Suppose you were hankering for a little action and checked your friendly TER boards and discovered a new girl was coming to your town.  You check out her web page and you really like what you see.  She is gorgeous.  You check for reviews and find she has 8 to 10 reviews by guys who are experienced and the reviews are all stellar.  So you book a session and she rocks your world.  You're thinking you hit the literal jack pot.  After your session you're having a little snuggle time with her and chatting.  She tells you she will be coming back through in a couple of months and wants to know if you want to see her again.  You tell her for sure, because hey, she rocked your world and her honorarium was totally reasonable for the service quality provided.  Her body is awesome and she smells great too.  And she did a few things for you that you hadn't had before and damn were they great.  You're just about out of time and you ask her casually how long she has been providing.  She says about 2 years.  And then unsolicited, she mentions she really loves the work because she is a nympho and figures in the 2 years she has been providing she has seen somewhere between 600 and 700 guys.  Does the number of clients freak you out and change your mind about seeing her again or do you think, who cares, she's awesome and you want to see her as much as you can?

Because the experience started to be a bit mechanical after seeing them several times.  That could have been my fault, as the ladies continue to receive good reviews.  That does not appear to be the case with your lady and experience, so move past thinking about it and enjoy!

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If you're concerned about a provider seeing a lot of clients then you probably shouldn't be seeing providers...

were lined up outside the door when you got there, why care?  Even if the line was there as you were leaving, you still shouldn't care.  As long as I am the only guy in the room during the time I booked, she's clean, fresh and energetic for me, it doesn't matter what she does with the rest of her time.  Its basically none of my business and I give it no thought whatsoever.  I see girls that have seen over 1000 unique individuals PER YEAR.  It doesn't affect the service at all, and in many cases, the service is BETTER with higher volume girls because they get more experience.  

Wouldn't bother me at all !   All you have to do is "The Math" !

Oh come on Muffy, you are being ridiculous, and quite frankly coming from a guy who sees K-girls, do you REALLY want to know their numbers?

The numbers don't matter, but I don't like girls that insist on talking about it. It's like anyone I meet in RL. If all they have going is bragging or complaining about their job, I want to get out of that conversation asap.

If she slept with 730 people over a span of two years, that means she saw one client a day each day. If her "honorarium" is "reasonable", she isn't making much money. I would think she would want to see more than one client in a day.

Not making much money? My calculator seems to come out with these numbers.

The way I would understand what she said is that she saw _600-700 different guys, not that she had had 600-700 sessions over her two years in the business.

You assume there is no cost to this business. Wardrobe, travel expense, additional health and beauty care, advertising, photo shoots, it all adds up. There is no paid vacation (my personal vacation, not the one I take with you) no disability or sick days. I'm sure I missed something. Ladies?

It is not something I want to hear or care to discuss. Logically I already have a gist of how many people another could have slept with (guys or girls). I don't even think about it because it's not anyone's business and IMO a mood killer.

Only if I was marrying her....

it would still be hypocritical for me to be concerned about her "number" considering that my "number" in the "several thousand" range.

They were talking about her time in the business, so there was some context.

at rocking your world, and doing all those great things she did to you? Practice, practice, practice!

I think a dose of reality can help each of us get through the day. There's a provider here in LA who's closing in on 1000. And according to her reviews she's still got game. As long as she maintains her health and can still bring it, I'm not likely to be deterred. However, as with all questions that solicit an opinion, de gustibus non est disputandum.

any guesses as to how many dicks those girls have had in their lives???

If you're a hobbyist who wants a provider that doesn't see many men, why not just see a 1k and hour provider? Those rates mean she's probably not seeing 1 guy a day. More like 1 a week if that.  

The most that I ever paid to see a girl was $500 and many of the ladies that I saw for $300 were better.  I saw no difference between the ladies and I suspect that there is no difference between $500 and $1,000 if you pick the right lady.  Plenty of fish in the see and plenty of quality ladies at the $300 price point.  Occasionally, though I still venture into the $500 land, but nothing more.    

If you are marrying a modern girl in her late 20's she's probably racked up similar numbers just in the civie world.

Get real.

She was obviously comfortable enough to open up (pun intended) and really talk to you. Which is a good thing, I think...?

Now that is a penetrating and probing inquiry in the true since of the word.

Varoom, varoom!!! lol

I agree in that I can sometimes have the most amazing conversations while naked (literally and figuratively) with the right woman. That happened just this past week -- during an intermission while on an extended appointment, we talked about a wide variety of topics, found a lot of similarities in our life experiences and found that we had bonded a bit.

And I don't get why. Sex workers aren't virgins. They literally suck and fuck for a living. It is reasonable to assume if she has been at this for a while any successful sex worker over the course of years will bed hundreds if not thousands of men if she desires the business.

How many appointments would you say your average independent has on any given day?

Well, we know that the wrong answer is one per day (or more). That is too many according to your Yuck-meter. It is doubtful providers will want to say much now. Of course you might get an outpouring of "I'm a low volume provider". Some of that is honest, some of it is marketing. You will never know the truth, especially now that you've established a wrong answer. There is no "average". If a lady is living in Birmingham AL, I doubt her volume is high unless she has priced herself really low (because it's a small city with little tourism). In Vegas, there is a tourist season. Make hay while the sun shines, because when it's 120 degrees in the shade, it's crickets here. Each lady has a different tolerance level for letting strangers touch them. Some are nymphos with no limit. Some can't handle more than one or two in a day without feeling drained. Some providers just dip their toe in the water when they have a special need or find themselves suddenly single again. We are individuals and there is no business model that works for everyone.

Are we using hooker math, civvie math, or Al Gore fuzzy math?

.....and I'm not about to marry her I really couldn't care less who was there first, or how many of them there were. Dude, she's a hooker. It's literally her job to have sex with all different kinds of men. You knew what you were signing up for, what did you think was going to happen??? If it bothers you so much that so many other dicks were there first, then get yourself a live-in concubine (AKA: sugar baby, trophy wife), but even that's not a guarantee that she hasn't been riding the cock carousel. You'd be surprised to know that some of these civilian girls sleep around almost as much as escorts do. There ain't no more innocent girl next door types out there, it's 2017, those days are long gone. As long as you're not hitting it raw, you don't got nothing to worry about.