first time in 2 months, i realize how grateful i am to be a provider and to be in the industry where you can cut out all the bullshit and just have fun with cute older gents without playing games of trying to impress each other...

Like you said, after spending time even with great gents with awesome wine and convo, drunk dudes at the bar- Booo

But who am I to complain?   Life's been good to me so far...    

at the supermarket, etc...  That pays off.

Although much more difficult to have sex that night
(depending on standards of course)

The senior social sites such as POF and Senior People are just stuffed with lonely women.    As many dates as you want.     You can't get the beauty, youth, and sex you get from a provider.  Hobby on.......

who approach me ALL the damn time, thinking I will believe that they're going to make my dreams come true HA HA HA, (I make my dreams come true,) are just like my ex boyfriend from a couple years ago.

Sending me drinks , interrupting my privacy with sappy pick up lines , rubbing against me , trying to slip something into my drink.....whispering in my ear all the stuff they wanna do to me....
Well , then I usually wake up and realize I've overslept again.

I have always enjoyed the chase. The flirting, the winks, the thrust and parry. A lot of times it ends in no penetration or I go home totally defeated. There are also the surprise conquests, the one you never saw coming or cumming. Met a lot of fun ladies in bars.

That said, I'm on a site called Meetup.com, and I'm signed up with a lot of different groups (singles, foodies, dog owners, Humanists of Minnesota, Minnesota Atheists, just to name a few).  So I usually have something going on with one of those groups, and don't need to go to a bar by myself.  Funny thing is, though, one night a meetup got cancelled, so I decided to just have a burger and a beer at a bar I'd been interested in trying.  Lo and behold, a real stunner walked up to me and made it really clear that she wanted to go home with me.  What wasn't funny is that she was drunk as a skunk, so I hung out with her for hours, just trying to get her phone number, and she got mad that I didn't want to take advantage of her and ditched me.  It's a good thing I got to see my ATF the next week.

I have noticed that when bars the harder I try, the less successful I am. I haven't gone to a bar in an attempt to "pick up chicks" in decades. I go to bars to drink and socialize, not to hit on women. That said, it's amazing how many women will warm up to a guy who is not "on the make". Even in my twenties I hated those cheezy pick up lines used by guys trolling the bars.

I can talk to women anywhere, but as soon as you look like you're "hitting" on a gal, her shields go up and your conversation is over. Doesn't matter where you are.

Us cute older gents appreciate you!

If you strike up a conversation with a younger woman and you don't come off as "creeper" one of two things usually happens (with me at least) Either she is into older men and you have a chance, or if she is not into older and let me repeat "if you don't come across as a creeper" she will have her guard down as you are just that "nice old guy" talking to her, but not hitting on her.

I'm a happy hour guy, last night out much later
I agree with you, I'd rather know than not, who I'm bedding or if I'm bedding
Makes my life lots simpler

More often than most would believe, I've scored with a PYT when a pompous, arrogant, malcontent, sitting nearby at the bar was using rich guy lines, flailing away with nonsensical words, attempting to persuade Miss Pretty to go home with him, while she simply stared in space, while Mr. dumb ass kept rambling on.  
   
  I have no problem stopping a moron in his tracks when rescuing a damsel in distress.  
 
   A line I've used with much success, "Excuse me Miss, while Daddy Dollars next to you spouting off about his net worth, is most  likely a waste of your time, if you would be  inclined to take me home I guarantee a night with me will be one of the best times..................{long pause} ....of my life. I might not be rich but I can afford to buy your dinner. Would you care to move away from the buffoon groveling at  you and sit at a table with me "?
   
   When  Daddy Dollars mutters a word in protest I'll give him the best  Khal Drogo stare I can muster and tell him to go count his money.  
  More often than not she'll accept my invite and thank me for the rescue while the guy flaunting his dollars goes home alone, as usual.
   Nine times out of ten a young civilian is turned off when a guy she just met talks about his money, car or home.
   
    An older cougar or a two time divorced woman is a completely different story, but they aren't in my budget.  
   

you are right girls...i am learning to say no to people now as well...before i was too concerned about hurting feelings

love the game of thrones

Posted By: quadseasonal

 More often than most would believe, I've scored with a PYT when a pompous, arrogant, malcontent, sitting nearby at the bar was using rich guy lines, flailing away with nonsensical words, attempting to persuade Miss Pretty to go home with him, while she simply stared in space, while Mr. dumb ass kept rambling on.  
     
   I have no problem stopping a moron in his tracks when rescuing a damsel in distress.  
   
    A line I've used with much success, "Excuse me Miss, while Daddy Dollars next to you spouting off about his net worth, is most  likely a waste of your time, if you would be  inclined to take me home I guarantee a night with me will be one of the best times..................{long pause} ....of my life. I might not be rich but I can afford to buy your dinner. Would you care to move away from the buffoon groveling at  you and sit at a table with me "?  
     
