the following:

a. Pick a favorite provider that has openly expressed her bi-sexuality.

b. Express your desires to her, what you'd like/not like etc. This also allows her to suggest solutions to your delimna of "what do I do now!" (her suggestion may involve toys, btw).

c. Ask her to "pick" a friend.

Others have said it is important for the client to have been with both providers - separately. This allows you to see if you click or grate on each other.

As an aside, there was a post on a regional board asking who would be the best doubles partners. The primary answer was "xxxx and whoever she wants to bring".

remember this is how fluids are tranfered!!!!!!!! NO double dipping please! Rubbers should ALWAYS be changed, no matter what. Both ladies don't know where each other has been. Have some respect for other's, and remember to change the rubber!

Nobody changes tongues before swapping spit with multiple partners. I guess I can disrespect a woman's face, but her pussy...GAWD NO!!!!!

QUOTE:"First, I don't DATY providers but can't think of what else the provider that I'm not boning can do while her friend has Mr. Happy inside of her."

Ummmm...yeah, there is a lot more two women can do to each other than just DATY...kissing caressing, touching, breats, nipples, sucking, fingers, feet, frottage, tongues, toys, toes...the possibilities are virtually endless. *big grin as my mind visits this for a bit*.......OK, I'm back
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QUOTE"Also, should I assume bi action will take place?"

Well, if the ladies you are with are "bi" I would assume it could happen. *smirk*
Best advice for that is find a "bi" lady you like and have her invite a friend she likes to be with. (you may want to meet with the friend seperately first to make sure you two "click" as well)
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QUOTE:"Will they be up for alternating CG on me without having to change rubbers?"

If you want this, I might suggest buying some female condoms and having each lady have one in, so they can "switch" without the health concerns that would be involved in your idea.
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QUOTE:"My ultimate is to have the two of them DFK each other while giving me BBBJ...is that too much to ask generally?"

I thought this was pretty much a standard, one on each side working their tongues on the head and shaft, and kissing above, below and around the member, having their tongues do a bit of tango with each other's while at the same time having said tongues on you...but I could be wrong.

"If you want this, I might suggest buying some female condoms and having each lady have one in, so they can "switch" without the health concerns that would be involved in your idea."


He is right. Get some female condoms or make sure that either providers  provides it, if you have "double dipping" in mind. Do not expect the provider to go along with "double dipping" without a female condom.



-- Modified on 9/19/2005 1:09:37 AM

done that, many times. We had FCs on and the guy was doing us, doggie, no condoms for him...FCs are great for 3somes.

Should I keep the female condoms on hand or just let them bring some? Sounds like a handy thing to have anyway. Are there different sizes or types? Best brand? I can see the clerks face now: "Uh, can I have a copy of GQ, a pack of Altoids and those extra-lubricated, lambskin Coochie Shields ya got there? And five dollars on pump 7 please... "

Believe it or not, there are men who want two girls, but don't necessarily want to watch the two girls be together.  If you expect bi-action, you need to tell the provider that up-front.  As has been stated many times here, find a girl who has another lady she works with.  I personally have a girlfriend that I'm pictured with on my web-site.  We are openly bi.  However, I also have another provider that I work with that does not allow any girl-girl interaction.  I am often asked to show up for a 3 some with another provider which the gent has selected.  These are appointments which I politely refuse.  Why?  Because I don't know the other provider and I'm simply not comfortable in that situation.  You will have a much better time (and so will the ladies) if the ladies in question are comfortable with each other.

-- Modified on 9/18/2005 8:19:22 PM

Everything you ever wanted to know about female condoms:
http://www.femalehealth.com/theproduct.html

and you can get them here:
http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=71319&catid=21300&aid=336161&aparam=xsp193668

Is not lambskin or latex, is made of poly material and is pretty wide and long, fits all lenghts & girths.
If you want to buy and bring it to your sessions, FC is sold either at the regular condoms or feminine needs isles in the Rite Aid pharmacies. You can buy them online too.
Not every provider out there knows how to use it (or want to) so I think is better if you ask them BEFORE you book your dream session.

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A lot depends on if you buy them as a tandem (work together all the time) or a random (never met).  

A lot of ladies just simulate being bi for business reasons, of course.  If you have a random, it's crucial that they both bi.    
If you bring them together for a random, and one is bi and the other isn't, that could ruin the whole thing.

If they are both bi, though, it will be just as thrilling for them as it is for you.  

If you go for the tandem choose partners, or ask one lady who she has worked with.  

Otherwise, choose partnerships.  Tandems will offer specials.  

What about a giant anti-bacterial filled bathtub?

Oh Mary, you are hot in those pics with the lady in the red dress.  Can't wait until my next visit to Vegas.