    When  Daddy Dollars mutters a word in protest I'll give him the best  Khal Drogo stare I can muster and tell him to go count his money.  
   More often than not she'll accept my invite and thank me for the rescue while the guy flaunting his dollars goes home alone, as usual.  
    Nine times out of ten a young civilian is turned off when a guy she just met talks about his money, car or home.  
     
     An older cougar or a two time divorced woman is a completely different story, but they aren't in my budget.  
     
   
     
   

Posted By: Courtney.Ova

who approach me ALL the damn time, thinking I will believe that they're going to make my dreams come true HA HA HA, (I make my dreams come true,) are just like my ex boyfriend from a couple years ago.  
     
  I was escorting, so we were allowed to fuck outside of our relationship obviously. But he got SO many young chicks. I kept asking him "how in the hell do you do that?" They were HOT. Granted, he didn't tell me who he fucked, I just knew when they'd get within a certain vicinity of each other.  
     
  DUH. I couldn't put my finger on it, but he would brag about his elite status and all of his business connections to young female wait staff and women at bars, offer them the opportunity to have an internship, etc etc. lol.  
     
  When we first met, I threw out a number at him to tell him "I don't need you." I wasn't interested. Then he threw a number back at me, you know, the 6 figure income. (Which also could be 100 grand).  
     
  I remember thinking, "Oh. He wants to get laid. That's why he's talking about his income." So he gave me his phone number and business card lol, and I knew I had a number stored for an easy lay. Unfortunately i did fall for the guy, but he was EXPENSIVE to date!  
     
  His throwing out his income, and talking about his expensive - blah blah blah - I know you're trying to get laid dude. But the bullshit that I hate at bars, is them bragging about their properties, their riches, their elite job, their travel, and then BAM. They want to go dutch. LOL.  
     
  Nowadays, no fucking way. No way would I go dutch ever ever ever again. Not if I'm going to fuck 'em. Nowadays, to me bullshit is this: If you don't give me a stack of hundreds, pay for my dinner and drinks, you're full of shit.  
     
  These guys in bars, on airplanes, etc etc will all come at you like horny stray cats after a young female kitten in heat, and you have to weed through all the bullshit. Throw natural attraction in there, and the desire to be with someone, only to find out you're hooked, and they know it, and then ask to go dutch - or even for you to pay for their trip to Hawaii - I'd rather just screen guys here, take their money, and feel the love that way.  
     
  These bar guys - BYE BITCHES. LOL.  
     
  Oh! Also, the other day I had another one coming at me offering me to stay in his "5 bedroom house". (Wondering if he's on TER. LOL.) I was like "bitch, I lived a 5 bedroom houses. I'm not cleaning that bitch for you. What are you trying to say?"    
     
  LOL. He kept pursuing me, this old dude, and touching me. I finally looked at him, said "no thanks" to his drink offer, and while he was talking turned my back on him while flipping my hair. I've never been confident enough to do that. And I didn't care that his feelings were hurt. I said 'NO' and he disregarded my 'NO'.  
     
  Anyway, thanks for letting me rant.

Well immediately after springing for our trip to Hawaii that is

i recently took a provider to dinner (paying her dinner rates plus fun time rates) and had a fantastic sexy time (including in the parking garage before the meal, that's another story).

I rarely split dinner checks with anyone, much less women I just had sex with. Either I buy or she buys, most of the time of course I buy, but I do have several "hooker buddies" who insist on picking up the tab at least their share of the time. I sometimes have to fight them for the privilege of picking up the check.

At my age I laugh at guys who come up to "chat". They want one of two things ... To start a boring conversation that doesn't interest me on any level or 2. to think they have a chance at taking me home and fucking me that evening...pro bono lol. Ha. That always makes me giggle and those guys sure are fun to toy with on occasion lol.  

Until I learned they'll have no problem hurting mine. And taking everything from me.

because at "My age" I don't "come up" to women to chat. If someone is sitting next to me I often strike up a conversation, it only takes a few seconds to figure out if that person (male or female) wants to continue said conversation.

If I set my intention to hook up, it never happens. I'm good-looking and youngish, but I'm not a pick up artist. That bores me. However, I LOVE connecting with people. I've had the greatest conversations and nights out with random people at bars, talking about this and that and everything. In that context, I occasionally hook up, and when I do it's amazing; two people connecting; happy in the morning, laughing and drinking coffee. There's nothing like it.

I joined a 'sugar daddy' website recently to try it. What I quickly realized is, I can afford the sugar daddy part but cannot play the role. Social power is not a concern to me, and it's definitely not a turn out. I'm not judging sugar daddies, I'm just saying that it's not my thing, and there's TONS of guys like me out there.

But I'm fully capable of comprehending the post presence in its entirety lol. Maybe you have time to read the nonsense on this board in its full novel completeness...not I.  

You're pressed for time time these days? Seriously?

well gaga i just thought that it was implied that when i purchase a dinner package from a provider, that i am springing for the dinner.  just as if i take her on a weekend getaway up the coast, i'm springing for the hotel and meals.

It's nice to hit the bar scene and talk to women with no intent on trying to pick them up. I know the hobby is there when I want it.